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not loveing life right now...
hi! im 13/f and im not loveing life to much.my mom is always yelling at me for nothing and slapping me alot and just hates me. then theres the thing that everytime i start to care for someone the dump me... and after the convince me that they like me or im pretty or something.. i really hate this. i got plenty more going on but yeah i dont need to dump all my shit on yall. but someone please tell me how to cope w/ this... ive been handleing this in a bad way for a little while now.. and i want to stop it..
thanks alot to anyone who helps me!
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You could do something fun in your life like do poetry or art. ( something thatlets your feelings out) Rember TiMe HeaLS EvErYtHiNg~
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This is hard .. mabey you should just lay low for a while. Try not to do anything that your mom would get mad at (under any costs!) Dont get involved into a serious relationship with anyone until you know them and that they would never hurt you.
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Okay. Sounds like you need a break from life. But I doubt you will be able to get it. So heres what you could do to relieve some stress. Write some peotry. I know to some it sounds gay, but when you write things down, you get a different perspective of it. Try it and see what it does for you.
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Talk to your mom how you feel. Your mom should never ever make you feel like crap and shouldnt hit you a lot, maybe a smack in the butt if u did something wrong lol. But, deffinitly talk to someone you can trust like a friend. If you need someone to talk to you can talk to me. My screen name is BreenzyWeenzy7. My comp isnt working right now but when i'm online IM me. Just take a deep breath in. If what you've been handling your stress by cutting or abuseing yourself then stop. You know that your a good person and no one should make you feel uncomfortable. Maybe stray away from guys right now. You have your whole life to find that speacial someone. Guys are immature at age 13 and call it off early because they probably are scared to get too serious. Good Luck Hun.
~Brina~
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Handling this in a bad way? That doesn't sound very good at all.
I doubt your mom hates you. She just might have a lot going on in her life too. Instead of thinking your mom hates you, try seeing things from her perspective and see if your own attitude might be contributing to it or adding stress to her life.
As for people dumping you, life can be tough. Try being a little more independent. When you are happy with your own life without a bf, you will find you can choose one that will respect you and even if it doesn't work out long term, you will be so much stronger to deal with breaking up. Don't have a bf for the sake of having some in your life. If you do, you end up choosing the first guy, not the right guy. Then you get hurt.
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If your mom is slapping you, you need to say something to someone. That's not right at all. Maybe you could tell your guidance counselor at school, or even a teacher. Or you could ask your friend to tell an adult for you.
I think you should give up on dating for a little. Until your life gets better. Just hang out with the girls =).
You could cope with things by writing them. Try keeping a diary. Or talk with a friend, that you can trust... or an adult you can trust.
Teenage years are some of the most difficult. Just stay strong, and remember people love and care about you.
Hope I helped.
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Hey.. I just really want to tell you stay strong and all will go well. Anyway, i want to help you but.. im me cuz i dont want to do it in public.. and if you want to dump it on my its fine.. ill listen.
Always there..
Donna
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I really think you should get some help. If your mother is yelling at you/putting you down and slapping you that isn't right.
You could take a break from dating for a little while. I am assuming that dump means a boyfriend. maybe spend time with some of your friends that are girls. If you know of one friend that you really know and trust you could talk to her. I know it isnt easy but you could talk to a guidance counseler, that iswhat they are here for. if you dont want to do that, you could talk to a trusted adult that you really know and love.
I really hope I am helping you. And I hope everything works out for the best for you. I'll keep you in my thoughts.
~Ladyfish~
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