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Hey My Name is Julia! I am 14 years old. My friend Michelle is a collumist here too!
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There is this absolute gorgeous guy who I have somewhat of a crush on. My friends and I just started hanging out with him a few times this summer. He was flirting with one of my friends at a party. I was talking to him on IM that night, and we were flirting alot. He asked me when we were going to hook up. I told him only if hes not hooking up with other girls, and he said no only you. A few nights before he told me he wanted to hook up, he slept with this one girl. They didn't have sex, they just slept together. I don't want to go out with him, and I know this won't be anything serious, but I'm scard that if I hook up with him, I might get involved, and end up with a broken heart. I've never hooked up with a guy before, and this is the only guy I would ever want to. What do i do?

I dont think you should hook up at all. You will probably end up with a broken heart. he will get what he wants from you then get bored then leave. I dont wanna sem like a downer, just be careful.

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hey umm i know this i kinda wierd but i think i know you .... is your last name melia? thanks lol

Um... No it isnt Melia, I do know someone with the last name Melia though. lol

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my brother got permanent marker on our kitchen table. its a finnished wood table.i need help fast please!!!!!!!or im in alotta trouble.

anyone know how to get it off? i will rate high!

try a rubber eraser but water wont work b/c there is water in the permanent marker solution, I think vinigar might get it out/

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i brush my retainer every day. it still ends up smelling like crap somehow.. my mom called my ortho, and they said to use the stuff that you put dentures in.. i did that, and it still smells bad! does anyone know something good that will get the nasty smell away from my retainer?

well I have a retainer and i know exactly what you mean. if the denture tablets dont work after a fea days then try soaking it in a vinigar solution. if that doesnt work try listerine. and if that doesnt work then dont wear it for a day or 2, just let it soak in the denture stuff all day, dont lake it our after 10 minutes.

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hey peps. well this question is for pet-people. I allready have one guinea pig and he used to be paired up with another male then i adopted him(he was the last one so i couldn't get the other). but, i live in texas and i was wondering if there were any adopting websites. I tried yahoo, google, ask, and all those so if u no any please tell me!!! ill rate just watch!

well Its kinda far away from texas but if you are willing to go far to get a guinea pig best friends of utah is a great place. They take in any animal no matter what the situation. go to bestfriends.org I believe is the website.

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okay well there is this guy that has liked me all year long and he tells me all the time that he always thinks about me and he dreams about me and it really didnt bug me because i just ignored him when he told me stuff like that. But then all of the sudden he put something in his xanga that scared me and has haunted me ever since. It said that he would take a bullet for me thats how bad he wants me. And i have been scared that he will do anything just to get me. I dont know if i should talk to the police or a counselor but if someone could please help. He stalks me all the time and he knows everything about me like where i live, what my mom's car looks like and the sticker on the back of the car. To me that is very scary. If someone could please help i am afraid for my life here... i feel like one day he will bring a gun to school and shoot me thats how bad he really wants me and if i say no to him then that makes him really mad. Please help ASAP! ITS URGENT!
thank you

Contact the police immidiatly! You and him could be in danger! You both need protection. he needs counselling and you should get a restraining order on him so he cant come near you. I hope everything works out.

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ok the guy who im basicaly going out with and we are inlove well he called me crying from work and he told me he doesnt know whats wrong and he is thinking about suicide and stuff and he just wants the world to die basically but i dont know why i need help to figure out what to do he is going to come over to my house in like three hours and i need to think of something fast and i want to know what is wrong does anyone have any clue or knows what im going throug???

There is a very hight chance that he is in a deppression. he needs to have supervision all the time. if he is thinking about suicide he needs help, therapy or somthing. there is not much yoy can do to help him. just support him and dont let him be alone! I know of some one who was in a deppression and committed suicide and she was only 10! Please dont let him be all alone.

get him help asap!

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I have a soocer game today in like 3 hours! My leg is really hurting me and I don't think I can play! I really have to go and play cause we lost 4 games and those 4 games I wasn't there and I'm the best player on my team!If I don't play we'll lose again!any suggestion? ok thanx! I rate! by!
~*Tiffany*~

I would not put your health on the line for a soccer game. there will be other games. if you do go you might push it to hard and then end uo making the injury worse than it is. Your team will understand that you really want to be there but if you go you could worsen the injury and prevent yourself from playing in future games.


My suggestion is- 24 hours of iceing the hurt spot

24 hours heating the hurting spot.


i hope I am helping.

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when i was a kid and even in middle school..i didnt even want a boyfriend i was soo occupied with sports n school n my friends i didnt think about having a boyfriend. Well im in highschool now..and all of a sudden something just changed in me..i want to find love now..is that normal and will i ever find love? They say some dont..is that true?

yeah that is normal. i suddenly want a boyfriend now and a year ago i was focusing on other things in my life. it is perfectly normal.

there is a soul mate for everyone, dont worry you are still young (so am i) i am sure you will find someone.

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omg im so screwed...i think my ipod broke! i read the manual like a million times but it says nothing about my ipod..please help!! ok whenever i select a song it stays there for about a second..then it skips to every song on my list without playing anything!! omg if u could help me that would be soo amazing! i rate high!!

well what I have heard and read is that after a certain amount of time or years that you have an i-pod it beaks. They program it to break so you will get a new one.

I am not sure if it it true.


I sugest calling apple to see if there is a secret button or recharge r battery that you need. i really hope this helps.


~ladyfish~

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My eigth grade graduation (semi) is coming up & Im freaking out because its in June but Im not ready like my friends are. So, I have two q's ..1st is where can i find a cute inexpensive dress website besides Gojane.com? Also, I want to sing a song at the ceremony but I dont know what ..PLEASE dont say Graduation by vitamin C. thanks

Well, my graduation is coming up 2. my friend jen and I might sing together.

the beginong in anastasia (disney version) is easy to sing and really pretty.

as far as dresses go. Macys has really really nice ones. My sis got a beautiful one there lasy year. and I am getting mine there this year

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I'm 14 years old, female and in the 9th grade. I've been sick for 4 1/2 months now, out of school and everything with an illness called colitis which is a disease in your large intestine and causes constant trips to the bathroom...it's embarassing yeah, but it's not like i picked to have this. Anyways, i would have thought being sick would bring me and my friends closer together but really, it ripped us apart. My best friend, or at least thought she was my best friend, completely ditched me 24/7 and said some really mean things to me and she lives right down the street from me and not once outa the 4 months did she come to my house to just visit with me and whenever she needs me, i'm ALWAYS there for her and like i wanna end the friendship cuz she is just a complete b**** like you wouldn't believe but the thing is, its hard to end the friendship as much as i wanna cuz i have so much fun with her. I need advice on what to do!! It's been driving me crazy for months on what to do and i just don't know anymore...:/

Hun, you really should turn to your friends who are there for you. all the time. it might be hard, I was very sick last year and had to end a friendship, I know it is hard

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today i sniffed my fabric softener and it smelt good and i stuck it up my nose and the powder rubbed off into my nose and i have no sense of smell what do i do?

I would say call poison controll the # is in the phone book. They will tell you what do do.

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hi! im 13/f and im not loveing life to much.my mom is always yelling at me for nothing and slapping me alot and just hates me. then theres the thing that everytime i start to care for someone the dump me... and after the convince me that they like me or im pretty or something.. i really hate this. i got plenty more going on but yeah i dont need to dump all my shit on yall. but someone please tell me how to cope w/ this... ive been handleing this in a bad way for a little while now.. and i want to stop it..
thanks alot to anyone who helps me!

I really think you should get some help. If your mother is yelling at you/putting you down and slapping you that isn't right.

You could take a break from dating for a little while. I am assuming that dump means a boyfriend. maybe spend time with some of your friends that are girls. If you know of one friend that you really know and trust you could talk to her. I know it isnt easy but you could talk to a guidance counseler, that iswhat they are here for. if you dont want to do that, you could talk to a trusted adult that you really know and love.

I really hope I am helping you. And I hope everything works out for the best for you. I'll keep you in my thoughts.

~Ladyfish~

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