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just got out of one, should i start another??
ok, well my ex girlfriend and i just got done breaking up with each other cause we aggreed on it and stuff on saturday night, well today i was hangin with this girl and i really like her (ive only known her for 2 days, but theres somthin about her) and i dont know if i should go into a relationship with her, or if i should still think about it, cause really i dunno
14/m
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Perhaps you should get to know her first. At least give it a few weeks. You might not get on as well as you think you do, or you may get on even better if you give your friendship some more time.
Whichever you choose...good luck!
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ehh..well dating on the rebound isnt good especially if the other relationship sucked. one day theyre the coolest human on the planet then one day you realize who they really are and think "why did i do that?!" i tried telling my guy friend that...whether or not he'll take the advice or not is beyond me but thats just what i think. so you've known her 2 days and your already liking her? i think you should get to know her a bit better so you can make an educated decision. or wait till school starts if it hasnt already and you can talk to her then...see how she gets along with other people, know what i mean? lol, i have to say, you sound like a player...thats what struck me about the question!! back to my point, sure if you like her, go out with her but NOT YET! the mariie person before me is getting ideas... ok hope it all work out for you! <3
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your 14.. im 14---Go for it! lol---it works haha
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I think you should make sure you're really good friends with her before you officially begin to date. It's honestly much better that way. There's no need to rush. Just ask her to hang out with your friends or even alone sometimes. (It CAN be a date if you want or it can just be two friends hanging out).
Either way make sure you know her well before you get into anything serious. It will last that way.
Good Luck.
<3gessyka
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I think you should go into a relationship with her, but not just yet. I mean you said so yourself.. you've only known her for two days. See if your feelings change at all...cause I remmeber whenever me and my boyfriend broke up I liked like the next guy that talked to me haha..so maybe you just might like her cause' you guys just broke up and you're single and stuff... so just wait a while, get to know her better, but drop her hints and stuff to let her know your still interested and such and see if she gives any back ( cause you didn't mention if she liked you back or not ) but I don't see why you shouldn't get in one with her ; you and your ex broke up which means dating different people which is exactly what you're doing. And the other reason for waiting is maybe your ex still has some feelings and she might get hurt knowing you already have another girlfriend because even though people break up, it doesn't necessairly mean they're completly over them. So.. just wait awhile. I hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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well just a bit of news if you and your ex decided that it was over together and you still arnt sure if you might want her back hen yo should wait but .. .. if you know that theres no chance in you and her ever going back together then i think you should go for it ask her get to know her well and see what happends from there the worst that can happen is you can find out that shes not for yo then you just simply explain that you need more time
hope this helpsz <33 manda
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Go ahead. Young people need to date a lot of different people until they find someone special to them. I see no need to wait unless you are still hanging on to feelings for your ex. Since you have already found someone else that interests you, I really don't think that's the case. So ask her out and have fun. :)
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Keep hangin wit this girl and stuff, but give it a lil while longer. One thing is that you should make sure you're completely over your ex, second make sure this girl isn't jus someone you wanna pick up on the rebound, and third...you don't really want the rep as a playa or pimp, even though media makes it seem cool...it prolly wouldn't be good for your social life wit girls. Hope I helped.
BD
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I think that you should wait. I don't think that two days is enough. AND since you just got out of a relationship, you know. You should wait and maybe get to know her a little better before you start another relationship. I'm not so sure that you know what you want right now. So I would hold off.
Hope I helped <33
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well dont rush i think you should give your breakup more time before you rush into another relationship first u no? makes sense right. just hang out with her more and give it at least a week that is at least a week. and see how things go. its just never a good idea to rush
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aww.lol well i went out w/ this 1 guy...big mistake..lol and um well i think he was mad at me or whatever and so this guy statred to talk to me, that i met off myspace..(he lived in my town and my friend knew him)and so i would talk to hima nd i rly liked him more than my bf, but i waited for him 2 duump me so nyways yeah..we'd send eachotherer like the kiss faces on IM, and we exhanged #'s/...n like a week after me n my bf finished dating,the guy i talked to online aksed me out..haha. go figure, but a week maybe lol. hope i helped.sorry i had to put like my life's story /♥/♥/♥/
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i think you should wait a little bit..hang out with her a few times and stuff then if you still like her then go for it. there is now law saying you have to wait a certain amount of days before getting into another relationship..but i think its best to wait a little bit. i mean after chillin with this girl you might not like the idea of havin a gf at all..maybe you will decide to live up the single life..keep your options open for a week or so (if you want) and if you still like this girl, then i say start another relationship..i kinda think being that you just met this girl and being that you just broke up with your ex..that waiting and hangin out with her first for a week or something is the best way to go
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i think you should wait...maybe just a week...that way you can figure out if you really like her! And so people wont think you dumbed ur ex for the new girl...
well...just go with your heart..
hope i helped,
Sam
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wait at least a week or two so nobody thinks youre just insecure or anything-- and give yourself time to figure out if you really like her or not
hope i helped!!
<3 anne givings
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i say go for it, theres nothin stoppin you why dont you, dont even worry about just getting out of a relationship, cuz this may be a great opertunity and if you dont take it now it may not be there anymore
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Dont, not yet. Just because this girl is cool now doesnt mean she'll be jsut as cool a couple of weeks from now. Because you JUST got out of a relationship means your looking for someone to share the feelings you had with your ex, so I think you should wait to see if your feelings develop for this new girl. hope i helped. xO marlene =)
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