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Question Posted Saturday April 23 2005, 8:52 am

when i was a kid and even in middle school..i didnt even want a boyfriend i was soo occupied with sports n school n my friends i didnt think about having a boyfriend. Well im in highschool now..and all of a sudden something just changed in me..i want to find love now..is that normal and will i ever find love? They say some dont..is that true?

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ToddnDesBffeNe answered Sunday April 24 2005, 5:51 pm:
if you really want to find TRUE LOVE bad enough then you will one of these days. some people dont find the right person because they dont look close enough to someone that they know. the truth is that the best of relationships start out as a friend thing so if you want to find love NOW then look for it in someone that you know really well!!! yeah it is normal because some people (like you) just arent ready to make a cometment to someone when they are in elementry school and middle school because there is so much other stuff out there and they just dont think that a boy will help them do everything that they want to do so it is completely normal for you to want to find "Mr. Right" all of a sudden.

good luck!

hope i helped!

signed:~Des~

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hrdcoreX34Dustin09 answered Saturday April 23 2005, 10:41 pm:
well most people dp find love... im sure you will too but dont settle for less than you want just cuz your afraid you won't find love... but u not wanting a boyfriend in middle school thats no big deal thats your choice your normal dont worry.. hope i helped!

-HayHay

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Freakinidiot4569 answered Saturday April 23 2005, 5:31 pm:
I think that everyone finds love in there life and its normal to want love in your life

-Suzanne-

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Casey answered Saturday April 23 2005, 5:16 pm:
What your feeling is normal i used to feel the same way!And yes you will find love eventually.But be patient and don't force yourself to love!
Casey out!

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o0xbrianna answered Saturday April 23 2005, 1:07 pm:
Yea it's called hormones. Lol. Yes, you will eventually find love. Don't worry about it!




-Brianna

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ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday April 23 2005, 12:58 pm:
Well hun youve got older and your mind was going to focus on guys eventually.. Everybody dont think bout guys at a real young age..You will eventually find love and meet somebody special it just takes time.. and you dont want to just go with anybody.you should have standards in what you want in a guy and relationship so you dont go in and out of relationships and continue to get broken hearts.. much luv dez x0x0 *rate me*

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xOtWiXi answered Saturday April 23 2005, 12:30 pm:
It's completely normal to want to find love- and most likely you will. I believe that everyone in the world has someone that they belong with, others tend to disagree. There might not be a guy for you right now in high school, but you might find him after high school. Of course, still date and stuff, but most people don't marry the people they dated out of high school anyway, but I'm sure you'll find a great guy one day! Hope I've Helped! ♥ If you need anything else, just message me!

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karenR answered Saturday April 23 2005, 11:31 am:
There is someone out there for everybody! Yes, you are normal. You will find someone,just takes some time to find the right one! :)

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cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Saturday April 23 2005, 11:25 am:
heyy .. yep its normal to want a boyfriend because you are older now and you see your friends getting boyfriends now and yea it is true sometimes people dont find true love i know someone that is a school teacher and is 41 and still lives with her parents and has never had a boyfriend but thats the only person i know that never found love but other then that mostly everyone does but whatever you do fdont go to a website looking for love its bad news

hope i helped

please rate

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Shelly_x answered Saturday April 23 2005, 11:20 am:
Of course now your older you will want to have a boyfriend, so yes its normal to just suddenly want to get a guy! Some people dont find love but your young and you have a good chance of finding the rite guy for you! hope i've helped
luv shelly

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Ladyfish answered Saturday April 23 2005, 10:59 am:
yeah that is normal. i suddenly want a boyfriend now and a year ago i was focusing on other things in my life. it is perfectly normal.

there is a soul mate for everyone, dont worry you are still young (so am i) i am sure you will find someone.

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mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday April 23 2005, 10:31 am:
Yes its normal to be wanting to find a boy friend and love. Most people will and do find love. So dont worry about it you will find it soon. Your time will come when you find a boy friend because it has to, and right now friends are more inportant.

luv roxie
XxX♥XxX

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Mackenzie answered Saturday April 23 2005, 9:59 am:
Nothing abnoRmal about that at all. It's an expected paRt of gRowing up, so natuRally eveRyone has been theRe. I would ventuRe to say that it is absolutely tRue that some people live theiR entiRe lives without finding love, yes. HoweveR, I'd say eveRyone at some point in theiR life has been impacted so deeply by anotheR individual enough to the point wheRe that is all they peRsonally need; but what woRks foR one may not woRk foR anotheR. And don't woRRie, you'll most likely find love someday, but don't tRy to Rush it. I know you long foR it Right now, but it'll happen when the timing is Right -- just be patient, and make the most out of eveRyday. Take caRe! Hope I helped!

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Karen answered Saturday April 23 2005, 9:56 am:
It's definitely normal to want to find love now when you were always occupied with sports, school, and friends. Trust me, you will find love and it's not true that you won't. Love comes at different times and if you just wait for that one special guy, he'll come. The only thing you shouldn't do is dating guys that you know aren't boyfriend material. You will find love if you take the time to find it.

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AlwAYZarOUnd00 answered Saturday April 23 2005, 9:51 am:
of coarse you will find love...i believe everyone will find there soul mate.. just step up and show people your ready for a commitment..it will work out good for you i mean really how many guys are in your highschool like 600?
yea it'll be alright
thanks.i hope i could help

~Demery

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therocketsummer answered Saturday April 23 2005, 9:38 am:
It's normal, no worries. When people are preoccupied with sports, family, and friends they tend to forget about the future. The future as in who wil be in my life next? What will I do later on? Now that you're in highschool you are realizing this. You will find love if you look in all the right places. Don't go dating various guys who you know will be wrong for you because you are trying to find love. Wait for the perfect guy, because he will be waiting for you.

-therocket♥

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Yertalkin2Kymmy answered Saturday April 23 2005, 9:36 am:
Everyone has that special someone, yes these feeling are normal. Just dont worry, be youself and the guy will come to yooh! Just dont change yurself for another guy! :)

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