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i am currently friends with girls that are always dating and everyone like them..even though they aren't that pretty..but still they get ALL the guys and guys never like me and makes me feel bad, most of the time guys only become friends with me just so they can get close to my friends and last saturday(at a banquet) i really really wanted to dance with this guy i liked, but my friend just was like "oh i will dance with you" even though she knew i liked him and now they are goin out..this problem makes me feel self consicous and that noone likes me..and i have really depressing days..so what my question is what can i do to get guys to like me for who i am and not my friends and what can i do about my friends? thnx in advance.
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Your friends are probably just using you or are not real friends. Try to go off with some other people and like wave to guys that are cute and talk to them alot . Once they find out who you really are they will like you .... its just the way a guy is. Be more aggresive(like at the banquent)
*sarah ]
Your friend who knew that you liked this guy, she isn't a good friend at all, if she was she would try to introduce you to some guys so you won't feel so left out, because I'm pretty sure it was obvious.
So I wouldn't even try to talk to this girl. Take control, and get out and find you some guys on your own. Not guys that know your two friends well. You don't need these girls to ruin your fun! :) Hope this helped you.
*Diamyn* ]
Dress provocative.
Wear hooters shirts.
Bottomless skirts.
HAHAHAHAHAHA! Okay, i had my fun. I wouldnt worry about it. Take a look around. Are ANY of those relationships long lasting? No. Worry about it when you're 20. Right now, anyone you go out with will be a temerary bit of fun. Then you'll break up and have to find another one, and another one, and another. Sure, it seems cool to go out. But at a teen age, it doesnt last. ]
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