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does he think the same way too??
hi...i'm a 16/f and i like a guy in my grade.. we always chat and hang out together but i never tell him that i like him. he has a traumatic experience in love,his exgf that he used to love with his whole heart dumped him and since then he wasn't able to accept any girls. we are like best friends since he really believes in me and he tells me all his problems that he won't tell others.i've tried to give him a few hints b4 and it ends up like he doesn't understand it.. recently,our schoolmates start to make some rumours that me and him are couple. when i asked his opinion bout it he jus smiled and say he dun mind.whenever i need him he will always be there for me.he always act like my bf but he din actually tell me b4 that he likes me.is there anymore hints that i could give him or should i just ask him straight to the point?? please give me some advice...
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For some reason... i am thinking that you two are just really good friends because ur always there for eachother... but now that you said he doesn't mind rumors that you and him are a couple then i would think he does have feelings for you... maybe you made him feel uncomfortable when you were dropping hints... One day just day to him i'm really sry about ur ex and all, and i know your probably having a hard time accepting girls, but i really like you and i won't break your heart like she did.
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hey i think he likes you to so just go for it nothing stopping-but if you really think he dosnt like you have one of your close friends prefebly a girl ask him if he likes you- or you could just ask him who he likes if he likes you it would be dumb of him to say so and so when he could be like you
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I would just ask him strait to the point, because it seems like he likes you too. So go for it! and if he sais no you will always know that he will still be your friend :)
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im sorry to say i dont have any ideas to drop a hint. but i will say that im going through the same thing
i like one of my best friends but recently the girl i know he likes thinks i called her a b***h and now shes spreading rumors around the school that my friend and i have been sleeping together.
which we havent casue i would never do that with someone unless we were married cause thats just how i am. So really all i have to say is that just ignore people. if they say something you know isnt true then thats all that matters. sorry i didnt really answer your question but that just poped into my mind and i had to tell you.
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How long has it been since his girlfriend guped him? Athough some people say that it shouldn't take too long to get over someone, it sounds like he is a very sensitive guy and for him to give his heart to someone was a huge thing to do but then to get it stomped on, makes him at the same time more vulnerable and more pessimistic. It does seem that he does trust you more than anyone right now, and he just wants someone that he can be with that doesn't necessarily have to worry about hurting him at this time. Slowly he is opening his heart up to you and in due time he will soon realize that you would be perfect for him.
If he really is still hurt, asking him straight to the point might be a bit too much forhim and he may slam that door to his heart shut. However, let it gradually progress. If you guys spend alone time together, start by just sitting close, holding hands, getting comfortable being close to each other. If it seems that he really wants to, then you can lean in and kiss him (make sure that the mood is right and be somewhat subtle- soft not too aggressive). If he kisses you back then you already have your answer. If he hesitates a little bit, just say that the mood was just right and you are sorry for it. You didn't mean it in a terrible way (hence why it wasn't aggressive), but the way you make it sound more than likely it'll flourish. He probably likes you but doesn't want to appear that he is just close to you so that he can hook up with you.
Let things happen naturally- get closer to each other- and it'll happen.
Best of luck,
Arun
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You are in a very difficult situation. On one hand you might make a good couple but then if something goes wrong will you be able to rekindle the friendship? Most likely no.
On the other hand if you ask him and he says no then again you have created a very awkward situation. This is something only you can rwally decide.
Think long and hard. Is your friendship with him worth sacrificing if things do not work out? Are you willing to take that risk? My advice, and opinion only, is to give it more time. Do not rush it. If it is there it will happen. But it will develope in its own time. Best of luck love...
-Mew-
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