i want to become an advice columnist and i think this will help me. And just e-mail me if you want advice on anything at Taivon21@yahoo.com
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I have no clue what to get my boyfriend for his birthday, he likes sports, and xbox games, I dont know if he would like jewelry. Can anyone please help me? (link)
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Thats when you have to ask yourself if he is the type that like things on his birthday or he likes things from the heart, because if he is the type that like things when you figure out small things you can afford, cause jewelry and xboxs games cost money not saying you can't afford it but try to see what others he likes.
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Im on my period right now and i am so angry for some reason and i get pissed off so easily right now and i dont know why? and today this girl told me something and i ended up cussing her out and every one thought i was gonna hit her in the face so please tell me how i can be nicer why im pmsing (link)
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Girls do that just get use to it.
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How can it be that you can have casual sex? I am a virgin and some of my friends have had sex. Those who have also have casual sex. I just don't understand how you can have sex without having a comitment. Doesn't it still end up being a comitment because someone will want a relationship. It's natural for humans to want to have a relationship. So why is it that people can have casual sex with different people without a more serious relationship?? (link)
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For the feeling
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pretty soon i know my boyfriend and i are going to have sex. OF COURSE we would use a condom, but i am still overly scared of the chance of getting pregnant if the condom breaks. i am trying to figure out what time of the cycle is the best time to Not get pregnant. i know ovulation is the worst time, but what about before, during, and after my period - which is the best time and which is a risky time? i cant find it on any websites and some people tell me different things... please help, im a spaz (link)
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after your period ends.
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating like almost 15 months and we are getting to the more intense sexual side our relationship, but i have something i had never told him. I was raped at a young age and I dont know if he will be able to tell. I always told him i was a virgin. Do you think I that would be concidered lying even though it wasnt consensual? And do you think I should tell him I really need some help. (link)
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no thats none of his business
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and he wants to have sex and I do too but there is just one problem I have a disease and I don’t know if I should tell him or not because I don’t want him too to think of me different but we are going to use protection and everything just I don’t want to tell him! And I am sooooo scared! I don’t know about what maybe about him knowing my deepest darkest secret, I don’t know! Please help me! (link)
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tell your boyfriend because if you give him something and he doesn't know he is going to be mad
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Hi. Some might say that my subject for this question seems humorous but I'm desperate.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. He lives in Texas and I'm in Oregon. Yes, this is an internet relationship, but it's lasted this long. So, something has to be working.
Anyway. In the beginning of the relationship my grandma didn't think much of it. She thought my boyfriend was a sweet guy (he has talked to her on the phone). Well, she thought that until she found out he's hispanic. My grandma is, as much as I hate to say it, racist.
She now doesn't allow me to call him anymore. I've resorted to sneaking the phone after she's gone to sleep. Just because I wanted to hear his voice. Talking online makes allows me and him to talk, but it's too easy to get distracted while online. I've been caught sneaking the phone and because of that she's started hiding it.
Please, I need some help. I don't know how to make my grandma understand that I love him and I don't care what race he is. I've tried to tell her, but it doesn't seem to get through. I just want her to accept it. Please, I'm up for any advice. Thank you! (link)
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OK you love him thats all that matter so tell your grandma you love him and start calling.
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hi,
my girlfriend was late on her period by 2 days and then we had sexual intercourse. she is still late 5 days after we had sexual intercourse what does this mean? im sure the condom did not split and everything went fine but im still worried. was she most fertile then or least could you please tell me?
thanks,
rob (link)
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Get a pregnancy test just to make sure.
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heyy everyone. ok i was wondering if a guy is 18 years old and your 15 is it illegal to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend? because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out because its illegal. thanks yall! (link)
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This is where you can say dl that means Down low relationship if he yours..
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well my friend sarah is away at camp this weeekend. so her little sister spent the night at my house. she hung out with me n stuff.. and she was telling me about all the foul/rude/mean things sarah says about me.
1..* she said that im trying to steal a guy named bob that likes her. she concluded that just becasue ive talked to him a few times on the internet. im so not that kind of person! i wouldnt "steal" a guy from my best friend.. thats so messed up!
2..* she said that i am lame and i cant get any of my own friends cause i talk to hers. omg i have so many friends. thats not why i talk to hers, im just trying to be friendly so if i ever see them i wont be shy or anything.
theres otheres but they're not important.
what do i do? shes gonna call me today and idk what to say to her. im so upset with her, and im pissed she actually says things like that about me! help!
*Me (link)
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Ask her what the deal say are you talking about me and if she lies just leave her alone and go to your other friends.
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ok theres this girl..i dont know if i would consider her my friend but i try to be nice to everyone.well she liked my boyfriend b4 we started to go out.and of course i did 2.well she WAS mad when we started to go out so ever since then shes been butting into our business.like we can be walking down the hall holding hands and what not and she just walks up in between us.after awhile it can get verrry annoying.when me and my boyfriend are on the phone ill get online and she'll IM me and want me and my boyfriend to 3 way her.he doesnt like her and she pisses him off.today she crossed my boyfriends line.she pretty much was trying to invite herself to the movies with me and my boyfriend and that pissed him off so he goes no we want to be alone for once.i cant really blame him but shes allllways on my business.i dont want to be mean to her because im not that way.what are some ways to tell her to back off without being mean? (link)
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Well sit her down as a friend and tell her that you aren't being mean but me and my boyfriend want to be alone sometimes and tell her that if one day we invite you there is no problem but for now we want to be alone. And if her don't learn from that then you tell her off.
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my bestfriend looks at me when she spends the night over at my house in a weird way...like when we are gettin ready to go to bed i catch her lookin at me when im changin i really feel uncomfortable and i want her to stop but i dont know how to bring it up and i dont want to start a huge fight and i still want to be friends but im just not like that....what should i do? (link)
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This is where you play with her mind and say ''Girl you looking like you want this you want this mmm'' ask her and see what she said? If she said she do want it say well you know I'm not like that right! That should take care of it.
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I just broke up with my boy friend and I feel miserable. I feel as if the world i going to end. I thought he was the one you knkow? But he did the same thing to me just like the others. No relationship has gone good for me. Every one was a jerk and used me, or just wanted to sleep with me. I don't think that I can get over this and feel as if the only way to stop the pain i to go in eternal sleep six feet under. Please someone help. And don't tell me to get over it b/c I've tried that to many and I'm afraid that's not going to work in this case. Please will someone HELP???!!!!! (link)
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I don't think you should commit suicide I think you should just sit down and take a deep breath and relax. If that doesn't work then try to do something that can get your mind off of it or you can call one of your close friends and see if they can compare with what your going through and tell them about it if that doesn't work then find something that won't remind you of the situation. If you have any more questions email me at Taivon21@yahoo.com
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Alright, 4 months ago my boyfriend dumped me because he had some issues of his own to work out. In those 4 months I developed a crush on his younger brother, who is my age (15). My ex is 17. I asked his brother out and he said no cuz he can't date until he's 16, which is in a year. I know that the brother has feelings for me (his sister told me). Now, my ex-boyfriend has feelings for me, but I like his brother more than him right now. And one of my friends has a crush on him. What do I do? I have some feelings for my ex, but they aren't as strong as the ones for his brother. (link)
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I would go back with the ex because you showed him you can move on if he acts up you have proving your point so just hold off on the brother until later and go back to your ex. I know your feeling are strong for the brother but he can't date until later so just be with him until the brother is ready or you and the brother can't tell anyone your dated and dated. Ok e-mail if you have anymore questions at taivon21@yahoo.com
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Well, to start off I'm 15/f. I play the guitar and I have for about 2 years now and I absolutly love it. I just started highschool this past September. In November I signed up to be on my schools fencing team. I don't seem to have time to do any of the things that I used to do. I'm so caught up with all of my school work, and fencing practice, I hardly have any time at all to even pick up my guitar and strum a few chords. I feel guilty now because I show up at my guitar lessons and my teacher is expecting me to have the song we had worked on for the past 3 weeks perfectly memorized, because that's how it was for me when I first started playing, and I can hardly play the first 2 notes! I miss playing and I love fencing just the same and I don't want to give up fencing. Is there any way that I can find the time to play my guitar, do all of my school work, and fence at the same time? It's so frustrating! Please help! (link)
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ok it call time divide like: when you get home from school 4:00 schoolwork,4:30 break,5:00 guitar,last fencing ok e-mail me if any more qusetions at Taivon21@yahoo.com
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I think I'm beginning to bore my boyfriend a little, which is very scary because I really want it to last for a long time. See, we just started officially "going out" not too long ago. At first, the conversation on the phone was awesome....Everything was great. But I think you eventually come to a point where you've gotten to know the person well enough and you run out of questions to ask...random childhood stories to tell...And then there's nothing to talk about other than stuff that happened to the two of you that particular day and junk like that. Because lately, our phone conversations have been reallly dead, and it seems like our relationship is beginning to become more and more of a "sexual" rather than mental relationship. What can I do about this?????? How can I think of interesting stuff to talk about on the phone and not bore him to death? (link)
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hey u
spice it up talk about things like what he want in life and stuff just make it about him because with men you have to do that. ok just e-mail me if you have any more questions Taivon21@yahoo.com
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I'm not a person that opens up to people usually. There is an acquaintance that I've had in my life for over 6 years that recently started becoming my best friend. We would spend every waking hour together for about 6 months. It was so great. She did get annoying sometimes, but that happens with all consistancy I believe. She had two good friends before her and I really became good friends.
Here's a little background about us. She is more into the fashion scene, while I'm more into the music scene. Somewhere we meet in the middle. I usually dislike people who are into fashion and showing themselves. But she is different. She has some kind of hippy-like quality inside her.
One of her friends was moving, so she moved in with that girl for about a month, to help her packup. We almost didn't talk at all after constantly being together for 6 months. After a month had gone by, she said she was going to drive across the country with them and help them unpack. After about 2 weeks of that, she decided to move in with them 3,000 miles away.
[[Her reason is to get away from her parents and grow up. But she's moving in with people that are 2 years younger than her and way too wild to let her mature into an adult and not a partying adolescent wanna-be adult]]
I'm moving into the country soon, so my chances of making new friends are going to be even more slim. Her family is moving about 5 minutes away from me though. She's leaving behind her childhood friend and myself to follow dreams I know she is still too immature to accomplish.
She has come back for a month to get her stuff and say goodbye. Should I release her back to the fashion-hungered, immature group that she was in before? ... Or do I fight to keep her here and keep the best friend that I came to know and love? (link)
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If she is your friend fight for what you believe in and tell her how you feel that you love her and you are looking out for her.
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i use to date this guy but we broke up. i still love him and i know he still loves me. hes with this gurl whos a total witch, but hes to sweet to dump her. he thinks he loves her, but shes just doesnt care. we re still friends he talks to me bout and wants my advice but iam always at a loss. do i say what i want him to do? or what he should to be happy with her? or what? (link)
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with this: you have to be a friend and say do what in your heart? and if he doesn't choose you. you can't be mad. let him decide.
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i have had my period for quite some time and never have gone throught this! i have used tampons before but today i had it in for two secionds and ir hurt so bad! i took it out and my uterus skin was all over it! it was so gross, i tried again later, and even more skin came off! my blood has been extremely dark lately and my uterus is coming off in strips and omg whatz wrong with me! (link)
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i think your mother would know that.
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ok,where do i begin, alright i like this guy and he likes me,but we are both to scared to go out i mean ill go out with him with open arms but i think he is scare to what should i do?
FROM,
xlilsunshineJSKTx
P.S. im a girl and at age 13 (link)
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hey lil sunshine
i feel like you and him should talk first. Get to know each other become friends. bring up converstion about what he thinks about going on a dated. play with his mind ask him questions.
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