My BoYfRiEnD rIgHt NoW iS aBrEy JaMeS!!!My best friend is Autum Waw, Nikki Joyce and we r like so freakin always goin to be friends. it doesnt matter who trys to stop that from happening. ppl tried last year and it didnt stop us so nothing ever will. (i am knocking on wood like crazy.) lol!
Nicky you are the best!! I LOVE YOU!!
Danielle Babe your the best. I couldnt live without you!!! ;) I LOVE YOU!!!
I hang out with Danielle Semore, Autum Waw, Tera Potts, Austin Hullet Mullet Gullet, Josh Plater, Chris Bullard, Matt Woodard, Nicky Defrange, Nikki Joyce, Kevin Fletcher, Amanda Allen, Sara Carrillo, Savanah Smith, Rebecca Marquez, Brandon Eckert, Thomas Gearinger, Lisa Heflin, Josh Garber, Daniel Kerbow, Ariel Sanders, Shawn Adams, Chris Wood.!!!!!!! ThEy ArE tHe BeStEsT pEoPlEs EvEr!!!
E-mail: prtygrl2009@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Denison
Occupation: takin, and having wild duck sex
Age: 13
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okay, i know this might sound stupid but i'm 14 and i have no idea how to give a handjob. so i was just wondering if anyone wanted to fill me in.. ha (link)
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well it is basicly were you rub your hands all over a guys penis.
Hope I Helped
Signed:~Des~
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This is the only way i can make this short .. me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 months now and our relationship was going well. Like not even a week ago i started to hang out with these guys that he doesn't like or trust .. i told him that i was hanging with them and he got really pissed and we started arguing. In our relationship i am completely honest with him because i don't want to hide something from him and have him find out later from someone else and him get madder than he would've if i had told him in the first place. Well i am starting to have these feelings for a guy i've been hanging out with and i told my boyfriend. He totally flipped out because now he thinks that i like this guy more than i like him - which is NOT true at all. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i always will no matter what happens between us. I'm just wondering if i should tell my boyfriend that we need to take a break from our relationship so i can figure out if the feelings for the other guy are deep or if i should just forget about the other guy or what?! PLEASE HELP! =( (link)
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i say that you should forget about the other guy. its probably just a crush that was developed because you started hanging out with someone new. eventually it will go away. believe me. i have been there and done that a time or two and the feelings have always gone away. i know that this isnt a lot of information about why you should forget about the other guy, but i cant really explain in detail that well on this situation.
i really hope that i helped you and i hope you have good luck with your boyfriend. i know how you feel, i cant not tell my boyfriend something either.
signed:~Desy~
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Hey, ok first before I say anything I don't mean to sound conceded... but it's true. Ok, I'm pretty and popular, and like guys like me and stuff... it's just I'm kind of incicure about myself because I'm only a 32 A. I'm probably not going to get any bigger because my mom was a 34 A... so... it just makes me feel really small because most of my friends are starting to get big boobs... and it's not like my small boobs have stopped alot of guys from liking me or anything... it's just kind of depressing. And I want to get a boob job when I'm 16, but I'm kind of scared that something's going to go wrong... so... help!
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i think that you should just be happy with the way that you are. my best friend was really little too until this year and now she is up to a 34C. you will eventually get bigger, but when ever the time is right. besides that at least you know that guys dont like you just because of your figure. Right? well if you had bigger boobs then they would get in the way and you would hate them. beleive me i hate mine and i want to cut them all off but no one will let me. they tell me if i do then they will be mad at me forever. so eventually you will get bigger you just have to be pateint. (i dont exactly know how to spell that) (lol)
hope i helped
signed:~Desy~
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ok so recently i was being very stupid and decided to flash my best friend's cousins's ex boyfriend. what the problem you ask... I HAVE A BOYFRIEND and I told him about cause I didn't want to lie about it and he said he's mad but not going to dump me cause of but i still feel bad for doing it in the first place. so my question do you have any ideas on how i can make it up to him? p.s. no sexual answers plzzz.
-Nikki- (link)
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if i were u i would tell him that you are so so sooooooo sorry and that you will make sure that it dont ever happen again. i know what its like to do something like that and i told my boyfriend about it the only difference is that my boyfriend broke up with me he was so mad. of course after he had time to think about it he came running back to me. so just tell him that it wont EVER happen again and you have to be dead honest about it. and make sure it dont happen.
hope i helped!
signed:~Desy~
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I have a new boyfriend. He used to be a good friend of my but we started to have feelings for eachother. I know this question may be a bit cliche` but things are awkward. It just so happens he's my first REAL boyfriend & I'm not used to what's going on. Tonight's our first day & I'm started to have second thoughts. I miss how things were when the two of us were friends but I'm afraid that if I end things, they'll never be the same.
~Violet // 13/f (link)
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if i were you i would explain everything to him. i know that he might act weird for a few days but he will get back to his normal self. thats what always happens when i date my bestfriends. they freak out after we first break up but they always bounce back. sometimes it takes longer for other people so give him at least two weeks and he will most likely be back to normal. hope i helped!
good luck!
signed:~Desy~
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okay ive known these girls for a very long time but this year we started to be best friends. we always did stuff with each other and had sleepovers every weekend. but lately they both have been getting mad at each other and they both turn to me to either invite over without the other or for advice. i feel uncomfortable because i don't want to get in the middle and i want to keep both for friends. i want to be as close as we used to be. how do i make that happen? help! (link)
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if i were you i would talk to your friends at the same time and tell them that you dont want them to fight anymore and that you want to be as close as you used to be. i know what its like to be put in the middle of these situtations. i tend to be the peace maker of my friends and me. and they always seem to come running to me for advice about everything. well like i said i would sit down with them and tell them that you dont want to have them fighting anymore and that you would really like it if they would talk everyithing out and settle it all right then and there.
hope i helped!
signed:~Desy~
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look, theres this guy and i mean ive liked him a very long time and he really means a lot to me...i try to stop liking him because i know he messes around w/ these other girls that i dont like...that NO1 likes...but everytime im around him he puts me in this trap and like trys to find a way to hold my hand and stuff and its sweet...what does it mean? i mean we've discussed our liking each other b4 and he f'd things up last time so i told him to f off......but i know now that i really like him...again...and i dont know what to do...please help... (link)
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i would say ask him out or at least talk about it again. because it seems to me that he is dropping hints like crazy when you are around him that he likes you. and i have been in this situtation before. as a matter of fact i am in it right now with my ex-b/f and stuff. but i dont know what to do when it comes to me. but i can help other people with this kind of problem when they ask for advice even if i dont know what to do for my relationship, because its a lot different when your not the one trying to figure it all out and doing it. so again i say that if i were you i would talk to him about it or ask him out. and by-the-way me and him are talking about this to and so far its gone ok
hope i helped!
signed:~Desy~
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Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
thx (link)
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you should probably tell them sometime soon but don't do it to quickly ease yourself into it. they are you parents you should know how they are going to react. u should also know when their in a good mood and when it is a good time to talk about it. You can play that to your advantage too.
hope i helped
signed:~desy~
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any ideas on plucking your eyebrows w/ less pain?? plz hurry!! thanks! (link)
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waxing i don't for almost a year now it does hurts as bad as plucking them.
hope i helped
signed:~desy~
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Hmm do you think guys are more attracted to girls with Straight hair or Curly ?? (link)
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straight
hope i helped!
signed:~Desy~
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does neone no how to get toothpaste out of carpet.. lol i no it*s weird but i need to get the shyt out!!! i*ll rate high if it works..
thanx (link)
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i would say to use soap and water.
hope i helped~!
signed:~desy~
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my parents are so over protective. im 13 and they wont even let me jog aroung my block or go to the mall with a friend it gets on my nerves cause my dad always bring up these stories of about these 25 yr olds who get kidnapped raped and killed i told him to sign me up 4 self defense if hes so paranoied but he just gets mad he wont listen. Please help @ this rate i will be a prisoner without freedom and locked away in a tower at age 45.
thanks ill rate high! (link)
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well if i was in your shoes i would have one of your friends parents talk to your parents about this issue. thats what i had to do to get to go places by my self with my friends. i first started to go to the skating rink, then i went to the mall, and now i can go just about every where. you can also let him know that there is police officers at the mall and stuff to help people when they need it. and all of the workers that are there wont let any thing happen to you so just try some of these things.
hope i helped!
signed:~Desy~
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my mom and dad jsut spilt up and my bro lives wit my dad and i live wit my mom iu didnt realy get a chance to pick who i want to go with and i want to go with my dad but then my mom wil be alone and the readon i want to go to live with my dad is caus emy mom has a b/f and we go out and they alwayz kissin and hguing and caling each other baby its so anoying and i dont like going out wit them but its ether that or my granma house and omg its so boring there and nuting to do so i want to move in wit my dad but i feel bad for my mom watshould i do?
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just try to talk to her about it. sit down and have a heart to heart talk and tell her that she is doing it ALL the time while you are around and you dont really want to see all that. she may not realize that she is doing it. so just try to bring it to her attention with out hurting her feelings. tell her that it really bothers you.
hope i helped
signed:~Desy~
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I'm graduating high school in 2 weeks. My friends and I are planning a summer trip together. We are debating on weather to go to the Bahamas or touring around Eurpoe. Which would y'all do? (link)
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i would go to the bahamas but that is just my oppion
signed:~DeS~
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when i was a kid and even in middle school..i didnt even want a boyfriend i was soo occupied with sports n school n my friends i didnt think about having a boyfriend. Well im in highschool now..and all of a sudden something just changed in me..i want to find love now..is that normal and will i ever find love? They say some dont..is that true? (link)
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if you really want to find TRUE LOVE bad enough then you will one of these days. some people dont find the right person because they dont look close enough to someone that they know. the truth is that the best of relationships start out as a friend thing so if you want to find love NOW then look for it in someone that you know really well!!! yeah it is normal because some people (like you) just arent ready to make a cometment to someone when they are in elementry school and middle school because there is so much other stuff out there and they just dont think that a boy will help them do everything that they want to do so it is completely normal for you to want to find "Mr. Right" all of a sudden.
good luck!
hope i helped!
signed:~Des~
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okay I didnt know what to put my 'questions' under so I just put miscellaneous, okay well I'm 13 and my mom and I fight a lot, I don't know why but we just argue all the time, is this normal?
okay another of my problems is that I used to like this guy very seriously, and now he's dating my friend, and this doesnt bother me at all, but I just feel like I got the short end of the straw, because I liked him for so long and now I'm left with nothing, I just want a boyfriend and I feel like the opposite of special, almost invisible, and some of my friends and I arent getting along as well, like one of my friends (she dresses very modestly) she said that I dress too showy, and it hurt my feelings, and last but not least, I am gaining weight (atleast I think so) and I don't want to say anything because people would think I just want attention or they would think I was crazy because they call me twiggy sometimes, I just need help with these problems, please this is important. (link)
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yes it is normal for you and your mom to fight a lot so you dont need to worry about that. it will problably get worse before it gets any better between you and her. i dont know what to do about you and your weight because some people have VERY high matabolisim and the higher it is the skinnier you stay. so just dont let anyone bother you about your wieght because it is probably just because of your matabalisim.
good luck.
hope i helped!
signed: ~Des~
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I have a friend lets call her T ok she move this year at the beginning because of her abusive ex b/f. Well she is moving back this summer. Here is the problem we are going to high school next year for the first time and she wants me to go with her to a different school. My mom already said yes, but i dont know if i should leave my old school and friends just for her if u give me a good answer i will rate high
please help me
Lisa (link)
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um................let get this all strait! "T" moved because of her ex-b/f and now she is moving back this summer.. she wants you to go to a different school then the highschool that you should be going to because she doesnt want to go alone. but you dont know if you should leave all of your other friends for one friend who doesnt want to be alone and have to make new friends all over again.
well if i were you i would really think about what you want more. if you want to be at a school that you know that you have friends there to support you in everything that happens or if you want to go somewhere that you only have one friend there. i mean you could get in to some sort of fight with some person at this other school and since your other friends arent going to be at that school then they wont know exactly what all went down to start the whole thing between the two of you. between you and your best friends they may not understand why you and the people are arguing. so with all of that in mind i think that you should do what you think would be best for you.. you should go to what ever school you think you will do better at and not worry about what the rest fo your friends want you to do. just follow your heart and go were it takes you. your heart should take you to the place that is best for you!
Good Luck!
Hope I Helped!
Sorry that i couldnt give you a strait up answer! this was a really hard question and i usually do the best i can to answer any question to the fullest of my abilities. i havent ever refused a question that has been in my inbox and i dont ever plan on it happening!
signed: ~Des~
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i really bored so could u give me advise what to do?
love lisa (link)
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ummm...........try to call someone! or just hang out with me since i am at your house!!! DUH!! LOL!
i love you lisa!
signed:~Des~
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ok, everybody has a different deffintion of love, and i want to know what you think about it. it can be serious, or just goofy. i dont care, but i wanna know that you all think of it. and do you believe in love at first site?? thnx (link)
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yes i do and i cant really explain what love is!
signed: ~Des~
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I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do? (link)
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if you want to be friends with her then you should be. if your friends have a problem with her just because she isnt popular then that is their problem. if they are true friends then they wont diss you and stop hanging out with you. you should do what you want to do and not let peer pressure stop you. it doesnt matter what they think about her. as long as you like her that is all that matters. everyone needs a friend and you can be just that. dont let your friends put you down just because you want to hang out with her.
signed: ~Des~
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