Me and this guy use to go out. He broke up with me and I didnt see him for a long time. I was in love with him, we started talking again and we hug and flirt and talk but theres this other girl he does some of that stuff with too. I still have feelings for him, everytime I see him I always think god he's hot, and think about how much I care for him. But wut do I do? I need him back, he's like all I ever think about.
karenR answered Saturday March 19 2005, 12:22 am: Sounds to me as if he still considers you a friend at the very least.I would maybe ask him how he feels about giving it another try, see what he says.Since he treats others the same though Don't get upset if he doesn't feel the same.But you need to know one way or the other so you can move on or not. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
4Gotten answered Friday March 18 2005, 11:33 pm: i would say just ask him out again tell him how much you still care about him, if you tell him how you feel, he will see that you are serious about this, but do it fast because if the other girl asks him out, then youll be out of luck lol good luck. [ 4Gotten's advice column | Ask 4Gotten A Question ]
harpist4u answered Friday March 18 2005, 11:22 pm: First of all i am in the same situation and I am sorry you have to deal with it. Second of all I thought I needed the guy I liked. But now I know I don't sure i like him but if I am just sitting here waiting for him to come to me, I am not going to wait. Think about it, if he wanted to be back with you as much as you love him wouldn't he just go to you? I understand you think you can't live without him but didn't you live without him before yall dated? It is hard to realize that we can be independant after allowing ourselves to fall into this belief we HAVE to be with someone. It is as if we latch onto someone and can't get off because we never try. Once we realize we can be on our own and be fine we move on or we find someone else to latch onto. If you love him, tell him, talk to him. That way he at least knows, then it is up to him and how he feels to decide whether to date you again or not. At least that way you know whether you are holding onto false hopes or real ones. Hope I helped!! [ harpist4u's advice column | Ask harpist4u A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Friday March 18 2005, 2:40 pm: Get over him hes not worth you take some you time and spend it with your friend pigging out on the couch and watch some films go bowling or swimming just keep your self busy and then u'll realise that hes not worth it and you could do better.
Judy101 answered Friday March 18 2005, 2:38 pm: I am in the same situation, but now i have a different boyfriend. Even when im with another guy i still cant stop thinking about this one guy. I dont think he feels the same way. Just know that everything happens for a reason and if it wasnt meant to be than it wasnt meant to be. [ Judy101's advice column | Ask Judy101 A Question ]
lilcutie1212 answered Friday March 18 2005, 9:26 am: Heyyyy ok heres my advice. This guy is just a big flirt I mean he doesnt have feelings for you heis just a flirt and he does flirt with you but also with other girls to. You need to get over him and find some one who truly cares about u and only u.This may seem harsh but i been through this also so just find someone new.
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*~Brittany~* answered Friday March 18 2005, 2:40 am: ok i had this same problem ok first of all you need to find a guy that you can make him jealous with ok and be like all over him and then he will notice your taking and guys love things they can't have ok so he will start noticing things about like you perfume you cloths etc. then when he wants you back just tell the other guy its not working out and then get him hooked up with one of you friends..................works out for everyone [ *~Brittany~*'s advice column | Ask *~Brittany~* A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Friday March 18 2005, 1:06 am: I think that you should stop being this guys friend, not that its bad that you are his friend, but its definetly not good for yourself, you want him so bad, it probably hurts you when you know that he does things with another girl. But, the only way to get over someone, is to not being around them, and I think that you should either see if hes at all interested in you, or just try getting over him, if you need help with an option you choose, go on and ask me in my inbox.
lostsoul_forever answered Friday March 18 2005, 12:27 am: Ok, have you at least told him what you still feel for him?! Because if you truely want him back, then you have to tell him how you feel about him still. Like come on! Think chick! If you truely care for him and love him, then just tell him and like yeah! Just like try going into the deep water and get out of the shallow parts!
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