well last saturday i went to my cousins daughters birthday party and i was downstairs with my grandmothers neighbors grandson and we were hanging out, and we were watching TV and i had my head resting on his shoulder and my legs were on his lap and he had his arm around me.. and then my brother came down and was like.. ahh u like her!! to him and he pushed me off and stood up and he was like, no i dont, we were just watching TV. and then he went upstairs and i have NO IDEA what he's thinking now, because he sent mixed signals. and now i like this other kid and he's REALLY funny and pretty cute, and i pretty much cant get my mind off him.. but i dont know what do do... i have mised feelings.
fall_to_pieces answered Saturday March 19 2005, 1:30 pm: well, obviously the guy you were watching t.v. with doesn't like you. and plus, if you like this other kid that you can't stop thinking of, then go for the other kid. if you really want to find out what the other guy thinks of you, ask him. that is the only way to go about this kind of situation.
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singlemom answered Saturday March 19 2005, 12:15 pm: Dear misunderstanding, I have no doubt that the kid you were hanging out with before you were interupted likes you. Guys dont like showing feelings when other people are around, especially if they are being teased about it. If you had a chance to talk to him in private he would probably tell you he does like you. I would figure out which guy i like more. Remember to base it on friendship first, who makes the better friend? Who do you feel like yourself around? Who can make you laugh? And most important, who gives you those great butterfly feelings in your stomach when your just thinking about him? Remember, most guys arent as open about their feelings as we are. They dont like to analyze things and talk them to death or feel pressured, so just go with your feelings and have some fun. Hope this helps, let me know how it works out. Singlemom [ singlemom's advice column | Ask singlemom A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday March 19 2005, 6:03 am: I think the guy from the party, but was a bit supprised when your brother came over and that caused his reaction why dont you invite him over and see if he sends you any mixed messages then if there all posative go for it if not back of a bit just be friends. If you really like that other guy go out with him! good luck
xokristabelle answered Saturday March 19 2005, 3:19 am: To put it simply:
He likes you.
The reason for the mixed signals? Although it may not seem like it, most guys are actually shy about crushes- even more so than girls. He's probably embarassed- if someone found out about a crush you had, you might feel the same way.
Since he sounds pretty shy, you'll have to make the first move. He sounds great- go for it!
TheTeenGirl answered Saturday March 19 2005, 1:13 am: You put your legs on just a friends' lap? Thats a bit too close for just watching tv, your brother didn't misunderstand, and even if he did, who could blame him? You were onto him while watching tv. You probably both have feelings for each other, but remember next time, if you don't want somebody to get the wrong idea about you and someone, don't be all over them, just watch tv. Your brother is thinking, "Oh my god, they love each other," or something like that, and hopefully you won't get all over this "kid" at watching tv until you know him better.
4Gotten answered Saturday March 19 2005, 1:12 am: ok, this grandparents neighbors grandson is the one you should pick, he most likley likes you because i say this alot i am a guy and i know the signs, he sounds like he likes you alot and him leaving was us guys way of life all guys are shy, and embarrased, and also some peoples families dont let them date but they do anyways, just pick him believe me. good luck laters. [ 4Gotten's advice column | Ask 4Gotten A Question ]
nameless answered Friday March 18 2005, 11:55 pm: To be quite honest with you, if you like some other kid --- give this neighbor of yours some time. I think he's pretty much confused about how he feels himself, because he wouldn't push you off and react in such a way if he didn't get some idea that maybe you liked him (back). I think it's a very instinctive way of reacting - pushing a person off and denying it. Give him some time until comfort settles again, then try to approach the subject while sounding as neutral as possible.
xoxbellabebexox answered Friday March 18 2005, 10:53 pm: i bet that the guy you were hanging out with is thinking about you to because he probley cant get the situation off his mind so talk to him so you know hes worth your time and you dont want to find out a month later that you wasted your time thinking about it. trust me it will dribve you crazy. follow your heart as corney as that sounds.
tell me houw it works out { and if you need anything just ask im always on!}
karenR answered Friday March 18 2005, 10:33 pm: The neighbors grandson got embarrassed, so maybe he's a little immature yet.Go with which ever one asks you out.I'd say the grandson likes you, he just had to make it look good (boys are real weirdos)in front of your brother. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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