Question Posted Wednesday November 8 2006, 11:50 am
Okay, i made a huge mistake while my boyfriend and I were fighting, and i said i was questioning his feelings for me. I wish i never said it..because I really do believe that he loves and cares for me the way he says he does, but now like he thinks I dont trust him..how do I make him realize that I really really do believe he loves me??
Rainbow23 answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 12:38 pm: Say to him that it was a heat of the moment thing and tell him you do trust him, you should also ask him what it would take for him to know you trust him again. [ Rainbow23's advice column | Ask Rainbow23 A Question ]
confused,jealous,and..sca answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 12:22 pm: tell him you do believe him and say your sorry that you said that say you were just really mad at him at the time and you said something stupid and that you regret ever saying it. it might work it might not just let him hang out with girls by himself and prove to him that you trust him. well i hope this helps. [ confused,jealous,and..sca's advice column | Ask confused,jealous,and..sca A Question ]
FrEe2bMe answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 12:01 pm: It is often times that in the midst of a fight couples say things out of frustration, hurt, or anger that you don't necassarily always mean. The best thing to do is just talk to your boyfriend and let him know that that was the case and you didn't mean to hurt him in your words--that wasn't your intention I am sure. Explain that you do trust him (along with all the reason why you do) to reassure him of that. Tell him all the things he does that you appreciate, admire and like. The key to all of this is communication. Explain that you don't like that y'all faught, but think its okay because then y'all can take from it and grow. :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
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