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questioning my sexuality
hey i think i might be starting to question my sexualty...every time i hang around my good friends that i have no my whole life i just want to jump on them and start making out with them. Its a really big urge and i have no idea how to control it. I have always dreamed of being married (to a man!!) and having 3 kids!! i want to be a straight women but whenever i get with girls i get really nervous and just get butterflyies in my stomache....what should i do?
Please help me!
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I totally understand, you are not alone!!! If you're questioning your sexuality, then you might be bi or you just might be curious. Alot of people just get curious and sometimes even act on what they feel and still say they're not bi. You could be confused or you could really be bi. Just think about it for awhile. Usually it takes a long time for really figure out all your feelings. Just be patient!!! Hope i helped!!!
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if you really need somebody to talk to who's actually gone thro all this...then im me on my columnist name..and i'd luv to help ya!!!
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Maybe you are bisexual. There is nothing wrong with that. Yes, you can still get married to a man. But with anyone, it takes a while to get to know them before you fall in love or anything. And if you really dont want to be bisexual or are bothered by being bisexual then just see more guys then girls.
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It is perfectly natural for a teenager to question their sexuality. If you have always dreamed of marrying and having children, chances are you are straight. That doesn't mean you can't have a crush on a girl now. You are finding people you look up to and admire and those feelings can sometimes be confusing. For now, just remain friends with everyone, sooner or later you will have no doubts about it. :)
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ok how long has this been going on for? i mean give it a little while because teenage hormones can get a little crazy..dont panic and call yourself a lesbian just yet..its natural for hormones to get crazy. after awhile you might discover you arre bisexual but there is nothing wrong with that..you are who you are! it will take some time to sort out your feelings and sexuality...
if it were me i would lay low for awhile..try and sort things out..and if this is a long term thing and months from now im stil feeling this way...consider experimenting with a bisexual girl...it will take a lot of you thinking and waiting it out a little to figure out if your bisexual or if this is all just a phase..
-melissa-
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