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Ok now well i have been with this kid whom we'll call john and my ex we'll call jack.Ok me and john have been together for about 3-4 weeks and i was with my ex for 5 months then we broke up in january but lately i have begun to get old feelings back for jack but we are BOTH in a relationship so i wrote him a letter after john left for florida basically asking him out and i am waiting for right now but the prob is if it doesn't work out should i tell john when he comes back about what i was secretley doing?? plz help i only have a couple of days left!!!
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well it seems to me that you never really got over ex and i think that you should end it with you current boyfriend. but if your willing try it again then let him know what you did but really the truth is that you cant help who you fall in love with and somebody always gets hurts in the end so my advice is if you love somebody and you think they feel the same do every thing to get and keep it b/c love is rare love you always sweet apples
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well i know this is not the correct moral thing to do but i wouldnt, but if you tell john about this which is the best thing to do, then you wont have the fear of him finding out later and getting mad, and if he gets mad, hes not worth it, but im not saying that he shouldnt be a little angry because it was kind of bad what you did sorry to say just tell him that it wont happen again and meen it.good luck laters
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No. No reason to hurt his feelings.I'd just keep quiet about it and hope the ex doesn't say anything to him about it.
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ok well you are in a hole but i think you should tell your bf, he has a right to know and if you love jack then don't lead another guy on, hope i helped ~ Lindsey
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Well if it doesnt turn out good, like he doesnt go back out with you...then yes, keep it a secret. But hopefully Jack wont tell your new bf about what you did. Now, if you dont like John anymore dont stay with him..if your unhappy, leave him!
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It is perfectly natural to have feelings for old flings or even random people. Acting on them on the other hand is a hard decision. If it the whole thing works out for you I am happy for you but if it doesn't you have to choose between telling or not. Personally I would tell john because it would drive me crazy if I didn't. It might make your relationship stronger if you both get through this but it can also weaken it. If you do decide to tell him you should chose a right time and place, when he is in a good mood. If you do it the wrong time then he may over react. If I were you I would tell him, no matter what.
Hope it all works out!!
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