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I just broke up with my boy friend and I feel miserable. I feel as if the world i going to end. I thought he was the one you knkow? But he did the same thing to me just like the others. No relationship has gone good for me. Every one was a jerk and used me, or just wanted to sleep with me. I don't think that I can get over this and feel as if the only way to stop the pain i to go in eternal sleep six feet under. Please someone help. And don't tell me to get over it b/c I've tried that to many and I'm afraid that's not going to work in this case. Please will someone HELP???!!!!!
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ok...external sleep six feet under doesn't help anything!!! but i do kinda kno how you feel! and i do kno it's very hard to get over! my last bf i really loved and he just wanted me to feel me up! that was it! i couldn't get over that forever...all you really can do is cry and hold your head up high knowing someone a million times better will come soon! i know that's not much help but you just have to concentrate on the good things in life at a time like this! and just remember everything happens for a purpose! even though you can't see it now everything will get better!
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Hey, I know how you feel, you feel like as if you cant do anything for your self and all you want to do is cry and just be alone... its going to take some time to get over it but i would talk to him about it.. tell him how you feel and see if you can negotiate with him n what you want in a relationship... maybe he could understand you a little better if you tell him how you are feeling about your rel.
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well. im sortof confused.
1- If he wanted to sleep with you and do stuff. I dont want to be mean- but im glad hes gone. I mean if he was just in it for what he was getting out of it, thats just not right. The body is supposed to be shared when married- and with love. not just for the sole purpose of Pleaseure. Im sorry that he left you and i know its hard, trust me I know. I was once with this guy and he was obsessed with touching my butt.I know, im not kidding. and then he wanted me to give him head. and i was like uh no,we had only been going out for like 4days-and we hadnt even kissed. and so yah we broke up.
2- if he just broke up with you and didnt do that then im really sorry- maybe you could talk to himm about it, and see why you two broke up. Im really sorry!
I hope everything works out for you!
*KeLsA*
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Try enjoying yourself and hanging out with friends. Take a break from dating and then you'll eventually find the man of your dreams who will treat you great. Its not worth worrying over a bunch of guys who used u... don't worry, things will get better
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I have been there love. I loved him so much I cried for months afterward. And people telling you to get over just is not right. But I iwll say this as well. Suicide is not the answer. Tim is. Given time you will heal. I know it does not seem like it now but you will. Death is so... final. Once it happens there is no turning back.
Sex is something most guys want. But you know something. It is /your/ body love. /Your/ decision and you can tell them to take a flying leep off a bloody damn bridge.
-calms- I apologize but male hormones make me want to castrate a few of the male race. Male do not realize that we are human too. We are not sex machines there for thier pleasure and use. My advice love is to give it time. Cry all the tears you need to. Hit the pillow and pretend its him.
You will see, anger is the next stage and will show you are healing. Try qriting how you feel down. All of it. But make sure your parent dont find it. Oy Vey I did that and all bloody hell broke loose. You are cared for, even if I am a stranger. Feel free to contact me love. My thoughts are with you.
-mew-
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Don't listen to the idiot below... he's probably 12 and he can't even spell "Marijuana" right...
How long were you going out with the guy? Maybe he wasn't using you for sex, and in his mind he thought that it was time to move on to the next step in the relationship. But then again, this purely relies on how long you 2 have been together... if you were only going out for a couple weeks or something like that... yea he was probably using you. Sadly, sex is the only thing on most guy's minds. The boys in this world really need to grow up and start thinking with the right head...
How old are you by the way? If you're still in your teens... which i'm assuming you are... you still have plenty of time left in your life to find a new BF and get a new relationship and find that right guy. Try not to stress over it, I know it's tough, but life goes on. Don't do anything that you would regret, like attempt suicide... Not saying you would, but you did mention death being the next best thing... it's not. Life isn't all about having a boyfriend, there are a ton of other things to experience out there.
Try not to think about it, go out and have some fun with your friends, get your mind off of it.
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The Answer simply is: Marjijuana...
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I don't think you should commit suicide I think you should just sit down and take a deep breath and relax. If that doesn't work then try to do something that can get your mind off of it or you can call one of your close friends and see if they can compare with what your going through and tell them about it if that doesn't work then find something that won't remind you of the situation. If you have any more questions email me at Taivon21@yahoo.com
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Sweetheart,
Falling in love with someone is always the most personal thing that we can ever do. You open yourself up not just physically but emotionally. The wall that many of us have around our hearts- that we use to protect ourselves, we have to tear down when we fall in love. WHat is tragic though is that with every subsequent love we make that wall taller and stronger, so it takes more for that next person to tear it down- but it ends up hurting more.
You may just give too much of your heart and self into all your relationships. I don't know what type of guys you really go out with, but you may want to see if you fall for the same type of guy and then try to date someone different from that. Hurting youself is not the way to go, because you are not at fault for giving your heart into the relationship. If the guys don't see that you are a wonderful person and that you are into them for more than just physical reasons, then you have reached an age of maturity that they haven't yet. It has been shown that women mature much quicker than men do (some say that men never mature).
You are young and with every relationship you know what more you want in the next guy. Hold out for that one guy who will not only accept your heart but will protect with every ounce of his soul. Do guys like that exist? Yes, they do, you just have to find them, which is part of this process that we all go to. There is a one for us all, I believe, and we will end up with them eventually. Don't fall too quickly, be protective of your heart, and when it is seen by you that he gives you as much of his heart as you do, then as two souls in one- discover how love really can be.
I know that this is a long statement without a conclusive answer, but I'm just hoping that you can see that there is someone there out there and they will come in your life, and hurting yourself like that is not the way- because there is a guy out there who's looking for you, and if you're gone, there would be nothing more tragic than that.
Yours,
Arun
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Look. killing yourself is the most selfish thing you could possibly do. ok i need a bit more info... how old are you? and are you actually sleeping with these guys? answer these questions and i can help further
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first just calm down. then look at why you broke up with this guy and think of how happy you are now that all of those bad things are now liberated from your life. then, look at the world. you may have thought he was the "one" but there are 7 billion people on the planet roughly half are guys, and roughly 20% are in your age range. that's a lot of guys that can be your "one". so don't give up and just keep looking because i'm sure you'll find him. also, to prevent guys from using you, try to get to know them a little bit better before you go out with them.
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i know this is going to sound a little crazy or w/e u want to call it but i dont care... go to God for help. we is always there, play to him for help and he will send it, get a concordence and find some verses about comfort, that will definatly help, i have had the same feling about girls doing that same thing to me and this is how i got over it. trust me it works
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this may not help, and i dont mean to sound rude or anything, but no matter how much it hurts, and i know it will be hard, but you can't let a boy make you feel so bad like this. no girl needs a guy in her life all the time. i'm single, and i'm happy. if i see a guy just wants to use me, i just leave them alone, and if i'm still attached, i stay friends. but think outside the box, honey. you can't let no one bring down your joy and everything. please rethink this and all. hope i helped at all.
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aww are you gonna cry? i would too if i was the only person in the world who felt used and thought that id found the one. you will get over it and life will go on, this is how life goes. and if you arent strong enough to deal, then go ahead and sleep six feet under because the world doesnt need you.
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Aww, hey babe! Well, there really isnt much to do except for getting over him, or starting over and talking to him :(! PPerhaps, you could let your anger out by talking to me, or your really close GUY friends whom will undersatnd what you are going through!
♥ Michelle
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