well, i like 2 guys. one is tall, and really cute and funny. He calls me hobbit because i am a foot shorter than him 5' to 6'. there's one problem tho, he has a gf. They never do anythin together and they talk like they are still friends but whenever we are talking he stops when she comes over. His gf is my friend too and she's really sweet but he doesnt pay as much attention to her as he does to me. But then there is this other guy is most of the time sweet and cute. He tries to make me laugh all the time. He is about the same height as me and lots of freckles. I always stares back at me during one of our classes where i sit behind him. Yesterday, he threw me up against the wall because we were playfighting. It was a joke tho. I don't know, they both flirt but i dont know what to do
Aunty_Zozie answered Saturday April 9 2005, 9:54 am: Someones popular! Sounds like both of these two may like you, whether its more than friends or not only you can determine. My advice would be, if the first guy asks you out (the one that calls you a hobbit) run it by his x gf/ur friend. Its possibly not the most appealing ideas, but tell it to her straight, that you and whateverhisnameis are goig out, and that you hope she is ok with this because it means a lot to you. But firm with her, and try not to leave an opening in the conversation where she could butt in with something along the lines of"Youre betraying me" "I thought you were my friend" etc etc. Get her used to the idea that you and this guy will be going out, mae it clear that you hope she is ok with this, but if shes not shes going to have to deal with it, because its your life. If, however, this guys not the one, and the second one asks you out (unless theres no camicaze ex gf hanging around) then go for it because theres nothing holding you back!
Then again, there is the possiilllity that these two are just friends, but thats down to you to decide, ive just given you ideas of what to do in each possible situation! Good luck! [ Aunty_Zozie's advice column | Ask Aunty_Zozie A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.