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annoying as crap!
okay well my best friend is always telling the people i like that i like them!! and she's always mean and like, yeah you have no friends, haha im just kidding! and then she says that the kid i like, matt, would never like me. and its really annoying.
And my other best friend is ALWAYS up on the guy i like. and if i stop liking them, she loses all interest. its REALLY annoying.
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I would not be their friend anymore, I would say do you know what, and you can tell her all the crap she has done to you then say you know who has no friends and you will say YOU!
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Talk to them both, tell them how you feel about it and if they continue to be inconsiderate and make nasty comments and such then you really need to think about whether you really think these girls are worth all the hasle.
I mean there's people out there willing to be your friends and actually listen to your problems and try to help and support you where as these girls are just trying to spite you by making nasty comments.
Think about it.
Good luck, hun.
♥Em
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have you tried telling your friends they annoy the hell out of you? Talking usually works if you want to know what the hell is going on.
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Tell her to take a walk in your shoes for a day.
tell her that if he really cares about you as much as it is assumed then she should support you and give him a chance.
After all it is your life not hers.
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Tell your best friend that that's not how she should be acting. a friend should have your back and be supportive at all time regardless of their own feeling. although they should be honest they shoulnever betray your trust or take the mick out of you. ask your self if she is doing this then is she really a friend? if your friend cant handle you telling her this then your friendship doesnt mean as much to her as it does to you. and as for ur boyfriend your friend probably only says these things because she likes him or knows how much you like him and doesnt want to loose you.
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don't confide in your friend
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thats so mean! try getting some other friends, some REAL freinds. even if she is just kidding, its still mean!!
Im always here if you need anything!!
leave me one in my inbox!!
Always There-
Kels
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Tell her that shes upsetting you and that you do have friend and that when ever you tell her a secret she shouldnt tell other people. Tell her that you dont no if you can carry on been friends if shes gonna be like that.
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First of all, stop telling her stuff! If she asks who you like, just smile. When she says you don't have any friends, make a similar joke, "Wow, you need to get a life. Haha, just kidding!" But don't get all Gossip Girl on her.
And as for your other friend- find a great guy for her. And don't ever tell her who you like either.
The only person you should tell who you like is your journal. Seriously.
And let Matt know friend #1 is being weird about it. If she keeps saying "it's not gonna last", let you know that if she had a boyfriend, you'd just be happy for her (which is also kinda a subtle insult), and you wish she'd do the same. Tell Matt to ignore her, and your friend will be the pissed one.
Good luck!
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ha... i hade a friend like that... she was really annoying. Dump her... no friend should say that you have no friends and say that she's just kidding... and she shouldn't say that a guy you like will never like you. I think she's just jelouce. Give her a taste of her own medicine. Cuz aperantly she is uncoftorble with her self... so get rid of her, she's no true friend!
good luck and h.i.h.
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ok just dont talk to those people again, make it seem like you have sympathy on them and dont seem dissapointed when they say stuff about you even though you are, girls dont deserve to be treated like that good luck.
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to the first friend, dont be her friend, because shes not your friend. its sounds to me like shes jealous of you. and to the second friend, dont be her friend either casue obviously shes not a friend either. but otherwise just dont tell her who you like.
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Hey.
You know what? Maybe you're right. Maybe she ISN'T supporting you. It seems to me that your "best" friends are but a bunch of people out to take what you want the most away from you. It represents overall very unstable relationships -- so what I think you need to do is -
1) Talk to both of them about it
2) Try to change it, if not ... drift away from them. You don't need such people in your life.
. Tracy
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She is not supporting you and it is depressing to know it. I have been in that exact situation before. A girl named Sarah (who I thought was my best friend) turned out to take every boyfriend I ever had until I stopped talking to her and staying away from her. You need to tell both of your friends that what they are doing is not what a friend does. Friends are supposed to watch out for each other and all they are doing is making things worse for you. The friend that is always up on who you like might just envy you. She might want to be like you or even be jealous because you get the guys who actually care about you and not date you for some other reason. Take that into consideration if you confront her about it. For your friend that is allways putting you down. realize the one who points the finger at someone is usually doing it because they feel that way about themself. you are a victim amoungst missunderstanding and low self-esteem. Know that if you talk to both of them it could get better. If not unfortunantly it won't end until you find new best friends. Hope it works out for you!! Your whole guy situation should work out great, he seems to care if he listens to you instead of them.
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Don't worry about her supprt. She's jealous.
You just go out with Matt and prove her wrong.
By the way, don't tell her anything about your relationship, and don't tell her when you like somebody. She will just start rumors or something and you don't want that.
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They really don't seem like very good friends. I mean, maybe they're fun to hang around with, but it doesn't seem like they're trustworthy or supportive. Maybe you could confront them and tell them how you feel. Honesty is the best policy.. Or you could just not tell them anything. If you don't trust them, don't feel the need to tell them anything. They seem like they don't think of your feelings..
Hope I helped!
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Your 'best friends' aren't that great. Have you talked to them about it? Maybe you should, and if they don't change than ditch them. No one likes backstabbers.
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You seriously need to tell your "friends" what's up because to me that's straight out bogus. If they're your girls, then they should be loyal to you, and you need to be able to have faith in them. Tell them what's going through your mind. If they don't respect how you feel, or if you can't get through to them, then just don't tell them anything you don't want people to know. After that you can find new friends who will actually be girls to you.
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