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Question Posted Thursday March 24 2005, 9:46 pm

there are 2 guys that like me and one is very outgoing but he can be rude sometimes but he loves me and then the other guy is very sweet but he is quiet. which one should i go for???

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mrs_radcliffe answered Friday March 25 2005, 6:37 am:
the second one, he sounds nices but you just have to put in some work with him if hes shy. You dont need a guy who is rude and annoying. It will be fun finding out about the other guy and what hes like.

luv roxie

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xoxwheatiesxox answered Thursday March 24 2005, 11:59 pm:
if you really connect with one, choose that one. but i know from experience that things can be awkward with the quiet guys. sometimes a girl doesnt want to lead the relationship, she wants to be lead. thats why id go for the outgoing one, but i have a shitty love life so i probly shouldnt be talking

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Italiachicc144 answered Thursday March 24 2005, 11:12 pm:
it depends on your personality in a way. can you be entertained for a period of time with the shy one? or will you be able to stand the outgoing ones rudeness? However opposites attract

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roxy2005 answered Thursday March 24 2005, 10:41 pm:
okay...go for the guy that best suits you. if you are an outgoing person, then go for the outgoing guy. if you are quie, then go for the other guy that is sensitive and sweet!!
~roxy2005~

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shake answered Thursday March 24 2005, 10:24 pm:
The one you like.

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Spark120 answered Thursday March 24 2005, 10:22 pm:
i'de go with the sweet/quiet one. At least he wont be rude to you. He would probably treat you right!

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crazybrunet09 answered Thursday March 24 2005, 10:20 pm:
if it were me i would go for the outgoing one because the main prioty i have for boys is being crazy and fun and funny like me. so just think- what are the main things you want in a guy? and then see which guy is better.

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Lovedoctor answered Thursday March 24 2005, 10:15 pm:
It depends what your personality is like... are you more outgoing, or more of the quiet type? For the first guy, is he rude ALL the time? How rude is he? Ask yourself those questions. For the second guy, it's good for guys to be quiet, trust me. Good luck!

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PeppErminTtEaiSgoOd4mE answered Thursday March 24 2005, 10:12 pm:
Well, think which one would be better boyfriend materail. Which one do you have more fun with? do you like it when the other one is sometimes rude?
Hope i Helped!!
Tell me which one you pick!
MaNdY!

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Karen answered Thursday March 24 2005, 10:10 pm:
Your best bet is to probably go for the very sweet and quiet guy because he may be different, once you two are together and he's probably more reliable and great to hang out with. Everyone changes and this guy will. I wouldn't go with the very outgoing and rude guy because you don't deserve a guy like that who is rude. If you still can't decide who to choose, then make a list of the pros and cons of each and hang out with each of them more often and you will then be able to choose one.
-Karen

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ktsu0723 answered Thursday March 24 2005, 10:10 pm:
If it were me I would go for the quiet guy because I can't stand rude people no matter what their attributes are. Rude is rude. There is actually an easy way to figure which one is right for you however. If you are looking for a long term relationship go with the sweet and quiet.He will probably treat you better and listen to you more. If you are just having fun then go with the wild child. Perks are that he is probably down for anything but you have to bear with his rudeness. best of luck and I hope I helped!

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punkrockprincess answered Thursday March 24 2005, 10:09 pm:
Go for the one that your personality goes with best! If you don't like quiet people, then don't choose the quiet one. If you don't like rude people, then don't choose the rude one.


♥ Always,
Maria

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x0x_surfergirl_x0x answered Thursday March 24 2005, 10:02 pm:
Hey hunny!!

Ugh lol don't we all hate picking out guys when both seem wonderful?? lol i know I do...I'd wait out a bit...Throughout the day think to yourself "who am i thinking of more?" the guy you think the most of is probably the one that you do like the most.

Don't like the rude guy just bcause you don't want to hurt his feelings about him loving you. Plus you don't wanna end up being like him !! Liking him not to hurt his feelings, is rude :)
But if you really do like him see what happens...

The sweet and quiet guy seem more convienent because if this sometimes rude guy is rude to anyone reguardless he will wind up eventually being rude to you. Even though everyone is rude sometimes. The quiet guys are usually nicer and sweeter.

I would wait it out and follow your heart. You don't want to end up picking the wrong guy... :)
Hope I helped and Good Luck :)
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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x0x_h0LLiist3r_kUtii3 answered Thursday March 24 2005, 10:02 pm:
i say the sweet and quiet one! you should never have a rude boyfriend! ~allie

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redxroses answered Thursday March 24 2005, 9:59 pm:
I would go for the quiet, sweet one if I were you... Who would want a rude guy as a boyfriend? He might upset you and break your heart... That happened to me like two years ago. He also upset my friends...

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br0kenPr0miiSes answered Thursday March 24 2005, 9:58 pm:
the quiet ones listen, the rude ones are jerks.

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