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kissing
i don't understand how to kiss. i really nervous and scared but I really do want to.i'm 13 and a female i need advice on kissing
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just follow what the guy does.you will catch on im sure.
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I think (at least when I was younger) it is up to the guy to really make the kiss special. (or maybe I think so b/c i'm a guy).
However, the environment is probably the most important thing next to the kiss itself- make sure your lips are moist but not wet. Do not lick your lips right before you kiss (saliva naturally dries out your lips). You may not want to wear lipstick either (can get messy). A good lip balm that keeps your lips moist and soft is best. Make sure that you have a good scent on (not too heavy though, just pleasant enough- sometimes the fragrance from your shampoo is enough).
Depending if you want to take control or let him take control- then just tilt your head to the side and lean in (as he should be too- never break eye contact if your eyes are open). Remember you should somewhat embrace and let it happen naturally. If you think that he is too aggressive with his tongue or too hard, just lean back a little bit and he should get the point. Like I said, it's stereotypical for the guy to make it right and you should just enjoy yourself. Do as much as you're comfortable with.
Most of all- this is your first kiss. The mood should be right and everything will be perfect. You'll always remember this one for all your life (I know I do.).
Best of luck,
Arun
P.S. I thought that if guys read this I'd put in some tips for them:
General rules: soft lips don't lick your lips before. Make sure you have a good cologne on but not too strong (subtle). Make it special- don't rush it.
Some Hints:
1. TEASE. When going in for a kiss start by brushing your partners lips, then pull back- see how she follows…
2. Before going in for the kiss, do something to let her know you are about to kiss her to build up her anticipation. For example brush hair out of her eyes.
3. Kiss you partner in a variety of different places: her hairline, jawline and her nose.
4. Use your tongue to tickle the roof of your partners mouth. The area in front is very sensitive (more nerve endings)
5. Use your hands. Use them to make the moment even more special, put them to good use by running them through her hair, or caress her shoulders and back.
6. When her tongue is in your mouth, hold it prisoner by gently sucking on it like a vacuum. The suction should send shivers down her spine. Don't bite down. Have small fun with it.
7. Stroke the nape of her neck while kissing- this is a particularly sensitive area that will really make her tingle…
8. When you seperate to catch your breathe, whisper to her how much you love her etc. Make it special.
kiss her gently at first, lips closed. After a few seconds, allow your lips to part slightly and let just a hint of tongue touch her lips. Pull away just a little. Kiss her again, allowing a little more tongue. Pull away, just a little. Keep eye contact if your eyes are open. Next kiss, insert just a little of your tongue just inside the part of her lips. And so on. If she is not quite ready to kiss you with tongue, she will pull away a little, so you'll know to slow down. And also it is a great tease, and a gradual way to get things going...
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It's pretty easy after it starts. Do'nt be afraid to make the first move and when you do all you have to do is tilt your head to the side and stick your tongue in his mouth and start moving it around.
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..jus go with tha flow..ull get tha hang of it soon..
maybe you should practice on a tomato ;) :D
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