i am currently friends with girls that are always dating and everyone like them..even though they aren't that pretty..but still they get ALL the guys and guys never like me and makes me feel bad, most of the time guys only become friends with me just so they can get close to my friends and last saturday(at a banquet) i really really wanted to dance with this guy i liked, but my friend just was like "oh i will dance with you" even though she knew i liked him and now they are goin out..this problem makes me feel self consicous and that noone likes me..and i have really depressing days..so what my question is what can i do to get guys to like me for who i am and not my friends and what can i do about my friends? thnx in advance.
lildiamyn_69 answered Thursday April 7 2005, 4:56 pm: Your friend who knew that you liked this guy, she isn't a good friend at all, if she was she would try to introduce you to some guys so you won't feel so left out, because I'm pretty sure it was obvious.
So I wouldn't even try to talk to this girl. Take control, and get out and find you some guys on your own. Not guys that know your two friends well. You don't need these girls to ruin your fun! :) Hope this helped you.
*Diamyn* [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
HAHAHAHAHAHA! Okay, i had my fun. I wouldnt worry about it. Take a look around. Are ANY of those relationships long lasting? No. Worry about it when you're 20. Right now, anyone you go out with will be a temerary bit of fun. Then you'll break up and have to find another one, and another one, and another. Sure, it seems cool to go out. But at a teen age, it doesnt last. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
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