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Ok there is this guy I like and his name is Cody. Me and my friend met him at an assembly and ever since he has been talking to me. Everytime I see him in the hall me and him talk and stuff. But my friend is always there when i talk to him. Sometimes he will kinda poke me and go " ewwww " but in a joking way. And he comes and sits with us sometimes at lunch when his guys leave. There was this boy bothering me today and he goes up and tells him " You better not be bothering her! " So What? Does he like me? Please no smart ass answers. Thanks In Advance
AWW....he soo like you...
i would make it longer...but thats just it...
he likes you!! WOOHOOO! lol
basically, ive liked/ been in love with this guy for a little over a year now and my father s him because the guy has somewhat of a juvinile record. and me and my dad dont get along anyways. even though me and my dad have our disagreements i still would like approval but i havent even told my dad im going out with the guy yet, weve only been going out for a month but have liked eachother forever. my parents know that ive liked him but they think its only out of rebellion. i plan on spending the rest of my life with this guy and i turn 18 in about 4 months. should i wait til then to tell them even though i know their feelings wont change. i dont even know what im asking.. just for advice i guess. i love him with all of my heart and would do anything for him. and hes what makes me happy i just wish my parentals could understand!!!!! how should i go about telling them???
i think you should just flat out tell them...they're going to take it the way way if you make this long speech or just a "you know that __ guy? well...we're going out and i really love him" < that kinda stuff. And i mean you said your turning 18 soon...i think you should be allowed to make your own desicions...especially if you think you want to spead the rest of your life with him...
Hope i helped,
Sam
ok here it goes there are a couple of guys that i am interested in and i cant decide who i like the best ( im 16/f) the first one is reelly hott and hilarious but he gets in trouble alot too and theres this other guy hoos one of my good friends and stuff but he annoys me all the time(hes just a little less hott)in a flirting kinda way and another guy who is so sweet and i know he likes me cause he asked me out before but i said no. So i was wondering if anyone could tell me which guy i should go out with and why *ill rate good for a good answer*
i'd go for the 1st guy...but thats because i like bad boys... ;) But i mean, they all sound nice...you seem to like them all for different reasons.
Now, i cant tell you which one to like, because i dont know you...
the way i would find out is by not thinking bout the guy..but think like "whats my favorite thing in a guy?" and which ever one has that in their personality, then go with them...then you'd get what you want.. :D
hope i hepled,
SAM
well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much!
the cake thing is cool!! But, think if there were any memories both of you still love and get anything that can remind you of that memory... or if he likes sprots sumthing...sporty would be good. ((if u cant tell, dunno much bout sports))AnYwAy...if you cant think of anything like of memory type things...then do that cake and card..maybe a home-made card...those are always the most charished...
Hope i helped,
SAM
ok my bff asked me 2 ask her crush out. I said sure but the thing is i liked him last year and im not totally over him quite yet.
I really want my bff 2 b happy but i dont think that he likes her and im not so sure that he likes me either. and if he says no her heart will b broken. what do i say 2 the guy?
we hated each other(or at least he hated me i just played along. Maybe he did 2 i dont know) and i really really like him please help me im so nervous and i have 2 ask him out tomorow morning....... this is very important. ill rate a 5 2 any 1 who gives a full and good answer
thanx ♥
well...the only thing you can do is ask him out for ur bff...and i know you like him. But you promised your friend you would. And if he does say no..then he says no. i mean...people are going to rejection people..hearts get broken but they get fixed too.
You never know..he could say yes and he could say no...its life..sry if the advice was not what you like wanted to hear, but its the truth
hope i helped,
SAM
ok, well my ex girlfriend and i just got done breaking up with each other cause we aggreed on it and stuff on saturday night, well today i was hangin with this girl and i really like her (ive only known her for 2 days, but theres somthin about her) and i dont know if i should go into a relationship with her, or if i should still think about it, cause really i dunno
14/m
i think you should wait...maybe just a week...that way you can figure out if you really like her! And so people wont think you dumbed ur ex for the new girl...
well...just go with your heart..
hope i helped,
Sam
Hi, does neone kno how long it takes to lose 5 pounds?
I've just lost 5 pounds, it only took my a week! i rode my bike for like 20 minutes, and lifted some weights!
Super easy!
Hope i helped,
Sam
okay hey.... there is this friend and i like him...one of my friends sayd that he likes me..becuse he always talks about me to my friend and also how is considers me real nice and cute ...and stuff.and well he lives in a different country becuase he had to move last year...and he is visiting this week..im happy that he is visiting i wana hang out with him one on one..no one else...he already asked me to hang out but with his and my friends..how do i get to hang out with him without anyone else...? and he is moving back next year..
-thanks
This guy seems to like you alot. Maybe he thinks you're not into the same way he is. And invited other people, so it wouldnt seem like a date. Flirt with the man!! show him that you DO like him! And maybe just say you simply just can't go. And can make a time, that no one else can make.
that way to have him all too yourself. :D
Gender: male Age: 16
Me and my gf havent exactly been getting along we cant talk much it neva works, we hug sometimes, and we dont do anything else either because there was a problem and we said we'd work it out but obviously not and im a shy guy and i get pretty depressed often and today one of her friends(also friend of mine) told me my gf wants me to stop me getting into depressive moods and make more of an effort to make the first moves or she will dump me. And then her friend also told me that she also liked another 2 guys and she things my gf is just using me.
But when i was 1st goin out with her i have neva been as happy and im not sure i wanna give up on her and thus lose that happiness.
What do u think? am i just being stupid?
and if u think i should dump her please tell me.
How?
okay. you said that when you 1st went out that yoou were happy...but are you happy now? Are you happy with not doing alot of things with her? you said you were going to work it out but you havent. i think that you should break up with her. Because, you dont seem every happy with her right now...and there are sooooo many other girls out there. Not just her...and there's some one who will treat you better than that.
Hope i helped,
SAM
ok i'm almost 13, i havent gotten my period yet and all my other friends have. should i be worried? i mean im 53 and 120 lbs what should i do?
just because ur other friends started doesnt mean you should be wories. The average women starts around 14-15. your friends are just early bloomers. you have nothing to worry about. Your time will come.
Hope i helped,
Sam
p.s anytime you need help, you can ask me if you want.
Me and my boyfriend were talking and he told me he doesnt want me to hang out with Derrick even though ill have my best friend Ann with me.. My bf will be at the lakes. So he thinks i dont know what he thinks. He's asking me if i'd be wierded out if he and Scott hung out with Julie and i said no.. cuz theres 2 guys and 1 girl. its just a group of friends its a 1 on 1 type of thing. Am i wrong in this.. i mean im allowed to have friends.. arent I?
Are not wrong at all! Of course, you're allowed to have friends that are boys! I have tons of friends that are guys. My bf had no problemo with it! i think hes just worried.i highly doubt you would cheat on him...and he has the right of have friends that are girls!
Maybe yall can talk it out, and promise each toher that neither one will cheat! And yall would trust each other more...
Hope i hepled,
SAM
If I finger myself, could I get pregnat? Or could I bleed or anything. I've never fingered myself in my vigina so I'd like to know the main side affects.
I rat high for accurate answers ;)
one...u cant get pregnet my your finger, you need sperm! second...you could bleed, but its only if you like cut urself, maybe from long finger nails...third, nothing to worry bout fingering can be harmless. Just wash your hands really well before you do anything, and you'll be fine!
hope i helped,
Sam
okm my best friend is mad at me because im goin out wth this guy that i really like alot and she thinks im making a big mistake.
should i break up with him or will she gradually begin to stand by with me and my decision
i have done this! its frusterating! Anyway, my friends did that. And i just had to let it out and say "why cant you just be happy for me. I like him. Why can't you?" if she says "well i just think ur making a mistake" then say 'well, i think i'm not." And go from there. dont take that kinda stuff! Stand up, and work it out.
hope i helped,
SAM
Does anyone have really good ideas to do over the summer?
WHAT I NEED:
1.Something that pays
OR
2. Something really fun and inexpensive
thnx!
i got a babysitting job. it pays alot. (mostly because its everyday) But, thats both things u listed. And i have a great time too!
hope i helped,
SAM
My stylist just moved to a different place so there's no way to contact him. He was the only person I would let to touch my hair after so many unfortunate incidents with other hair stylists. Anyways, I was wondering if Ulta or Tony &Guy cut good? What's their price range?..or if you have any other major places, please list them along with the prices.
i got my haircut at Tony&Guy. Best place ever. price range is bout $45 for the cut.
Does anyone know any websites where I can download mp3s for free or really cheap?
Thanks
1.) free is illigal!!!!!!1
2.) napter is good, $1 a song
13/f - Yesterday I think my mom walked in on me and my BFF watching porn on my computer. Im not positive if she saw EVERYTHING because we clicked out fast, but its been akward between us all morning! I dont know what to do/say or if im just being paranoid and she didnt see. What do i do here?! My friend just went home, but still my mom hasnt said a word about it. i feel SO AWKWARD! HELP ME PLEASE
1.) YOU'RE 13! WHAT R U DOING?!?!?!?!
2.) you need to ask your mom if she mad, not at you- but like... "whats wrong?" but, casual! If she talls you she saw that. Then, TALK bout it. No excuses or anything like that. Just the truth. Then, your mom will be proud of you teling the truth!
Hope i helped,
Sam
alright me and this boy lets call him "a" have been going out for a year and 7 months.he lives in georgia and i live in conneticut. we lived in the same state then moved. well i started getting worried because he is now in a band and is always being wanted by chicks. well i called him one morning and he thought i was checking up on him so he wanted a break. we had a break and he did alot to uncalled stuff with like 2 chicks. he didnt have sex tho. he says hes waiting for me. anyway we talked it all out and he bought me a ticket to go see him so we can be together because after all this thats just what we needed. the thing is while on the break i did stuff with a guy here that really likes me. he asked me out and i had to say no because i still love "a" so now everything is good with me and "a" but people here are saying i should just break up with him because hes not here and the stuff he did while on a break. (what he did was worse then what i did) i have no idea what to do. i like this other guy but i am in love with "a" and i dont want to just end a almost 2 year relationship on something that might not even last a week. what should i do?
i think, u should go with "a" b'cuz you know he loves you. And this other guy probably doesnt know anything bout you. Plus, don't let distace come between you 2!
And he said he was sry bout the other girls. And he still wants to be with you!
hope i helped,
SAM
I have been going out with this girl for about a month an da half and now people are telling her that i'm saying things that i never said in my life. Now she thinking about breaking up with me and I love this girl so much I can't live without her. What sould i do to keep her in me life
from
lilt
i think you should tell her that u love her and would never saying anything bad bout her. If she loves you, she should understand.
plus, these people can't actually be friends of ours! or friends of hers!!!
good luck (you dont need it ;)),
SAM
There's this guy that I really like, we'll call him David. Anyway, David knows I like him, and he says he likes me too. But, he also says that he wants to wait to ask me out, till he gets to know me better. Anyway, he kissed me the other night, and I'm afraid it's going to turn into a friends with benefits relationship, which I don't want at all, but I have no self control around him, I can't help from kissing him back. How do I get him to ask me out sooner?
i think you should keep doin what ur doin. Maybe, spend more time with him...what way, he learnes more about you and he askes you out sooner!
Hope i helped,
SAM