I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 2 months and 1 week. I really like him and all..but sometime he bugs me so much!! I kind of miss being single and I dont know what to do..
and i dont want to break up with him...ugh..i'm sucha mess...please tell me your answer
ad0rablexOx0 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:53 pm: well if u really like him dont dump him cause that might be a bad decious later on..i would just try not to spent as much time with him and if hes getting on your nerves when ur with him just go to them bathroom or something and just try to calm urself down..hope i helped Ox [ ad0rablexOx0's advice column | Ask ad0rablexOx0 A Question ]
coolpool0509 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:27 pm: ok..... if he bugs you then you should break up with him, you dont want to get too far in the relationship because then you could really hurt him when you break up..... good luck!!!! [ coolpool0509's advice column | Ask coolpool0509 A Question ]
Toca_says answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:02 pm: the answer is so obvious.. i shouldn't even have to say it.. if your unhappy in a relationship.. then atleast talk to him about it... if that doesn't work then just break up with him.... then you will be single like u wanted to be.. and u won't have unnecessary problems.. hope i helped =) [ Toca_says's advice column | Ask Toca_says A Question ]
PinkPrincess42 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 5:57 pm: Alright. We all know that having a boyfriend isnt as easy as being single. Theres a lot of things that change. You dont get as many freedoms, and you always have a guy worrying about where you are and what your doing.. Lets face it.. its nothing like being single. If the guy is bugging you, maybe you should just let him know that you need some space and he would back up a little bit. But, if you really think that you dont wanna be with the guy, then there is no reason for you to stay with him and be unhappy. You should just think about what would make you the happiest and go for it gurl!
*Emily* [ PinkPrincess42's advice column | Ask PinkPrincess42 A Question ]
Shelbyjune answered Sunday January 30 2005, 5:32 pm: Anyone who finishes a sentence with "...but sometimes he bugs me so much!!" needs to seriously consider distancing herself from this guy. I went through the extact same thing with a man one time. He was one heckuva guy for about three weeks but then he got 'way too clingy. It was the hardest thing in the world to tell him that I was getting absolutely claustrophobic around him; he literally followed me around, about 5-9 inches away from my back or side. He was very hurt and gave me sad puppy dog eyes for about three weeks, and we were in repertory theatre company together, so it wasn't like I didn't see him anymore (on the contrary, I saw him everyday, CONSTANTLY, 3-6 hours). I lived, he lived.
Talk with him, pick up the pieces of your life, SMILE and carry on. It's a good lesson to learn and he won't be your last. [ Shelbyjune's advice column | Ask Shelbyjune A Question ]
hottdancer134 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 5:23 pm: well, whatever he does (ex. if he would call you on the phone like every 5 sec.) then just poliley ask him to stop! he'll understand! hope this helps!
wantinganswers112 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 5:14 pm: Well, if you don't want to break up with him, then don't. Whatever he does that bugs you, try to ignore it. I keep a journal and whenever I get confused or sad or annoyed, anything, I write it down and it makes whatever is bothering me seem kinda dumb and stupid compared to other problems in the past, things like that. Just take a deep breath when you get annoyed.... good luck [ wantinganswers112's advice column | Ask wantinganswers112 A Question ]
TannerT09 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 5:11 pm: well if i were you i would break up with him...hes not mr.right if hes not your type so just tell him that hes not your type..lol [ TannerT09's advice column | Ask TannerT09 A Question ]
Sherry answered Sunday January 30 2005, 5:11 pm: Well, if your not happy in the relationship I think you should break up with him. You'll be single but you'll be open to having a relationship with someone you really like! So in the end, it'll be worth it! =) [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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