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I have this "friend"that talks behind my back!!! she even said she hated me, to my other friend!!!I don't know what i did?!! When i try to talk to her all she does is say "i don't need advise I'm not rude so shutup!!!" I think she is also a show off to impress me and my best friend!! How can i solve this?!!!
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i had a friend like that once... and i let it slide and stuff and eventually i fought her and yeah... now shes not even apart of my life anymore and i hater her.... its not really advise.. just.. .dont let it keep slideing... dump her.. .shes not worth it you can make other friends its not as hard as it seem s.... Tiffany
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Ok, dump this friend. Ok, if she's talking behind your back, then forget her! I mean, come one! What kind of friend is that? Just forget her, if you don't want to do that, then just make her listen to what you have to say! Good luck!
The Loner, Loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M...enjoy...
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this so called "friend" of yours isn't really acting friendly. i think you should talk to her about it. tell her you know that she talks about you behind your back and that you think it's rude and don't think that's being a good friend. if she lies and says she doesn't then tell her that you guess you were lying when you said you were friends. hope i helped. tell me how it goes.
yours truly,
kris
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I think that if she talks behind your back shes not a right good friend sounds like shes two-faced and she need to stop before she has no friends left. Tell her that if she was a friend she would be there and help you but shes not doing that at all shes just making some things even worse than they already are.
luv roxie
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That is not a friend!! That person should not exist in your world anymore! Say bye bye!
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Your best solution is never talking to her again, and not taking her back when she comes crawling to you. You tried to talk to her, that didn't work, so now, its time to tell her goodbye. Trust me, shes very rude, and doesn't deserve any friends.
-TheTeenGirl
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Talk to her in a different way. confront her with proof that she is talking behind your back. Tell her that it offends you and if she were a real friend she wouldn't do it to you. Ask her if she is your friend. Also ask her questions like:what did i do to you to make you hate me? Why are you doing this? Why can't we just be friends, is it that too hard to ask for? Don't confront her with an attitude just be neutral. It is easy to get mad and yell at her but that only makes matters worse. Just talk to her in a neutral tone that she can't twist and minipulate to make her look better and you worse. If that doesn't work, then just ignore her all together and just tell her if she can't be a true friend there is no point in trying to act like being friends. Good Luck!!
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ok, this is really easy, just dont ever talk to her or consider her a friend anymore, dont talk about her behind her back because that just makes you as bad as her, just pretend like she was never in your life she was just anuther girl at school and always look happy around her so she feels even worse that your not getting hurt by what shes saying, trust me it works, i have done it lol good luck hope it helps.
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Wow. Well, I think that yes your friend is wrong because real friends don't talk behind your back, and tell the other friend that she hates you. When you talk to her, you tend to just give her advice, and not really see her point of view in this, but instead call her rude. I think that's not how you should go about this situation because it will just make htings worse. Talk to her and ask her why she doesn;t like you. See where she's coming from and what her problem is so that you guys can resolve it like mature friends. Remember, let her speak her side of the story. If you have any more questions, send me a message in my inbox. I hope I helped!!!
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You just ignore her when she show's off. Don't give her an audience and maybe she'll stop the performance.
I guess if she talks behind your back you just don't tell her ANYTHING good. Make her wonder wht you aren't talking to her. When she asks give it to her. Tell her she can't be trusted not to talk behind your back so you just won't be telling her anything.Hopefully, she will get the message.
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hey..i'd ditch her. she sounds like someone you'd be better off without. just casually drop her, and find some real 'friends'.
zack
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she sounds like a bitch, just leave her alone, you have better friends then that
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Honestly, I don't think she's a very good friend.. from what you're saying anyways. If she was your true friend she wouldn't talk behind your back, nevermind say she hated you! I would try finding some new friends. Or maybe try working things out between you two if you feel she is truly a good friend.
Hope I helped!
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"YOU!!!" CAN!??!! STOP shouting!!!??? ALL THE???!!!!!TIME!!!!??? MAYBE?!!!!
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