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ok me and this guy have been going out for about 4 months, im 14, female, and i luv him soo much! We have made-out and been to each others houses, also hes looked down my shirt and lil things nuthing totally taking clothes off or anything, i definately dont want to have sex because im a christian and ive made that promise so what should we do if i want more than just making out?
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well you guys can do oral sex, like you can give him head or a hand job, he can finger you, just things that you both get pleasure out of but not going too far into sex. do what you feel comfortable doing. xox
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okay. i understand when you say that your a christian and you dont want to have sex yet because i'm the same way. so if you want to do more than make out..try not to let it go all the way to sex. if he tries for it just tell him no. he should understand. but even though you love him don't let him tempt you into something you don't want to do. just make sure you let him know that you don't want to have sex if that's what hes leading to. hope i helped. be careful.
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i have been in a similar situation just a few years older. i know it is hard to control our hromones and emotions. It is as if what the Bible says and what the 'world' says conflicts. It is hard to say it and keep to what the Bible says. The bible says no sexual activity before marriage and to me that means nothing that implies sexual activity. If your boyfriend loves you he will understand your beliefs and respect whatever decision you make. If I were you I would end it at making out. Plus you can have fun doing other things. Go to places around where you live that are fun. Like around where I live we have indoor rockclimbing, laser fighting, paintaball warzone, and other places. Relationships should bot be based on physical asspects. instead it should be based on your personalities. If it is based on your personalities and beliefs than he will understand and you will only strengthen in your belief. Hope I helped!! Write me anytime with any other issue!!
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well dont ever tell him that you want more than just making out, lol because he'll take it a different way all guys are like this he will try to have sex with you, just whenever you think of this again just just think of your religion and believe that its better to just keep it in your mind, what ever it takes to keep from having sex, i know that didnt sound very helpfull, but i cant really think of anything more than making out than having sex lol sorry good luck laters.
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ok well i dont know what else to tell you sorry but just good luck sorry add me if you have msn arsenic_4_@hotmail.com and im 13 not sum creepy guy lol laters.
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well i mean theyre isnt alot u can do i mean you could get fingured or give a blowjob but from what ive heard that leads to sex. so what i would do is stick to what you belive in and your morals and you could wait in between makeout sessions which will make it exciting everytime especially for him since guys get horney kinda easilly lol. so kinda hint at him like kiss and stuff but make it exciting everytime.
tell me if it helps or if it isnt sepacific enough. tell me how it works out! { ask again if you need help! im always on!}
luv britt
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hmmmm, listen i've had that experience already with one guy. if you want more then makin out with him then you should let him know. because if he doesnt want the same thing...then why bother and get hurt in the end?!?! there are guys that just wanna hook up here and there and take nothing seriously, or they just not ready for relationship, so i think you should have a lil chit-chat wit him, and tell him how you feel see what he thinks and then do what your heart tells you too...hope i helped...xoxo effy
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It's good that you made the promise of not having sex. Well, if you want to do more than just making out, you could have your boyfriend finger you or you could give him a hand job. Or you can have oral sex but that might not be a good idea, if you kept the promise of not having sex. Just don't do anything that you aren't comfortable with.
-Karen
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