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Not much to say...I am a quiet person who likes to read, play videogames, DDR, don't like TV that much, and I love to hang out with my friends.

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If a friend you like and you told them you like them but they dont like you back and you both stay good friends.

And in the futuer they get with someone and then talks about they're sex life to you and you get mad. How can i avoid them when they want to talk about it?! i get mad and i dont want to know about their sex life!!!!!!!!

Simply inform them you don't want to talk about that with them. If they are your friend they will understand. Just tell him it makes you uncomfortable.

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Well, I used to have a nice butt, but suddenly I'm losing it, and really fast. Ever sine I've been losing weight. hate it, it's going flat. So pretty much, my question is, How do I get my butt to get bigger?

Weight lifting. Not only will it tone you it makes your butt nice.

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17/male

i need a job, but no one has replied to my applications. i would really like to work in a hotel because i love hotels. my friend can hook me up with a job as a bellhop, but theres one problem..im not that strong.

should i take the job?

Yes you should. Most of the bags are on wheels, and you do more then carry bags. Plus it will increase your strength a little and just because you have that job doesn't mean you have to stick with it.

Good luck!

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Ok I am 15/f.I KNO I'm not bi, But when I see 2 naked girls kissing AND ONLY KISSING it really turns me on.On the internat.Is this normal?
~Athena

Not its not normal. You should get some help, or you can ignore it and stick to only being with guys.

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if you clench your muscles a lot will they get bigger and the fat around them start to disappear?

My dad says that works and he is pretty huge. But that could also be because he is a construction worker. If a parent says it works go with it usually.

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my guy friend really can't dance, we want to teach him how, any tips for teaching him to dance?

Make sure he wants you on his own and is not just doing it to impress you. Don't force him to either. There might be a guide in wikihow.com.

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well, i will be taking chemistry. I heard it was a very hard class, and i would like to know what to be prepared for. What basic things should i all ready know when going into the class, and what should i memorize (the periodic table???) Is there a lot of math work, and how hard would u rate it 1-10?
also, i'm taking physcology next year. If anyone's ever taken it, could you tell me what you do in the class? (I know what it is, i just want to know about the class) please, and thank you. =D

NEVER EVER MEMORIZE THE PERIODIC TABLE!
In chemistry you will always have one with you. What you should know is a little bit about the history (Neils Bohr, Aristrole, and Mendelleve's contributions). You should know how to balance chemical equations and how to find their neutrons, protons, and electrons. You should know how to find the Mol and do stoichiometry.

At least that is most of what I learned in a Grade 10 Advanced Science class (Did not specialize in chemistry but our teacher, who teaches chemistry next year spent a lot of time on it)

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ok i heard this myth that if an elevator breaks down and then when it starts to fall, if you jump before it hits the first floor, then you wont get hurt. is that true?

You are moving at 9.81 m/s^2 all the time because of gravity.
If the elevator is speeding up and you jump then it will be longer and hurt you more.
Regardless of what you do in a crashing elevator you will get hurt. Sucks doesn't it?

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Firstly, I'm bi, female, and really really confused. I like these two people.
First, this girl. She's three years older, but she tried to have sex with me at this party. Now I really want her. She says I'm too emo, and I take things to seriously, and I want attention. How can I NOT be that?
The second is my best guy friend. He's one year older, and tells me every time I see him that I'm his best friend. I've liked him for more than two years, and it just gets worse when I'm around him. I just want to kiss him. If I did though, he'd freak out. He used to like this girl who's four years younger, a friend of his sister's, but now he doesn't. I wish that I could get him to like me, but I'm afraid he'll break my heart. What do I do?
I know this is really stupid, and I doubt I'll get any answers, but I just feel like giving up, and goign to live in Iceland.
Lastly, I feel like maybe if I lose weight, one of them will love me, but I know thats not really true. I feel like if I eat anything though, I'm this horrible person. I always promised myself I wouldn't be image concious, but I feel huge and overweight, even though my friends tell me otherwise.
Please Please Please help.

Go with the guy. Always go with the guy. If he breaks your heart then he isn't worth it and move on and eventually you will find the right guy.

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i'm not sure why, but i just so happen to be a girl that moans and breaths heavy a ton during anything sexual with my boyfriend... should i try to contain myself, or do you think my boyfriend enjoys it?

Guys really really really love that.

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ok...so i just just got over this guy after liking for like a couple of monthes...right now no one likes me...I NEED HELP.. wut do i do

Meet new people, become friends with them, and then maybe more. You also might want to study English a little bit more.

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my thighs are kinda fat. i dont like it. i play soccer and run but it dosnt seem to be helping. what can i do to make them skinnier?

Keep up with what your doing! Also try Dance Dance Revolution. Its expensive but fun, and some versions keep track of your weight and how much calories you have burnt. Even the easiest mode makes you sweat alot to loose those thighs. Thighs are the hardest thing to keep slim so just keep working!

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Hey evreyone!.

So i have a werid feeling im gettin mono..
Does it start off feeling like a cold?

Anyways.
What are some things that woudl tell me if i had mono without going ot the doctor (i will if i get worse dont worry)

I'm tired a lot
my throat/ears/head hurts..
& i get on & off stomach aches..
that hurt like crazy at times...

So could you tell me if you have an idea.. I know no ones a docotr here but yea..

PS. I started out the same way sorda last time i got sick btu i wasnt tired and my head wasnt hurting. and the doctor said ic ould possibly have mono exept teh fact im not tired kinda through it off but it turns out i never had it.. this is deffrently not what i had last itme.. Ive had not enought sleep-just the right amount- and too much this week an dim stiill tired.. blahh please help.

I suggest going to a doctor. In the mean time read all about the disease. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infectious_mononucleosis

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i'm 14/f. i'm 5'3" and 115 pounds. i love to stay in shape and eat healthy, etc. i don't want to exercise too much and get sick or anything. i always make sure to drink enough water before, during, and after exercising. people. i have heard that 30 minutes of physical activity per day is healthy, but i don't know a specific answer for my body type. i normally spend 20-30 minutes every few days on this schwinn stationary bike thing. what is a normal and safe amount of exercise per day for me?

Well by the looks of things you are of normal weight and should keep doing what your doing.

Rate if I helped
---montrealfan

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Hi,
I’m 25 years old female. I come from Arab Muslim country. I’m suffering from family violence and I’m planning to run away from this hell..Do you think Human Rights Agencies in other countries, Canada for example, will be able to help me in any way?

Thanks.

Well I am not sure but if you can find a Canadian sponsor I think they will let you come here. Also you could get refuge status. Something like that. I am no expert in immigrating to Canada. I think there were six services offered to immigrants coming to Canada or something. Also Canada has a point system needed to allow you to come here and being 25 that gets you a point for being working age and speaking English (Well you write it pretty good) would get you some points but I am not sure how much.

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Hola! I've been playing the guiatr for 3 monthes now, and i doubt my mom will get me lessons so i ahve to learn to play myslef, does anyone know any easy, VERY EASY songs i could play? Or any tips at all, anything! thanks!

Well Kumbya is pretty easy. It only uses the A, D and E cords. If you want pick up a book called guitar for dummies. It helps alot. Also Swing low sweet chariot uses 4 chords I belive. Em, G, A, D but once you learn Kumbya playing that is a snap.

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Im looking for a pair of wireless headphones for my ipod. Can anyone tell me where to buy good ones? Which brands are the best? How much do they cost? Whats your opinion on them, if you have them?

I can only help you with where to buy. Best buy, Future shop, and Walmart are the best places. Hope I helped!

--Montrealfan

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right, i know people wont like this question as 100's of other people ask the same thing. but i actually do need to lose weight, i need to loose 36 pounds to be my right weight for my height.

my career actually depends on this, i want to join the army or royal marines (i live in the UK) so yeah this needs to happen by about this time next year.

i am so desperate to do this healthily and slowly so i won't put all the weight back on.

i just have NO willpower at all, i say i wont eat chips/chocolate/fizzy drinks.. and i do i just can't help it.. i think im also addicted to carbs i can't stop eating potato based foods.. chips/fries/chocolate that kind of stuff.

so if any one has any tips on how to stick to this, i know what i have to eat/excersise etc but how can i stick to this and not give into carbs??

thanks soooooo much x x

Well for sticking to eating healthy you just have to find a healthy food that tastes good for you. For me it was carrots and then carrots and dip. Bannas are also tastey. You just have to go buy the food and put it somewhere you can see it and take your junk food and keep it somewhere or have your parents put the junkfood away somewhere. For your fizzy drink problem you can drink diet pop. For your potato problem I would say just eat mash potatoes instead of everything else. Sticking to exercising do not stop I mean keep going until you feel you can't no more. Also listening to music helps you achieve this. I suggest Megadeth. Hope you loose the weight and once you complete your exercising for the first time you will feel great! Its a chemical thats released after you exercise lots that makes you be happy.

---Montrealfan http://montrealfan.blognow.ca
If I helped rate high!

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It would be cool if only boys answered this question as I guess they would know best...
What do guys look for in girls? Hair, makeup, clothes? A certain way of acting? Anything that you guys like? I rate, and thanks in advance

Well they got to look hot. long hair I guess. Also you have to have big you knows (99% of guys are shallow) Also a way of acting would be talking to them being interested in everything they say and think there hot. Be flirty!

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ok so lately after i dry then straighten my hair and go to brush it and its really staticy and starts like sticking up..is there anyway to stop it from sticking? thanks so much!!

I had the same problem and spraying water on it helped make the hair go down...and jell.

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