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Gone but still
Hey, um, I used to go out with this dude and like we loved each other a lot. When we broke up it hurt like shit loads and like I still love him. But I hide it from all my friends and everything. I still have dreams about him and I can't stop thinking about him. Like long story short, I still love him like a lot. I've told many people that I have gotten over him and that I love someone else and whatever. But truth is I haven't. How can like how can I forget about him and just move yet like just be friends with him. Because everytime I try to get over him, but like the next time I see him I fall for him again. How can I just look at him as a friend rather than as a boyfriend or as a crush? How can I move on?
Signed, Troubled Child
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this happened to me once it took me a while but then I just remember that theres no point in moving back you've got to move foward put it behind you I know it's hard it took me almost a year but when you finally get over him it will be worth it
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It is always hard to get over someone. Time helps but it sucks because it is a very slow healer. It will get easier once you really do move on with your life. Don't go out looking for a bf just to move on, be happy being independent for a while. Once a guy worthy of your attention comes along, then yes, you will move on naturally and it will be much easier to put the ex into perspective. Friendship is easier once you have both moved forward. In the meantime, there is no magic formula to help you forget him. Just keep yourself occupied with things that don't involve him and try and make the most out of every day and every moment. Enjoy life as you are as much as possible.
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First off.. dont lie to people about how you feel.. your just lying to yourself! Let your emotions out and try talking to him about it.. weather its in person.. on the fone.. or online! Mayb hes feeling the same way and jsut doesnt know how to say it. Just tell him taht you think you still love him. If it turns out taht he doesnt feel the same way =[.. try as much as it hurts to just MOVE ON! Good luck! xox
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I SOOO KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!!! i just went through the same thing not too long ago. it sicked so bad and it was so hard!what you should try to do is like someone else. thats what i did. and i got a boyfriend out of it. now i am totally over the boy that i used to like and i'm just his friend. and if that doesn't work u think you should talk to him about your feeling and see what he thinks, that might help you too. well tell me what happenes and if you need any other advice you can just E-mail me at sheri06405@netzero.com .
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hi jenny lol
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