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Teacher Abuses
I'm 13f and my second grade teacher, who I really really liked got charged with sexual abuse. I don't want to believe it but at the same time I know it's true. I even know the guy who was abused. It's always desturbing when it's someone you know and trust, but I don't understand why I'm so confused about this.
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Its hard for everyone i know but you just have to deal with it. Some people arent who the really are orr they change over time. Just ecept that because it is all that you can really do.
*sarah
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I think it's like a sub-consience state of denial. You know it's true but your sub-consience mind is so unhappy with this news that it refuses to believe the news.
Karazi Kenzee
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A teacher is in a position of trust. Part of your liking the teacher is probably a degree of trust you placed in the teacher to do right by you. Now you find the teacher isn't everything you thought.
It is hard to let go of the trust when the abuse was not directed at you. It is better to disbelieve than think your instincts could be so wrong about someone.
But they can.
A hard lesson learned. Trust sometimes gets abused.
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Yeah, nice story. Did you have a question or were you just sharing that your teacher is a sicko?
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It's kind of like when someone you are really close to passes away, it's so sad and unreal you don't want your mind to believe it. Nothing's wrong with that at all you just don't want to grasp the truth. It's always harder to believe what's acutally going on than to believe the truth, because it's always harder for us to understand. Understand <strong>why</strong> exactly your teacher did this, you probably will never know, but you've got to understand what happened and what did not. What didn't happen was what you are wanting to believe did. Phew. Lemme explain that a little differently. What didn't happen- Your teacher <strong>did not</strtong>, NOT sexually assult another student. You want to believe that is true. This is probably really confusing, but I tried my best ♥
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