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im so upset..
well my friend sarah is away at camp this weeekend. so her little sister spent the night at my house. she hung out with me n stuff.. and she was telling me about all the foul/rude/mean things sarah says about me.
1..* she said that im trying to steal a guy named bob that likes her. she concluded that just becasue ive talked to him a few times on the internet. im so not that kind of person! i wouldnt "steal" a guy from my best friend.. thats so messed up!
2..* she said that i am lame and i cant get any of my own friends cause i talk to hers. omg i have so many friends. thats not why i talk to hers, im just trying to be friendly so if i ever see them i wont be shy or anything.
theres otheres but they're not important.
what do i do? shes gonna call me today and idk what to say to her. im so upset with her, and im pissed she actually says things like that about me! help!
*Me
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Well defenatly bring it up. Confront her. DO NOT HANG AROUND HER TOO MUCH ANYMORE! If she askes you why you are not hanging around her say ask your sister, i dont want to 'steal' your friends anymore. And Just talk to her about it!
♥ Michelle
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Try to not talk to her or hang out with her for a while. If she asks why you aren't talking to her or hanging out with her, that's the time to talk to her and ask her why she has been saying all this stuff about you. I don't think her sister would lie about something like this because sisters do talk to sisters about things like this. So yeah, ignore her for a while or just talk to her. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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you don't need friends like that! if she really thinks that way about you, kick her to the kirb! hope this helps!
~Alyssa
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Little sisters sometimes say things without thinking how much they can hurt. Or they say things hoping they will hurt. The best thing you can do right now is to make a date with your friend Sarah that is not anywhere near her little sister or your families and tell her what her little sister said. Then ask her, in an honest but NOT ACCUSING manner, "Sarah, did you really say all thoses things about me? Is what your sister said true?" If she says yes, Then ask her why and what did you do to prompt her to say them; why is she trying to hurt you (because she is). Talk it out and rescue the friendship. If it's not true, then it's a good thing Sarah knows what her sister is saying. Either way, try to make sure Sarah is telling the truth, and that may be tough. Hope I helped some.
Oh yes. If Sarah's sister is lying, then you and Sarah need to go to her parents together and talk with them. Under no circumstances should you approach the little sister alone (or with Sarah) -- let the parents handle it!
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Ask her what the deal say are you talking about me and if she lies just leave her alone and go to your other friends.
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You know, sometimes little sisters say things like that for attention. She might just being saying that so you'll like her more?
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cus her out..
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