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shocked...


Question Posted Thursday March 17 2005, 8:51 am

hi, remember me? I talked to you guys about this guy I like and I wasnt sure if he liked me back.
Anyway. I went to a party last night and I was shocked. I felt like I was shot twice : he smoked and he dirty-danced with a girl, you know with her butt all over him. I really thought he was different, that's why I liked him in the first place.She's not his gf cause she danced with other guys.
I really need some help...Should I ignore all this and try to get to know his personality better? Or should I move on and forget all about him?
Please don't delete this question, the answers are very important to me.


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4Gotten answered Friday March 18 2005, 12:20 am:
ok 4get this guy hes not worth it and ur good to be shocked because its not right hes messed up ur worth more than that get a guy who is clean and has better morals good luck take cares

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some_girl answered Thursday March 17 2005, 10:43 pm:
Don't bather unless your comfortable with him treating you like that. You haven't gotten to know him that well yet, just find someone better to spend your time with.

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karenR answered Thursday March 17 2005, 5:51 pm:
If you didn't like his actions at the party thats a pretty good indication that you two wouldn't get along. Look for someone else to love.

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br0kenPr0miiSes answered Thursday March 17 2005, 5:30 pm:
hi, remember me? I talked to you guys about this guy I like and I wasnt sure if he liked me back.



~you act like every other person doesnt have a question like that

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KrazieSweetLover answered Thursday March 17 2005, 4:55 pm:
normally i would say get to know him better but if you dont think the drugs and drinking ((i wouldnt blame you)) then maybe not..

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lostinside answered Thursday March 17 2005, 2:22 pm:
If it were me, I would move on. I'm one who doesn't like either of those 2 things, but that's me.

How do you feel? Do you still have feelings for him? If you do, I would get to know him better. SO many people dance dirty, it's really common. But the smoking.. ick, at least I feel that way. You should try to talk to him, find out WHY he smokes, how much etc. But I wouldn't get too crazy over him, just see what happens between you.

Hope I helped!

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angel05 answered Thursday March 17 2005, 12:57 pm:
if you do go out with him then he use you, cos i think hes the type of guy that uses people.
so just forget about him and get on with your life
hope i helped
luv nicki xxxx

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sweet_apples answered Thursday March 17 2005, 11:41 am:
well your judging form what you saw i think maybe you should try to get to him a little better if you like as much as you say you do i mean the worst that you could find out is that you shouldent have liked him in the first place

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FunkyHoMoSapien answered Thursday March 17 2005, 11:37 am:
well i'm not sure if i've helped you before, but i'm gonna help you now. ok, i dont see the dancing thing to be a bad thing, but the smoking thing should be your main priority cause dirty dancing, most of us do it, i do it. but smoking is just not right. so if you like him even tho he smokes then go for it, but if you dont want yo man to smoke then forget about him cause i dont think he gonna stop just for you. i hope i helped!

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Demon_hunter answered Thursday March 17 2005, 11:21 am:
I guess i can understand how you feel. That was NOT right for him to do. DO NOT take "I'm a guy" as an answer for this. Tell him how you feel and what the consequences are.

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