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Question Posted Friday March 18 2005, 5:50 pm

well my friends suck, theyre always rude to me and get on my nerves. i try to help with their problems but they just act like im an idiot. anyway, i try to meet new people and talk and get together but no one wants to..and they already have best friends. what do i do?

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vballchic89 answered Saturday March 19 2005, 1:13 pm:
Sounds like your friends aren't really... friends. If they are rude to you, try sitting them down and talking to them about it. If things still don't get better, then I think it is time to find new friends. Try finding some that have the same interests and have things in common with you. As for trying to make new friends, are you taking things to fast? Maybe they don't want to get together because they barely know you and trust you. Or, maybe they already have plans. Try letting them know a week or so earlier when to get together to be sure they know about it and don't make other plans. Remember, to have a friend doesn't mean you have to be best friends. Give it time, things will work themselves out. :) Best of luck!

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mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday March 19 2005, 6:23 am:
Talk to you friends tell them that you dont like the way they treat you and that when every you try and help them they act like you an idiot which your not. Mabe you could move into another class and make more friends just try be more out going and try getting in with other girls and then you will have loads of friends invite a couple over from your school for some time and watch a film or listen to music.

luv roxie

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4Gotten answered Saturday March 19 2005, 12:44 am:
um, thats a good question i dont know what to say sorry but just keep looking, you will find somone who does and then they will introduce you to other friends and there you go, i know thats a mom answer but it works, and i will be your friend:) just add me if you have hotmail add arsenic_4_@hotmail.com im a nice guy lol but seriously im nice and im 13 and i am nice lol good luck laters.

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karenR answered Friday March 18 2005, 11:08 pm:
It's hard to give advice to your friends. They really don't want your opinion most of the time, they just want you to agree with them! Right or wrong.

If they are rude to you, be rude right back and don't tell them anything. They will get the message and straighten up.

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zachary answered Friday March 18 2005, 8:36 pm:
just become friends with someone you already know..but it isnt your 'good' friend. then become friends with their friends, and before you know it..you gotta pot full of em.

zack

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FlaWlessMonoLith answered Friday March 18 2005, 8:11 pm:
you can suck too haha

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partygurl24 answered Friday March 18 2005, 6:55 pm:
Friends, Friends , Friends. I understand where you're coming from completely. I have a freind who most of the time underestimates me becausse she thinks that she's smarter than everybody else when I've shown that I'm as smart as she is, and maybe even smarter (got a higher GPA than her). Although I feel that she's at fault, I haven't comfronted her about it because I'm not sure how she would feel, but you have got to be brave and confront them. You know that you're not an idiot, so ask them why they think you are one because hey, you could be the best advice giver in this planet! If they can't change and stop hurting your feeling like they're doing now, then I think they're not true friends. I know you will find other good friends that also have bad friends, and you have got to know one thing, you can have more than one best friends. You might just make friends with that other person also. Talk to them, and then go from there. I wish you the best of luck! If you have any more questions...post me a message in my inbow and I'll answer i ASAP!!!

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blujay answered Friday March 18 2005, 6:44 pm:
hey dont even sweat it because if they are really your friends they wont just act like total asses to you. to tell you the truth its kinda happining to me but its kinda best we move on.

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Sherry answered Friday March 18 2005, 6:35 pm:
Well, just keep trying to make new friends! Join a club, sport, whatever...Just because some people already have best friends does not mean their NOT looking for more friends. People always love to get new friends! If people dont want to get together with you because their busy or something, ask them when they have time! And about your sucky friends, well...tell them how you feel and if it seems like they dont care, blow them off! You'll make friends, just be patient. Sorry if I didnt help much...leave something in my inbox if you need any more help. And if you can, keep me updated!

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