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help me please
theres this girl i dont just have a crush on ive nown her since well (for americans kindergarten)
(for uk reception) and i love her with all my heart she has a bf but i lov her so much i dont know what to do she gave me my first kiss and she has always been there for me but she met this guy i dont know what to do ive nearly told her i love her but chickened out help me please
ill rate huge
despratley needing help
sam
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You should tell her, don't let her slip away. Just sit her down and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't accept it and really isn't intresting then there's nothing you can do. No one can change her mind but herself. Just tell her about it and see what happens.
Good luck
♥Em
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You need to just tell her, before she slips through your hands, don't worry about her boyfriend, you shouldn't be afraid to admit your feelings to this girl if you trust her. Just sit her down and tell her, you never know what might happen.
MAd Love,
Victoria
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I know how you feel because I've been in the situation before.
If the relationahip she's in now is not serious OR you think that she might still like you, I'd tell her. You've got nothing to lose. After you've told her, you're going to have a good answer or a bad answer. If it's good then great-you've got everything you wanted. And if it's not, then though it's not great, you're in no worse of a situation than you were before. If you don't tell her, you'll regret it.
Good luck,
Sophie xxx
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if you keep bottling up your feeling then its going toget you down, either that or you will explode. the only thing you can do is take her to oneside, away from everyone so its just the two of you, look her in the eyes and tell her how you feel. even if she doesnt feel the same way at least she will know that you care for her. if she cares for you she wont dismiss it, if anything she will be deeply flattered. its the only way you will stop beating yourself up and try and find out where you stand. i say go for it!
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Why dont you wait a while untill your really to tell her that you see as more than a friend. Dont rush into it because she might not see it coming and that would be very good, Just do it carmly get her on her own and tell her that you wish that there could be something you to go do together and be able to be more than friends if shes in s serious relationship she might not want you as a boy friend mabe just a close friend but thats still better that you just been her crush because once her boy friend breaks up with her shes yours.
luv roxie
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Look you have to get her on her own and explain everything to her you can't keep eating yourself up about it do you think that she's gonna find out if you don't tell her if she feels the same then your in there if she doesn't move on I know it's hard to but i've done it loads of times trust me you got to tell her love Sophie xxxx
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Well if you really love her, tell her. Just so she knows. And i'm sure she'll understand, because she might feel the same way, so its better just to go straight out and say it.
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Hey.
Maybe you're proceeding the wrong way, Sam. Maybe you need to see this from her angle as much as from your own, though I understand exactly how you must be feeling.
This girl you like -- does she really like the guy she's with? Have you talked to her about any of this? Do you KNOW her enough to be able to talk to her about stuff like that?
My advice is -- get to know this girl you say you "love" (which in my own opinion is too heavy a word to throw around like that, but that's debateable) more, before you try to tell her you love her again. If you have to do it soon, make sure she's into you before you step into a relationship, but it's better if you wait it out and be the "best friend", meanwhile.
. Tracy
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Girls usually know when I guy likes them. But because she is a close friend of yours since childhood she may not realize how you feel. She may assume, but she might not be sure. Even though she has a bf you should tell her. It is always good to let the person know you care. I know it is hard but you should. Don't do it over the internet or over the phone or in a letter. Do it face to face. Ask her how she feels about it. Not if she cares about you the same way. if she feels the same way she will probably tell you. She will understand and will not crush your heart. Especially because you are very close friends. If she continues to date the guy she is with let her know you are always there for her and respect her feelings. If she wants to be friends respect that and let her know that you will always be there even if you don't date. Which it sounds like you would do anyways. Hope I helped
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I think that the best think you should do is to tell her you love her. You may be shy and chiken out when doing it, but if you continue to act that way then you will get nowhere in this. She probably feels the same love for you as you do her, but won't say it because she has a boyfiend. Any yeah, don't let her having a boyfriend get in the way of you sharing your true feelings with her. She'll decide what's right by following her heart, and if she wants to be with you then that's fantastic, but if she still wants to be with her boyfriend, then you have to live with that even though you may love her because you respect her and she respects you. If this doesn;t work out they way you plan, don't keep chasing after her because you will probably end up in a dead end (that's only if she doesn't want to be with you, which is hard to believe), you just have to find someone else, and more than likely, you'll be able to fall in love again when the time is right. If you have any more questions, send me a message in my inbox. I hope I helped!
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lisen you need to tell her befor this guy takes her from you and who knows she might feel the same way about you. bye
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I would just hold off saying anything until she isn't dating anyone.When they break up, jump right in there and ask her out.Don't proclaim your love for her right away that might scare her off.But as soon as she's free,don't wait around, ask her out.
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youre close friends right? keep it that way, nothing more or less, a relationship could mess things up. and if you love her tell her, just say it in a friendly way
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Aw, well definetly tell her how you feel! Girls love it when you turn out to be big ol' softies and tell then exactly how you feel! If it's all comming from your heart, I think she would definetly drop everything just to be with you! But make sure before you two get together that things are totally done with her and her boyfiend! But just tell her how you feel!
♥ Always,
Maria
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ok first of all how old are you? i kinda need that question answered,but ill just tell you what i would do in your case. first i would write her a letter since you've known her for that long im sure you know or can find out her address just right down your feelings for her, and tell her how much she means to you, because that's a lot easier than telling her! rate me~ hope i helped! ~ Lindsey
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