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Hey yall, I'm Lindsey, 14, and i just want to help people so leave me some questions, i reply really fast! I love talking to people and hanging out with my friends and family(most of the time!) soooo I'm open to all kinds of questions but please only ask if its true, dont put fake crap in here! Love yah!!
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ok im at the mal w/one of my good friends and we run into one of my old guy friends from my old skool. so he calls me and asks me to hook him up wiht my friend and i did so now they r dating. ok well the problem is that i like the guy i always have and he figuered it out and told me that he likes me A LOT too and he always had but he didnt ask me out cuz he thought i didnt like him. so now me and him are getting closer again, but hes dating my best friend who doesnt even seem like she likes him that much and part of the reason she went out wiht him was bcuz i liked him. sry if that confusing but i tried to explain it... wut should i do? (14/f)
Hey girl, ok i totally see where your coming from and you should simply talk to your friend. If the guy likes you a lot and you like him there is no need for them to be going out when you could be! Apparently they arent right for each other and you and him are. Try to talk to them both at the same time like use 3 way or sumthing, but talk to them both together and work it out. hope I helped- let me know how it goes
ok im at the mal w/one of my good friends and we run into one of my old guy friends from my old skool. so he calls me and asks me to hook him up wiht my friend and i did so now they r dating. ok well the problem is that i like the guy i always have and he figuered it out and told me that he likes me A LOT too and he always had but he didnt ask me out cuz he thought i didnt like him. so now me and him are getting closer again, but hes dating my best friend who doesnt even seem like she likes him that much and part of the reason she went out wiht him was bcuz i liked him. sry if that confusing but i tried to explain it... wut should i do? (14/f)
Hey girl, ok i totally see where your coming from and you should simply talk to your friend. If the guy likes you a lot and you like him there is no need for them to be going out when you could be! Apparently they arent right for each other and you and him are. Try to talk to them both at the same time like use 3 way or sumthing, but talk to them both together and work it out. hope I helped- let me know how it goes
hey lindz,
Well theres this girl i really like and i no sh really likes me but the thing is she lives in a different state. what should i do? i dont wanna hurt her.
anonymous
ok, hey, I'm really sorry that this girl you really like lives in a different state. If you really like her I know it will be hard to hear this, but there is a high chance that it wont work out if you decide to go out with her. I'm just trying to let you know b/c ive had experience with this situation but it was only 2 hours away, not even a state, and it didnt wokr out. So seriously think about it before you make any decisions, hope I could help. Good luck and let me know how things go.
hey lindsey well i have this friend she use to be my best friend and we did everything together then last year everything collapsed and she said she didnt want to be friends anymore so i got really upset then this year we became good friends again then it happend again now she wants me to forgive her and start hanging out with her again should I?
its best i stayed unknown
well, thats a difficult situation...hmmm, try talking to her and tell her how she made you feel about the two other times she let you down as a friend. Once she knows she may be more considerate of your feelings, if shes not then i dont think you should be friends with her if shes not going to treat you like a true friend. Hope i helped, good luck-
Heys Linds. Erm, well this is really hard to talk about. Well, here goes. I have a really bad case of irrital bowel sydrome (i.b.s.) and i really want to tell my friends about it. They're starting to wonder about my frequent trips to the potty and inability to go in cars. How can I tell them without them being totaly grossed out?
-Andrea Rodrieguez
Hey Andrea, if your friends are really your friends they wont care, and they will stay your friends. Friends are supposed to help each other and if they cant help you cope with your problem than they arent really good friends, so talk to them about it, tell me how it turns out. much love, hope I helped-Linds
Hi, Lindsey i am having mixed feelings about something and i keep hating myself for it. You see when i see a guy that most girls call cute i become aroused but it does not work when i see hot girls. I feel that i must come out of the closet but im afraid what others will think of me. I currently have a girlfriend and i dont know if i should tell her or not. What should i do?!?
-Bruse U. (14,male)
ok hey, i really hope that your kidding, and you probably are b/c you always joke around with me, but if this is ture(which its not) you should tell your girlfriend b/c its not fair for her. hope i helped, much love-Linds
hey lindsey!! ok...well i have this bf, who's a year younger than me, and i'm gonna be a freshman next year and so well be in different schools. we've been dating a lil over 6 months, and i just think we need some time apart. we fight everyday and i kinda sorta like someone else...i know that's horrible and wrong, but i dunno what to do...he's so immature and rude to people too...and i dunno i just sorta feel like i'm married.haha, it kinda sucks...but i'm afraid that if i do break up with him that i'm gonna miss him SOOO much, and it's so hard to picture him with someone else...and i love him soo much!! it's gonna be soo hard to let him go!! what do YOU think i should do?!?!
ok girl! Maybe you should take some time off, and see how it goes, it sounds like you really like him, but it also sounds like you dont like how he acts...if you take a break and see what your real feelings are then maybe you will know if you need to break up or not. Two different schools would be hard also b/c you arent seeing each other every day and the other person could be doing things that you dont know about such as flirting with other people...so i would just take the break and see how it goes, let me know how it turns out. much love, hope I helped-Linds :-)
lindsey, this is Erin hey what is Evans sn?
hey Erin, you know that you can just im me but I dont have Evans sn sorry, Linds
hi, i have a problem. i have a great bf. anways the problem is that me and my bf have been together for 7 months and i love him like crazy but one of his friends hates me cause of it.cause she likes him and always has but never had the guts to ask him out ,but then he met me and asked me out and she hates me. but i want to be her friend. i dont like having enemies.. but idkhow to get this girl to like me and to accept that me and my bf are together. another part of the problem is my bf is going to high school next year and im staying in junior high.. (8th) idk if we should break up or try to stay together. he says he never wants to break up and wont this coming up school year. but idk what to do. please help.... Genie
well genie.. I think that maybe he is a little to attached. Try to take some time off in the summer and see other people or just not be together as often, see how that works and if your ok with it then theres ur answer, but if not maybe yall are meant to be together next year. It's going to be hard but if you really love each other than you'll get through it. Good Luck, Hope I helped- Linds
Hey i have this friend who is a complete stud hes canadian and has red hair but he still is hott(and i meen hott). his name is ryan and hes in the tenth grade n e way my other friend ben plays guitar and wants to be famous but i dont think he shud bcuz he can touch his arms in the back and if he is famous he mite lose this great skill. what shud i do?
I dont think your friend would lose skill like that if he became famous, also i think you should become famous so you can help him keep his talent... or sumthing like that. I'm really not that sure how to help you, but good luck! Stay SwEeT!!
Lindsey,
Ok, i like this guy like a WHOLE lot, but its almost summer. I don't want him to feel tied down or anything if we dated durring the summer, but on the other hand if we didn't go out.. well, I don't want him to be with other girls! But, if we did go out over the summer, i dont want us to not see each other much, and have a crappy relationship! So here's my question, should I date him over the summer, or wait till school starts again to do anything??
ok girl, I think that if you talk to the guy about this and tell him how you feel. He might be feeling the same, and if you could talk about when you could see each other and stuff like that. In this situation there isn't much you can do, just be patient and if he really likes you something will happen either in the summer or at the beginning of school! Hope I helped.
i like this one girl alot but she i dont think she likes me and she wanted to go out with me but i was left heartbroken. wat should i do
ok hun, I really think you should give this girl some time. Maybe she is just really confused right now, and just needs you to be a good friend to support her and for her to lean on. Try to think optimistically, it may work out for you in the end!love ya!hope I helped~ Linds
Hey, I dont know what to do. My girlfriend is about to move to somewhere very far away,and i really love her more than anything, and i really mean that, its not just words. The problem is that another girl likes me, and i think that it would be an insult to her memory to date her after so soon losing my other girlfriend. What do you think?
First of all, I'm sooo sooo sorry that your gf is moving, and I have had experience with this b/c I had a bf when I moved here b/c we decided to try to keep the long distance relationship. It was so difficult, and if you love her you dont want her to have something else to go through, I think you should break up, but try to keep in touch and be really good long distance friends. She is going to have new friends, new people, new places, she would probably have a hard time dealing with not being with you, so if you break it off before she leaves, then it will be easier and you wont have to do it later when it would probably cause you more pain then it would have if you had done it before she left. And about this other girl that likes you, I think you should stay single over the summer and just hang out with your friends and maybe think about going out with girls in the next year. You probably need time to get over your gf leaving too, so give yourself some time. I hope I helped and I'm really sorry about your situation~Linds
Well my friend and i used to always walk up to lunch and now she is like you can just go up and them walks up with out me. i fell like im not wanted to be around her whats should i do.
Sarah
Try talking to her, because maybe shes just tired of the same old thing. Hope I helped~ Lindsey
14/f/fl
k ick im in a yuk situation... k i like this guy but my friend(we arent like best friends but we are friends..)really likes him and yeah i dont know hes kind of like off limits to anyone else...says her... so i have NO clue what to do?! should i stop liking him or what?!
-casey-
I would try talking to the girl and tell her that you have feelings for this guy, and if you really like him it shouldnt matter if she likes him to, and its kinda about what the guy wants to. hope I helped~
Heyy wat do u do if some people think me and you are on some kind of happy pill lol!!just bc we sing on stage and the other officers are trying to work doesnt mean n e thing.. LOL lindz i luv ya gurl!!
Love ya Magen
hey!!!! lol, I know ExAcTlY what you mean! lol Just go finish blowing up the beach balls and fish..haha.. and tell them they need to start taking the happy pill too~lmao~ Luv ya, yummy gummies for life!!!
okay... Im like in love with this guy but hes 5 years older than me Ive told him I liked him but the problem is he has a girlfriend but hes told me hes liked me too and he always jokes around about how were goin to get married and stuff I really really like him and I really can see myself getting married to this kid I just dont know what to do I dont know if he really likes me or if he just joking sometimes when he says stuff I ask him if he really means it and he says yes and other times he says jj but deep down I really think he might like me I mean hes even told me he wants to kiss me please tell me what you think about this ... Thanks
Maybe you should talk to him about breaking up with his gf, if he cares for you like that. I dont think you should go out with him before he does cuz thats cheating and its not nice. So talk to him about your feelings, and if he really cares about you like you think he does then he wont have a problem talking to you about it! hope I helped~ Linds
Hey Lindsay! Why do you act so ditzy sometimes?
ok for one my name is Lindsey, and two i dont act ditzy , sometimes im just a lil confused, sry if it seems im acting ditzy, i dont try to!~Linds
this girl that i like is really hott and she is going out with this popular guy who really likes this other girl because he is cheating on her. i want to tell her but the boyfriend is really big and he'll crush and i think she likes me because she always looks at me! plz help me!
sean
try asking one of your friends to talk to the girl, maybe if u dont talk to her, then her bf wont get mad at you. so ask one of your friends to talk to her about it for you, to see if shes interested in you. if she is maybe she will realize she needs to dumb the cheater shes going out with and talk to you! hope I helped~Linds
ok.. this might be long... but i have this guy friend who i like a lot.. we BOTH flirt a lot but there is this other girl who has him "off limits" and everyone can tell that he doent like it but he doesnt wanna say anything.. and i cant talk to him about it and i cant get my frineds to either... and i think he knows that i like him because my best friend told him..(some bffl) and he can do WAY WAY WAY much better than the other girl, and he knows it too.. i am just so confused.. and i dont know what to do.. please help me!
talk to the girl, and tell her how she is acting, if that doesn't work then ask some of her friends if they like her acting like that and maybe they can talk to her for you! hope I helped~Linds