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the PERFECT GUY
He'll know you can never say i love you too many times but he knows not to say it if he doesnt mean it with all his heart

He'll give me his favorite sweatshirt

He'll make me a build a bear

and he wont care about how silly he looks being in a store full of 2nd graders

Because he knows it would be special to me

He will stay home w/ me and watch the notebook

and tell me he loved it even when he didnt

and the only person he would ever watch with is me

He will call me at 3am and ask me waht im doing

hell tell me he couldnt fall asleep because he was thinking about me and he needed to hear my voice

he cant walk nect to me without holding my hand

and he always whispers something sweet in my ear

he'll take to me to see his fav. band

when i cry he'll tell me im too beautiful and he'll kiss every tear

He'll always make me feel better because he knows the perfect thing to say to me

all of his friends know were in love because hell talk about me to them

He'll love everything nabout me and tell me that im perfect

we'll always end up laghing bout si lly fights


we wont get mad for making fun of eachother because we crack up at every bit of it


Even when were million yrs old butterflies will still go crazy inside of me everytime he kisses me


ASK ME ANYTHING

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i want to have a party but my parents think that all my friends are bad and they will brake stuff even though there like isnt anything to brake in my basement can someone tell me how i could talk to my parents aobut it or something because my friends think im like a bitch for not inviting them over

and could you give some ideas of what to do because the only stuff thats down there is a tv pool table ping pong table and like a couple chairs

thanks

You could do like fun games... i dont know how old you are but yah... get music down there and just dance . Play truth or dare... like a good one and spin the bottle. Hehe hope i helped.

*sarah

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Well since grade 4 i have been writing books.. yah not long ones that i complete most the time i dont finish them and go onto a next book lool..

Well time i really do want to write and complete a book.. and get it published.

Any tips? I'm into reality writing like teen books, based a bit older than jaqueling wilson and like louise renninson.

How can i make characters base round my friends but not exactly like them etc.

I might write it on my life atm becuase its interesting actually...

I'm a good fan of cathy hopkins and any1 have any tips to write like her?
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AND -- any tips to keep me going and keep writing??
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Any good UK publishers for young people to publish there books?

THANKS I RATE***** 5'S *******

I dont know how you would do most of that but if you want to stay a writer dont wear yourself out. Write mabey once a week for a couple hours . Make it something you loook forward to.

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I'm looking for a nice dress for the end of the year band banquet but i dont know where to do besides Macy's and JCPennys...is there any other store you recommend i can go to for some dresses...i want the nice long dresses, almost like prom but it doesn't have to be fluffy. thanks in advance!

Dillards or Nordstorms
*sarah

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i am currently friends with girls that are always dating and everyone like them..even though they aren't that pretty..but still they get ALL the guys and guys never like me and makes me feel bad, most of the time guys only become friends with me just so they can get close to my friends and last saturday(at a banquet) i really really wanted to dance with this guy i liked, but my friend just was like "oh i will dance with you" even though she knew i liked him and now they are goin out..this problem makes me feel self consicous and that noone likes me..and i have really depressing days..so what my question is what can i do to get guys to like me for who i am and not my friends and what can i do about my friends? thnx in advance.

Your friends are probably just using you or are not real friends. Try to go off with some other people and like wave to guys that are cute and talk to them alot . Once they find out who you really are they will like you .... its just the way a guy is. Be more aggresive(like at the banquent)
*sarah

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I'm 13f and my second grade teacher, who I really really liked got charged with sexual abuse. I don't want to believe it but at the same time I know it's true. I even know the guy who was abused. It's always desturbing when it's someone you know and trust, but I don't understand why I'm so confused about this.

Its hard for everyone i know but you just have to deal with it. Some people arent who the really are orr they change over time. Just ecept that because it is all that you can really do.

*sarah

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Me and my girlfriend had been goin out for a while but then the other day she broke up with me i asked her why and i found out she wasnt goin outr wit this other guy already. Please tell me what to do!

Approach her kindly and ask, " Why didnt you tell me that you were going out with that other guy." Dont like yell at her or anything or she will never like you again. Just have a conversation and see what happens after that.
*sarah

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Hi taylor nice QUESTION. i think your hott too .

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NOT !
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so i REALLY wanna be a freshman cheerleader but the problem is when i get in front of the judges i like freeze up and forget stuff like last year i messed up on my cheer and wasn't very loud cuz i was like omg judges so does anyone know how i could get over my fear of the judges?

Just start praticing in front of your parents then your best friends then like 4 then 5 and so on.
*sarah

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How do I get my hair to become straight and stay like that? It's a little wavy right now. What kind of products should I use? My hair is kind of thick too.

Well i have thick curly hair. I know it seems impossible but you cant make it very strait. Buy a CHI (like 120) if thats too expensive try a wiggo. Try blowdrying your hair after you wash it . then buy a product called AGUAGE and spray it on every section before flatironing. After you finished your whole hair then use a product called hair toys . Use that on all of ya hair but remember a little goes a long way.
PS dont buy crappy walmart or drugstore straitners they suck
*sarah

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omg.. i cry over the smallest things.. but then they turn into big things... its not cool.. like i get all mad at something then i take it out on someone... then they hate me and wont talk to me... then all i do is cry.... what do i do to not do this....?????????

Dont let the small things get to you or they become big things. When something small happens then just blow it off . If something big does happen then dont cry. Try to handle it as calmly
as possible.
*sarah

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Ok, I have a b.f. in Arkansas, and we met once and i really love him. He has no email, and i can't call guy's. I don't know if we should still be together or not. I mean i've only had fealings for him, out of all the boys i've met, which iz like three. Wat should i do. I love him.

HHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPP

I rate 5's for anyone who reply's
Thanx

If you cant call him email him or anything
then try to VISIT him. If you still love him you
need to let him know that and that you wont love him if he doesnt try.
*sarah

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omg my parents are so annoying. they are constantly on my case about ANYTHING. for example, i got a 95 on a tuff quiz. they were just like blowing it off. and keep in mind im almost failing that subject. They make a big deal out of low grades but when i get a high grade they just blow it off. and when im home alone, they CONSTANTLY keep calling me like every 5 minutes. and now i sprained my ankle and they keep telling me to do everything normally. i hate when they call because your probly thinking"they call b/c they love you" but no thats not it. and my dad always tries to play around but he just doesnt know when to quit. and if i forget to do like the simplest thing, my mom flips out at me. my parents just are so annoying. How can i make them less annoying? if that makes any sense?

Try telling them nicely to quit it. That may not
work . they probably are just overprotected and dont want to have anything happen to you. Next time that they complain about your low grades tell them you studied hard and it was a hard qiz or test. DONT let it get to you its the best thing. And dont anwser the phone. Say that you were taking a shower and you didnt hear it.
*sarah

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well there is this guy that likes me & i GUESS that i like him too but i don`t kno. well he asked me out but he said no, & he as all sad & doesn`t talk to me anymore..(we used to talk a lot) so yea..i don`t kno what to do.i don`t think i like him but i think i like his friend.i have been thinking if me & his friend went out he would be mad at me. so yea help?

Just go to him in school and say that you truly want to be friends. Say that you love his personality and you would be crushed if you couldnt be friends.
*sarah

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Well so. I really like/d this kid (Jimmy) and I really liked him he knows, and he liked me too, but I don't know how he feels anymore bc he dones't talk that much anymore. and his cousin knows all of this (and i've known both of them for like 5-6-7 yrs) and he wants to hook up, (they're both 17) like I do wana hook up with him, but i dont wana mess things up with Jimmy if there still a chance. But I have no idea what to do...any advice?

Go ahead and hook up with them. If Jimmy gets mad and he really does like you then you will get together with him someday. Tell him that he missed his chance.
*sarah

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What do you do for clammy hands?

Haha.JKJK, bring purel around and use it every once in a while. It like drys up your hands and makes them clean. :)
*sarah

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hey! okay, today i went tanning for the frist time. i went in a medium ed for 10 minutes, and used the special lotion they give you. i came home tonight, more than 6 hours later, and took a shower. just one certain spot on me is red, actually 2. it's normally where i get sunburn. could i have possibly gotten sunburn , or is it like an allergic reaction to the lotion? i don't think it's the lotion, since wouldn't i have gotten taht all over my body? just wondering if it is sunburn how can i prevent it next time and put anything on it to make it go away? thanks!

I am sure it is just a mild sunburn dont worry. mabey you should try a regular bed for a while and let your body adjust.
*sarah

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is there a such thing as two kinds of penises... my friend robert told me that evan has a something penis and i forgot what its called? does anyone know anything? like abnornmal or something?

Your friend probably meant an circumcised penis or uncircumsied penis.
*sarah

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My best friend is 16 now but she has been getting abused by her dad since she was old enough to walk. I saw him punch her in the face one time and bang her head against a wall. I am really scared for and her sister because I have seen him hit her too. She's asked me not to tell but Im scared that if I keep quiet that one day he might really hurt her. We tryed calling the police on him one time but they wanted to press charges against us and not him. I dont know what I should do and I dont know how I can help her.

Ask your mother if she can take you directly to the police. Try to get a picture of your friend when she has a bad bruise and show it to the cops. Explain to the police what you have seen.
Good luck
*sarah

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im 23 and have had pretty bad teeth for a while . pretty large gap aand they stick out, apart from that I am really happy with my looks, but it is getting worse and worse as the days go by , not smling etc , should I confront my fear at 23??? what other options do I have?

Try going to your orthodontist and ask him/her what is best for you. I would recommend braces. They arent that bad and its the best way.
*sarah

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I have a 5 year old male miniature dacshound. His problem is that he pees inside the house on the carpets when we want him to go pee outside. He is potty trained but still goes to the carpets like he does not care. We smack his bottom whenever he does and sometimes spray a dog and cat sour spray in his mouth to basically tell him "no" but nothing seems to get through his head. If I don't get to controlling his actions soon my parents are seriously considering sending him to the pound. What should I do?

Keep him in a cage for about a week . Let him out like twice a day to stretch his legs and let him out immediatly to the backyard so he can pee there.
*sarah

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