Member Since: January 27, 2005
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Last Update: January 29, 2005
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13/f ..In my group of friends and in school, i am such a prude good girl but all of a sudden now i just wanna be a slut!! like i cant wait to go on vacation and pick up random guys. I really want a bf, to makeout,smoke, drink do all that stuff. Is this normal? I feel so weird because im getting all these urges and i dont know where theyre coming from! I feel dirty and like i wanna be like those girls in the movie Thirteen.. please help! im starting to do things.. i bought a thong, drank my moms wine and wanna do other stuff that i know ill get in trouble for! but i cant help it! what do i do?? (link)
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Some of you people need to be taken outside and beat. I highly suggest not meeting me in a dark Ally. Moving on.
Wanting to break away from restraints set upon you /is/ normal however they are there for a reason. Smoking can and will kill you. And really do you want stained yellow teeth, smelly clothes and hair (becuase it does reek), not be able to taste your food properly and wake up with a hacking cough becuase you are slowly killing your lungs?
As for drinking... well a lot kids die from under age drinking. It impares good judgement and too much will poison you. Not to mention the accidents caused by drunk drivers.
As for being as you so aptly put it.. a slut. Do you really want every guy thinking you are easy? To just be interested in one thing? Really it is no way to go. I was labled a 'slut' and I didn't even /do/ anything. I was a virgin till I was seventeen. Then I gave into highschool pressures and you know what? I regretted it. Save it for that one special man down the line. And if it is too late you can still stop before your reputation is destroyed. Once labeled there is no going back.
Relax and be a teenager. Those raging hormones /will/ eventually calm down. As for the thong... I say go for it. Its a sfae way to feel a little wild that only you need know of. Please keep in mind that I /have/ been there and I /do/ know what I am talking about unlike some of these other .... whats the word I want.... immature twats. Yes twats that will do. Best of luck my love.
-Mew-
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I just broke up with my boy friend and I feel miserable. I feel as if the world i going to end. I thought he was the one you knkow? But he did the same thing to me just like the others. No relationship has gone good for me. Every one was a jerk and used me, or just wanted to sleep with me. I don't think that I can get over this and feel as if the only way to stop the pain i to go in eternal sleep six feet under. Please someone help. And don't tell me to get over it b/c I've tried that to many and I'm afraid that's not going to work in this case. Please will someone HELP???!!!!! (link)
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I have been there love. I loved him so much I cried for months afterward. And people telling you to get over just is not right. But I iwll say this as well. Suicide is not the answer. Tim is. Given time you will heal. I know it does not seem like it now but you will. Death is so... final. Once it happens there is no turning back.
Sex is something most guys want. But you know something. It is /your/ body love. /Your/ decision and you can tell them to take a flying leep off a bloody damn bridge.
-calms- I apologize but male hormones make me want to castrate a few of the male race. Male do not realize that we are human too. We are not sex machines there for thier pleasure and use. My advice love is to give it time. Cry all the tears you need to. Hit the pillow and pretend its him.
You will see, anger is the next stage and will show you are healing. Try qriting how you feel down. All of it. But make sure your parent dont find it. Oy Vey I did that and all bloody hell broke loose. You are cared for, even if I am a stranger. Feel free to contact me love. My thoughts are with you.
-mew-
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hi...i'm a 16/f and i like a guy in my grade.. we always chat and hang out together but i never tell him that i like him. he has a traumatic experience in love,his exgf that he used to love with his whole heart dumped him and since then he wasn't able to accept any girls. we are like best friends since he really believes in me and he tells me all his problems that he won't tell others.i've tried to give him a few hints b4 and it ends up like he doesn't understand it.. recently,our schoolmates start to make some rumours that me and him are couple. when i asked his opinion bout it he jus smiled and say he dun mind.whenever i need him he will always be there for me.he always act like my bf but he din actually tell me b4 that he likes me.is there anymore hints that i could give him or should i just ask him straight to the point?? please give me some advice... (link)
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You are in a very difficult situation. On one hand you might make a good couple but then if something goes wrong will you be able to rekindle the friendship? Most likely no.
On the other hand if you ask him and he says no then again you have created a very awkward situation. This is something only you can rwally decide.
Think long and hard. Is your friendship with him worth sacrificing if things do not work out? Are you willing to take that risk? My advice, and opinion only, is to give it more time. Do not rush it. If it is there it will happen. But it will develope in its own time. Best of luck love...
-Mew-
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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself. (link)
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I totally agree with you. It is immature and rude. People seem to come here with serious questions, to them anyway. The youth of today are becoming quite vulgar and need to grow up and learn compassion.
-Mew-
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i have had my period for quite some time and never have gone throught this! i have used tampons before but today i had it in for two secionds and ir hurt so bad! i took it out and my uterus skin was all over it! it was so gross, i tried again later, and even more skin came off! my blood has been extremely dark lately and my uterus is coming off in strips and omg whatz wrong with me! (link)
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Honey your uterus is not coming off in strips. What you see are large parts of the lining that sometimes comes off in large clots. When I bleed heavily it is very painful to use a tampon because it only holds the clots inside. And when you remove the tampon the clots will come with it. Calm down honey its all a part of life. However... if you continue to bleed heavy then the doctor can usually prescibe birth control. Believe it or not it can help ease such things.
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