please help if i am sneaking out of the house tonight to meet my boyfriend outside cuz he lives by me! my moms window is in the front! and mine is in the back and i have a back porch should i tell my boyfriend to meet me on my back porch?! give me tips on how to sneak out w/o my mom findin out
karenR answered Monday August 8 2005, 12:49 am: I know you won't like this opinion and its a little to late anyway, but I will give you my 2 cents worth of advice anyway!
Sneaking out is not a good idea. If you get away with it once you will do it time and again. One of these days the odds will catch up with you and you will get caught. When that happens mom is not going to be real happy with you. She won't be happy with your boyfriend either. She may even say you can't see him for a very long time. She will make sure you can't too. So, it is really not worth the risk. At least now you get to see him now and then, that is a lot better than never.
Then mom will no longer trust you. It will take a long time before she does. She will consider you to be immature and will not give you what freedom you have now. You are probably at the age where you are wanting more freedom and privileges. I would hate to see you throw all that away on a sneak out. So, if you have already done it and got away with it, I hope you will reconsider next time. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday August 8 2005, 12:05 am: just tell him to meet u in front then u guys can walk down a few houses so its not so loud with your voices. just dont stand by your house. otherwise you'll get caught [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
anne_givings answered Sunday August 7 2005, 11:11 pm: i would suggest not sneaking out, but i pretty much know how since one of my best friends does alot-- if you have a screen they usually come off and if they dont, scissors work and its usually not that obvious.... if you do decide to meet at your house make sure youre really quiet and the floorboards or whatever on your back porch dont creak. make sure its not too early and your parents arent light sleepers- if ya wanna make it easier go over to his house cause its always harder on the person whos parents are a few feet away.... make sure you close the window and the blinds/curtains, but dont lock it-- dont take anything that will get caught and make sure you can see and wont fall off the roof- thatll make for a perfect night, im sure
haha so ya i hope i helped!!
<3<3 anne givings [ anne_givings's advice column | Ask anne_givings A Question ]
DZANAx3 answered Sunday August 7 2005, 11:01 pm: hey you should sneek out the back thats what ii do! i didnt get caught yet! so i was doin somthing rite & try not to make a lot of noise ... hope it hellped xoxo Dzana [ DZANAx3's advice column | Ask DZANAx3 A Question ]
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