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I need Help Badly!
Ok, I have a b.f. in Arkansas, and we met once and i really love him. He has no email, and i can't call guy's. I don't know if we should still be together or not. I mean i've only had fealings for him, out of all the boys i've met, which iz like three. Wat should i do. I love him.
HHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPP
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Thanx
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hey! Personally, i would dump him. I mean you dont every see, or talk to him. But try to keep in touch with him as friends. I really hoped i helped ♥ Michelle
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Well i think if you dont see or speak to himi dont get the point really of being with him because there is no communication in this realtion ship.And personaly myself i think communication is a big part of a realtion ship because noramlly it helps the people learn more about each other and not talking or seeing other each other at all isnt really that good of a realation ship at all i think. well i hope i helped!!
~~SilentTears
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HI! well if you really love him then you would set this relationship aside till yall can communicate with eachother. scince yall have only met once it shouldnt be all that hard you no and he could have another girl down where he lives yalls relationship is SO risky so just let go of him girl for your own good
LATER POSERS! nora
i hope i helped
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If there is no way to contact him, you should just set this relationship aside until the day that you eventually can call him or talk to him again. Theres nothing you can do if you can't even talkto your own boyfriend. Do you have his number? If you do, call him while your at your friends house. JUST ONCE. When you call him, tell him how he can talk to you. Tell him your email address and dont make the convo long. Tell him ur advicenators site, cause you dont have to have an email address to talk to the people. Good luck! I hope it works out :D
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If you cant call him or cant email him, have you tried VISITING him?? Thats the only possible way. Try texting him to see how hes doing. If it doesnt work out its better to break up with him, because i dont understand how you can have a conversation or anykind like this. I hope this helps. xoxo BLONDE911
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well do u live in arkansas?
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If you cant call him email him or anything
then try to VISIT him. If you still love him you
need to let him know that and that you wont love him if he doesnt try.
*sarah
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thats sad to her but i think that its a bit hard to bein a relationship when hes so far away, i no you love him but mabe its time you find someone else to go for.
luv roxie
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ask youself this.. if you can never talk to him or see him, how can you expect the relationship to last? also, meeting someone once is not enough to know whether or not you love them, which should be obvious if you cant even feel comfortable calling him. oh and also?? arkansas?? i mean, come on..
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i think that it is truely up to you. but my i think that you should talk to him somehow and just ask him if he thinks if it would be alright to date other people just untill you guys meet up again. i hope i helped! *RATE ME PLEASE*
-x0xTarax0x
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Is that even really a relationship if you never talk and kno what's going on??? Hun... I think you need to go to a friends house or something with a calling card if it is long distance and talk to him tell him what you feel and see if he feels the same way... what's happening between you guys is not a relationship at all... well hope I helped.. the best thing to do is talk to him about it... and if you can't get a hold of him find someone knew.. good luck
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Rate of 5 eh??? LoL, I'm kidding. Um.. well honestly (like I ever lied to the others) I think you shouldn't make a relationship with someone you've met only once. Also, do all of us a favor, and don't write "HHHHHEEEEELLLPPP" It's just annoying. I'm sorry. But it is. We all get the point. I'm just going to tell you this...
Truth hurts. And so do wounds. I know this is tough for you, but long-distance relationships just doesn't work very well, especially if you are at a young age, which I'm guessing you are. But here's one thing you can do. Do activities that would make you forget about him. Like.... whatever you like to do. Hiking, kicking-butt, shopping, or whatever people your age do. Just have fun while you're young. Don't get relationships be blocking everthing.
~SAM
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okay.. please don't take this wrong, but if you met him once, i think its impossible to truly love love love love him. you "love" the thought of him, but.. would you die for him? would you change your whole life? i'm sure if he doesn't have an email, and he hasn't heard from you... he probably moved on [i know, its hard to hear]. and don't just.. get a bf the first day you meet him, take your time. i really hope i didn't offend you, but i just had to tell you.
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one way is, that if you ever go to arkansas, then go and see him!! maybe send a letter, and tell him to call you, instead of you calling him...
~roxy2005~
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Okay. You met 3 guys. And you think you love him? Love is an awfully strong word. You dont like him. You're just infatuated with him.
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Hmm, this is a tuff one! Most long distance relationships don't last unless you see each other every now and then, and stay in touch. You and this guy do neither of those, I suggest you and him just stay friends until you can do those things. Good luck!
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Well, really i dont kno if you guys should really be together... but if you really love eachother... then i would stay together... but if you guys cant even talk... i mean you guys could send letters and pictures to eachother.. but i dont kno just write him a letter and tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels too
Hope I helped!
MaNdY!
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If you love him, then stay with him. Even though you two aren't communicating that much, you can make this relationship stronger somehow. Try writing letters to each other and tell him to call you. If you have only had feelings for him out of all the guys you've met, then stay with him.
-Karen
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Hey! Well my opinion would be to break up with him because u cant even talk to hi mor keep in touch and you could be dating other people! HIM TOO! You have to think the positives and the negatives and you can figure it out from there....
Hope i helped maybe we can keep in touch.,
Jennifer x3
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Well I don't really see a way that you two can be together and maintain a faithful relationship. Eventually, you're going to start liking other people and it will drive you insane to not be able to to even communicate with each other. I wouldn't condiser the fact that he is the only guy you've been with that you've had feelings for of all that great importance only because you haven't had enough experiences to determine exactly how strong your feelings are. I think that you guys can have a relationship in which you're together when your around each other, but have it understood that when you're apart it's ok for you to be with other people. After all...if you're supposed to be together, that's how it will work out in the future.
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That stinks, too bad he's far away from you. I think you should keep going on with the relationship until meet another guy who you have feelings for, one who's closer to you. Good luck. :D
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well i would stick with him considering the very depressing fact that you've only met 3 guys.. that made me seem like a real player having 16 boyfriends in the last 2 years.
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