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hey guys! i'm christie aka kris. i'm 14, i live in louisville and i have brownish hair. i'M single n lOokin! but anyway. i started this advice column because people IM me all the time with their peoblems and i try my best to solve them. and my friends think i give good advice so that's why i started this page. so if you ever need some advice you know where to come. i'll give advice to anyone! and if you don't want it shown on my column then just email me your problem/question. although i do encourage you to put it in my column, but you don't have to if you feel discomforted. so i'll try my best to respond to every question as soon as possible with my best effort to answer it. thanks for visiting. come back soon and always know that i'm here for you!

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do guys think its hott or nott for girls too make ther first move??

i honestly don'T know! but i personaLly think guys are tOo shy to make the first move so i would recomMend yOu do it! but do what ever feels right to you!! hope i helped!
xO..kRis!

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Lately i have been feelin reli lonely kuz of wat i heard otha kids been doin. a ton of ppl have bfs or gfs. Well i haven't had a gf n a long time. N i reli reli RELI want one bad. I like this gurl but she has a bf n i told her that i liked her the otha day. N her n her bf have only been goin out for like 3 or 4 weeks n r movin fast. so i don't kno wat to do kuz i always feel like a loser n that every1 but a few certain ppl hate me n i am very lonely i reli want a gf that i can hold go places wit n tt.

Wat can i do???

The lonely hated loser

yea i'm really sorry but i can't help you! because i am goin through the exact same thing sept not everyone hates me! but i really want a b.f bad n i haven't had one in forever n bein single sucks! n i just want someone to hold me n call me baby! so yea i can't help you! i'm really sorry! but i know exactly how you feel n i would try to comfort you but idk what to say to do that cause i need the comfort too! hope everything works out for you tho! sorry again that i couldn't help!
xo..kris!

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theres a boy who i noe, i really like him, n i noe he likes me. well he broke up with his girlfreind, which is my friend, n we went on a feild trip to a cave, and he was touchin my butt and stuff like that, i didnt care but then wen we got back on the bus, he was touching all over my leg and tickling me like no other!!!some one told me they were goin to ask him if he likes me, but wat should i do, keep flirtin, or back off until i no he trully likes me n im not just some one to flirt with???

just keep f;irtin n see what's up. if he likes you keep flirtin until somthin happens, if not just act like your normal self n don't act weird around him! me best friend told me that last piece of advice and it helped me so hopefully it'Ll help you too! hope i helped!
xO..kRis!

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okay, my best friends boyfriend rides my bus, i flirt with him he flirts with me, but, he still goes out wit my best friend! i like him, and a couple of my friends say he likes me, wat should i do!! if he asks me out wat do i say, yes no bc its my best friend!! please help
hopefully not a backstabber!

if he likes you and asks you out when he still goes out with your best friend tell him no! and tell your friend that he asked you! she would like to know this so that she can dump him!! but if he asks you out after he's dumped your best friend wait a week or so n then you can go out with him! cuz i personally think it'S ok to go out with your friends ex but not right after they'Ve broken up!! hope i helped!
xO..kRis

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Hey, I have a crush on this boy and i'm going to write him a note and ask him out, but what should the note say?

the note should tell him how you feel about him and how long you've felt like this. then you should just be like and i was wondering if you wanted to go out with me? love, whoever. hope i helped!
much x3..kRis

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the guy i like was at this party with me and my other friends the other day and we were all hanging out cuz hes my reelly good friend and my friend had never met him before but she knew i liked him and all, but she now likes him and ive known for alot longer than she has. so today he was all "its too soon" and so that made me reelly happpy, but then i felt bad b/c shes my friend and all and i dont want to lose a friend over a guy.Any ideas about what i should do?

tell your firend exactly how you feel. tell her everything. it's the right thing to do no matter how hard it might be. you'll feel better afterwards and that will help you figure out how this situation's going to end. hope i helped!
much x3_kRis

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Hi Kris! Well i seem to b kinda of a loser at my school. always gettin reli good grades. like str8 A's. i luv getting good grades and all. But i can't seem to find any gurls who like me 4 who i am. not 4 bein cute(porb think i am ugly) or my personallity. I jus don't kno wat 2 do. every gurl i like that finds out seems 2 give excuses like i don't wanna hurt r friendship n stuff. and i reli want a gf bad. n i havn't ever been kissed b4. Can u help???
Loserboy!

dear loserboy
try and ask those girls why they don't like you. their answers could tell you what you need to improve on. and some of it could just be that girls like bad boys. and it's not your fault you aren't bad you just would rather be smart and mature and someday a girl will fall for that. even if it isn't anytime soon. you could try to change your look too ask some girl friends about that too. hope i helped!
much x3_kRis!

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okay me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months and i love him to death there's only one problem. school if starting up soon and im worried about him cheating on me. i don't know if i should trust him and believe him when he says he won't cheat on me or break up with him when school starts what do you think. see i know girls that go to his school but last time i asked them if he cheated on me they said yeah even though it wasn't true they was just saying it so we would break up because they all sweat him. so if he did cheat on me there then i ain't gonna know unless they tell me but i won't know rather to believe him or not. i mean i believe he won't cheat its jus one time when we went out my cousin said he cheated on me even though he said he didn't so i believed him cause i thought she was making it up! but im love him a whole lot and im so confused about this what do you think i should do!? --confused!

dear confused
you should trust him! i mean if he says he didn't cheat then he didn't and he won't. just trust him. and if he does cheat then it's his loss and he's not gonna have a good time gettin girls! hope i helped!
much x3_kRis!

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Ok i like this guy named Robert and he likes me. But he just started to like my best friend and i think he really likes her,but he still sais he likes me too. Me and my friends were playing Truth or Dare at my house yesterday and one of the questions that my friends asked him was who would you want to go to graduation with or go out with. and he said michelle(my best friend that he likes). and then he sais that im to tall for him and thats why he picked michelle. but my friend doesnt like him and she sais she would never do that to me because she knows how much i like him. i am 13 and almost at the end of grade 7.Oh yeah and im a girl lol(u said to include those things lol) but he is really sweet and i like him alot but he just wont ask me out! i meen whats the point on just likeing someone if your not going to ask them out if they are to tall for u! i just dont get it. well there is only 8 days of school left and i need a way for some one to help me get him to ask me out. i need advice please help me :'(

i know i'm late and i'm really sorry!!! so this advice is probably useless but i would make the move. ask him out! guys like it when a girl makes the first move! and again i'm really sorry!!! i'Ve just been swamped!
much x3_kRis!

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I found out my boyfriend made out with another girl while we were going out. He told me he was "caught up in the moment" and that it was only a one time thing. I REALLY like him and hes always telling me he loves me and is sorry for hurting me.. if he askes me out again what should I say?

i think that if you love him enough to trust him when he says he won't break your heart again, then go for it! if you don't just forget about him and move on! sorry it's so short, but that's the best advice i can give! hope i helped! tell me how it works out!
you know you love me,
.:*:.kris.:*:.

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hey,
ir ealyl lyk this guy n my friend just started lykin him n now she goes out with him should i stop lykin him r not?!
**cOnFuSeD**

dear confused! omga! that is like exactly what's happening with me! okay so my ex-boyfriend of a year and a month just broke up last tuesday! so then like that thursday my friend bailey starts flirting with him and rubbing in how they had gone out for three years and all that shit! so i get mad and now they go out! so i mean i'm always gonna love him, but i think i'm over him now! i think you should stop likin him! but it's your decision! if you think they won't work out stick with it! if you don't feel strong feelings for him tho, get over him! hope i helped! tell me how it goes!
you know you love me,
kris

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Today i dont know what to think or who to trust! The first thing I found out is a guy i have a crush on told a whole lot of people who i used to like. Now i want to kill him. The second thing that happened is my friend handed me a note that she found on the floor that read and I quote
A Certain SOMEONE is acting certianly diffrent since she made a certain cheerleading squad
Yea i know cough cough ***** (it said my name)
I have no idea who it was but i have a feeling it was two close friends. PLEASE HELP!!!!

-Who to trust

Dear Who to Trust,
That's horrible that your crush would do that! It's mean! Anyway! Talk to him and tell him that it hurt your feelings! Tell him how you feel! And if he doesn't understand, the hell with him! Now about this note! If you think it's two close friends confront them! Ask them to tell you the god-honest truth as to if they did it or not! IIf they say they didn't ask them to swear on your friendship that they didn't, then find out who it really was! If they admit to saying it thank them for telling the truth and tell them how that made you feel and that nobody's perfect! hope I helped! let me know how it works out!
you know you love me!
X..kris..X

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why do guys break up with girls just to go with their ex- girlfriends?

honestly, i don't know! i've wondered that too! it could be because some of em are jerks! but some of the guys dump girls to go out with their ex-girlfriends because they might've loved them and first loves never end! so that's the best i can tell ya! n if you want me to i can ask a guy! well hope i helped!
you know you love me,
kris

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hey I am 12 and I go to doerre middle.my boyfriend and Ihave been ging out for 1 week.I know that doesn't seem long but he has all ready told me that he loves me and never wants to let me go.But at my school he is frinds with a lot of girls witch doesn't bother me because I am friends with alot of guys. I have found out in the past week that alot of girls like him.Even some that were suppused to be my friend.What should I do?from ,
tj's girl

dear tj's girl,
i've been in this situation before. it sucks doesn't it i mean you're the one that goes out with him, but you're jealous of the time he spends with other girls. well i would talk to him and tell him how you feel about it. tell him that you don't like him spending so much time with other girls or that you don't like him being so flirty around them. that should straighten him up. lol tell me how it works out. hope i helped!
you know you love me,
kris

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i tried what you said..
i went over my friends house and borrowed all this black stuff from her and i wore it today and after 3 period all my friends showed up with black nailpolish and double-loaded black eyeliner on...this isn`t workin..nothin seems to..i seriously don`t know what else i can do.

dear popular,
wear a sandwich board to school saying how you feel. a sandwich board, if ya didn't know, is a board that goes over your head and sits on your shoulders like a poncho. write on it that your tired of people stealing your look and acting just like you. say that people need to be theirselves, that's what's cool. tell me how it goes. hope i helped!
lots of love,
kris

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"Popular" is such a mis used word these days. But i am labeled the most popular girl of my class of 268 students. usually girls would kill for that name...but i hate it..i hate not being me and i hate being taken for granted...i hate not knowing who my true friends are. my grades are dropping and i`m starting to think i`m not worth anything..i feel so empty..i know i have a lot going for me since i`m head of the Cheerleading squad and i`m excellent in Track. but how do i get my class of 268 people to know that i`m not the fake girl they see everyday. I don`t wanna be sucked up to and i don`t want to be stared at like i`m more than everybody else. i just want to be me! is that too much to ask? what do i do??

well if you want to be you then be you. if people don't believe that's you, get their attention. wear all black to school one day, black pants, black shirt, black nails, black eye makeup. this'll get their attention and once you have that tell them how you feel. and focus more on your grades! i've let mine slip too, but i'm gettin back together and you should too. hope i helped! tell me how it goes!
lots of love,
kris

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hey..okay so i`ve been goin out with this guy for a while now and his ex girlfriend IMed me and told me that he was a player and that i shouldn`t trust him..so i broke up with him because I DONT GET PLAYED! but the next day, one of my friends who knew my boyfriend [or EX boyfriend] said that i was stupid for breaking up with him with no proof and that he wasnt a player. I am still in love with him. i`ve tried gettin over him but i can`t and i don`t have what it takes to call him and tell him i`m wrong. and besides, i don`t know which one is telling the truth...any suggestions??

.[[.cOnfuSeD giRl.]].

dear confused girl,
i definitely think that you should get back together with him! don't believe what you hear! and even if you have doubts you should always talk to him about it first! conversation is good. you should always talk things over before you make your decision. so write him a note and tell him how rong you were and how much you miss him and ask for another chance! tell me how it works out! hope i helped!
lots of love,
kris

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hey thank'z I asked him and found out that he won't break up with me because he thinks that's a dumb reason just like me I don't know why I was so worried but thank'z for your advice!

good! i'm glad everything worked out! and thanks for asking! if you ever need anything else jus ask me! i'm here for you! good luck with your boyfriend!
lots of love,
kris

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Last weekend me and my boyfriend was suppose to go to the movies but he ended up not being able to go so we didn't see each otha all weekend..now this weekend I am grounded, which means I can't do anything friday nor saturday. I'm afraid if I tell him that he might break up with me since it will be the second weekend not seeing each other. I mean last weekend he said that would be a dumb reason to break up with me but this weekend it's different cause its my fault I can't see him. Then the next week we will both be out of town for spring break. So do you think I should take a chance tell him then see if he breaks up with me and maybe get hurt or wait until the weekend and see if he brings it up then if so take a chance on him doing it then! See I don't want him to because I really do love him and I'm trying to make sure he won't break up with me because that dumb reason ya kno? so if you can help please tell me!

he won't break up with you! you can't always see each other every weekend. it's not your fault, that's just how it works. i've gone four days without seeing my boyfriend! it sucked, but i got through it. if he wants to break up with you just because you couldn't see each other, then he's a flippin idiot. it's his loss! hope i helped! tell me how it works out!
lots of love,
kris

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Hey!...ok my boyfriend and i have been together for about 9 months now n hes tryin 2 pressure me in to doing things im not ready for. He said that if i dont do these things he wants to break up. i relly dont want 2 do these things and i defintily dont want 2 lose him because im in love with him! wat should i do?


talk to your boyfriend! tell him how you feel about this. if he still doesn't understand how you feel then he was only in it for what he wants anyway! and he's not worth wasting your love over. you'll move on. hope i helped! tell me how it goes!
lots of love,
kris

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