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my friendship is going down the drain please help
Okay now I dont want to sound too sluty but yesterday I went some where with my friend and when we got there it was this really cute boy there. Now he was flirting with me(rubbing my leg and holding my hand) but the bad part of all this is he was doin gthe same to my friend, when we went outside, we actually made out. When we got back to my friends house she told me that they made out! Now I don't know if that is true or not because they were never really alone together bu twhat if it is true? I have to see this boy every thursday, and I think we both like him, but who does he like??? PLEASE HELP ME
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i think he's just playing with you and your friend and is a total flirt!!
hope i helped
luv nicki xxx ♥
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how would anyone on advicenators know the answer to that question. it sounds to me like hes just a flirt, but you said he made out with you and thats a fact. your friend apparently made out with him too, she could just be saying that cause shes jealous or it could be the truth. who knows. it doesnt sound to me like hes worth it, but your the only one who can find out if he likes you, and you cant do it by asking us.
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This is what we call a player. They come in between two friends and split them apart. He may be cute and funny and sweet to you but he is with every other girl. if he really cared about either of you, then he would choose. but he didn't and won't. It will only drive your friendship apart. It happened with my best friend. Only there were a few more reasons but the guy was the main part. In the end he left both of us (at different times). So we both lost and now we don't even talk because we can't trust each other. If you do not want this to happen to each other then ignore him and don't even look at him. Hope you stay friends and he goes away.
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ok this guy is messed up if this is true what your cousin is saying, i am a guy and i know what he is thinking, he is thinking that he has two girls and which ever one of you doesnt go out with him, he will go with the other dont bother with him girls shouldnt be treated like that good luck laters.
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Well, he evidently thinks he can have you both.IF your friend is being truthful.Is she usually? If so i'd be headed the other way next time I seen him coming.
After all, if he's going to make out with your FRIEND, while you're right there, what's he going to do behind your back?
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You 2 could ruin your friendship over something so stupid. No boy should come in between you two.SISTAS BEFORE MISTAS!l0l-this guy happens to sound like a player so just stick to your friend ship instead of hurting yourself and your friend.
x0x-Sarah
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Your friendship might as well go down the drain if you and your friends are going to be nasty and make out with "some cute boy somewhere." Your brain is going down the drain too, don't make out with strangers or you will be a slut, because all sluts just do whatever they want with a guy whether they know him or not. That guy is 'slut' too, just makes out with every girl he sees, so he likes every girl he can get his hands on, so I'm telling you that you don't have anything special with this guy, and neither does your friend.
-TheTeenGirl
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hes playing both of you..i think your friendship is more important..
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I think that the most important thing at the moment is the friendship between you and our friend and tell her that hes been doing the same stuff to you as he has her and that you dont want the friendship of you to to end up in tears because she means more to you than just someone who is there for you.
luv roxie
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Just talk to your friends, ask her about yesterday, dont' sound like your diliberately looking to see if they really made out or not, just see if she mentions it again. She might be just jealous that you've hooked up with someone and she didn't, or this guy may be just a jerk. I'd find out if I were you though, because if it true and you get serioud with this guy you may have some problems with cheating.
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Try not to take this too personally. I am actually answering your question with the truth. Who really cares? He doesn't. The boy wants sex and doesn't care which of you he gets it from. If you're willing to try a threesome he may agree to that. What do you want? If it's a relationship forget it. Either of you ladies, forget it. If you want a hump-buddy I'd say this is your guy, but expect to share.
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now is your friend a liar, now if she not you can back off of him and let her have him be the bigger person and walk away. well i hope this helped you kriddle06 have fun
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honey it seems to me that hes playing you and your friend you know turning friend against friend you dont need a guy like because it sounds to me that hes trying to get both of you so discourge him and keep your friendship
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Well, nect week on thurday ask him "Hey do you like my friend?" and taht will answer your question. If you dont want to do that then just be flirty and more with him but dont stalk him you know?
Always there..
DOnna
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