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does 3 way calling on a regular phone cost money? how much?
yes. it cost money. there you have it.
ok im a huge germophob lol & i was wondering like could you get any type of diseases er anything from public bathrooms? i dont like using them but sometimes you juss have to, so does anyone know anything??
thanks!!!!!
im not sure if you can get diseases. but you can get infections and temporary things like that. as in, crabs (also known as "pubic lice") and things like that. my advice to you is when you have to go to the bathroom, just squat but slightly sitting without touching the toilet seat!!!!!
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My friend is really starting to scare me. O.K. he is REALLY nice and all but he started CUTTING himself! so im freakin out but i need sum advice 4 wut i should do !!! PlEaSe i need help!
you could try to tell him that there is no reason that he needs to cut himself because all it does is cause him more daily pain. i think you need to find out WHY he is cutting himself and then try to solve the problem yourself. but if you cant, then there is nothing you can do besides being a good friend. just tell him that he is cool and that nothing gets solved when you hurt yourself. hope i helped.
Do any of you have friends as backstabbers and know how to deal with them...I need help!
i dont think there is anyone who hasnt had a back-stabbing friend. you need to ignore them. and when they say something to you, just be like yeah, sure. haha. it always works for me. and then if they say something bad about you and everyone believes it, just be like "well, you can believe what you want because i know that its not true and i dont have to fight for myself to know it." they will get mad. haha. just dont let them get you down. dont worry about the rating. im here to help.
Hi I've been doing this workout routine and so far I have 4 things I've been doing, crunches, squats, and lifting weights to work my arms to diff. ways. But I want to vary it up some time so what are six other workouts that work generally any part of the body? Thanks for advice!
well, i say: run, pushups, squat thrusts (if you know what these are), and thats all i can think of at the moment. oh and try to find some where to do pullups. like on a tree branch or something. they are good for your arms. and you could also try to jump rope. just some ideas. hope i helped.
my ears stick out soooooooo far i feel like dumbo.. what am i supposed to do .. should i staple them back? my dad just got a new nail gun , i think that woould work. suggestins PUH LEASE!!!
dont worry about your ears. but if you really want to try and fix them, you need to put a hat over them. as in put a hat on your head and then tuck your ears back under them. im not sure you are gonna get what im saying but i hope you understand. i mean, it worked for my brother. his ears a SUPER huge. dont worry about the rating. im just here to help! hopefully, i did.
Today I did crunches and it really hurt my neck. I think that is a sign that I did it wrong...or is that normal? I've recently started working out, like really recently (this was only my 7th time) and I was wondering is it because I'm getting used to it now, is it because I'm doing it wrong or something? I did 70, btw.
i dont think that crunches are good and i dont think that you should to them. i mean, you need to run or do something besides crunches. they just cause you more pain. they arent good for you and they never helped me. i was just in pain all the time. dont worry about rating me. im just here to help. and i hope i did.
Hey im going into the 8th grade and i like this kid and i never met him and i heard that he liked me before but i dont know him and im scared of talking to him i liked him since last year but the thing is hes popular and im not a geek or a popular person im just a normal person u know and i dont know what to do should i just leave it alone and go find someone i know? please help!!
i think that you should talk to him....i mean, why do you like him if you dont know him??...anyways....you need to get to know him and THEN decide if you like him or not....just because you like how he looks doesnt mean you will like his attitude....cuz you might not...you know?...dont worry about the rating...im here to help.....
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I'm going to the doctors the day after tomorrow cause he doesnt have hours tomorrow. so dont tell me to go to the doctor cause thats annoying. I AM going.
anyway, my right tonsil is extremely swolen. its so big that I can feel it on my tongue.
And my right gland (the lymph node on my neck) is very swolen also.
ive been sick before, but never had swolen tonsils or glands.
How come its just the right side? anyone know what this could mean? people tell me I might need my tonsils out. is this true? please help if you know what youre talking about!
i dont think that you are going to have to get your tonsils out.....my brother has this thing where his left side is swollen and there are "craters" on it.....do you ever have things that just randomly come up in your mouth??..or do you feel like you have something (like a piece of hair) stuck in your throat and you cant seem to get it out??..well...IM me on knightoftheni or just email me (twistedfatefalls@yahoo.com) or just inbox me!!
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what happends when my best friend gets a lil too close to my boyfriend??! i mean they are always talkin! and my boyfriend always has ta talk everything through with mah bestfriend b4 he talks to me about it!! uuh its soo annoying! how can i get rid of that??
dude...i went through the same thing you are going through...anyways...i got really mad at my best frined and i was being really ignorant...so i wrote my boyfriend and my bff a note saying all this crap about how i would like both of them to stay away from each other...let me tell you...NEVER do this..haha..they were like "we dont like each other" and all that...i know im not helping you but i think that you need to talk to your friend...i mean dont tell her that you dont want her around your bf at all...just tell her not to act like she is...or...better yet..tell her how you feel about her being around your bf too close...well i hope i helped at least a little bit!! hahahahaha.....if you wanna talk, IM me on knightoftheNI....and forget about the rating...im here to help!!........
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okay this isnt really a sex question.. but here it is. im 14/f and i dont have that big of a chest. At my camp, the guys are always making fun of me for it. My doctor recently said within the next two years i would be done growing.I dont want a small chest, but im afraid thats what im going to get. When i reach my peak with height, is the rest of my body gunna continue to develop? or am i stuck this way forever?
i'll rate high if i get good answers.
Well, theres really nothing anyone can do except for like implants. But I don't think that you should get them when you are 14. I don't think ANYONE should get them. But, its your body and everyone has something that they don't like about themselves. I don't like my nose. I think its too big. But I can't do anything about it. I mean, I can. But I would never do anything like that to any part of my body. And if I were you, I wouldn't do that either. Okay, I'm trying to say that there is nothing you can do. I guess you are just going to have to wait and maybe something will happen. You still have a few more growing years. Don't let those boys pick on you girl! Tell them that you like your chest and you don't care what they think!!
I'm sorry if I wasn't much help. And forget about the rating! I'm here to help. If you have any more questions, IM me at skillitsoftball or knightoftheNI. or you can email me at twistedfatefalls@yahoo.com!
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Anyone whos really good with xangas, cood yu please gimme yur sn? I can put in layouts and music nd stuff, but i have some questions. Please leave yur sn, im not some weirdo stalker, i just need some help
i do!! my s/n is either hit_me_layoutz or music_and_iiconz. leave comments on either one!! i hope i can help!
ok, well, my bf's friend asked me if i would make out with my bf and i said i would. you see my bf had never made out with anyone before. so when we went to the movies with him and our friends something happend. all the guys were calling him a wuss bc he has never made out before and stuff. so anyway in the middle of the movie he turns to me and says "look, i love you but i dont want to mess anything up so can i kiss you?" and i was like...um...yea ok. so he was like.."lets do it then". i felt REALLY werid. so then everyone came and sat by us so we kinda stoped talking or doing anything. so then about...i would say 10 mins past and he said "ok, i know this is gonna be akward but im sorry". so out of no where he starts to make out with me. and im not saying it was bad but it felt werid. so after 3 seconds i pulled back and said "this feels weird". and he said sorry and stoped talking. so now i feel bad. i mean, i want him to kiss me bc he wants to and bc he likes me. not bc his buddies are making fun of him! so the question is...should i tell him why i pulled away? and was it bad for me to pull away? sould i say sorry? im so confused so I BEG OF YOU! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!! theres some 5's involed : ).
Yes! You should tell him why you pulled back. Tell him what you just told us. Tell him that you want to kiss him but not because his friends were making fun of him. Tell him he needs to do it on his own. But I don't think that you have anything to be sorry about. Tell him that too. If you have any other ?s or you just want to chat, IM me at beecuzzimcool or just Inbox me.
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I have a really cute guy friend name"Brock Bumbarger" & we have been friends for 3 years now. We hang out all the tim, and go to the movies together!! Last august on my 15th b-day he kissed me, like making out wise & ever since then I have been confused. Everyone says we should just admit we like each other. I so want to tell him how i feel, but i am scared he might reject me & I would know what to do if he did. What should I do?
You should tell him. I mean, I wouldn't want to leave myself wondering. I know its a big risk but like a wise person told me: the bigger the risk, the bigger the reward. If you need anything else or you just want to talk, IM me at beecuzzimcooool. Or just Inbox me. I'm always on but if I'm not, my away message will be up so just leave a message.
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OK...sometimes i just hate my family soo much....every single thing i do (even if its the right thing or im not doing anything) is bad....i ahte it i mean right now my sister is crying (she older than me) because i wouldn't let her be a character in a video game because i was already that character...i mean big whoop....i dont kno wut to do....plz help...i rate high unless you give me answers like "i dont kno" or "y would i care"...:-P
I know what you mean. I get blamed for everything. Two days ago, I got a heat rash and I told my dad. He was like "well you probably walked through poison ivy or something. how stupid." I was so mad. I mean its not my fault I have a rash on my forehead! Anyways, you need to tune it out. Just be like "whatever". You know? If you have anything else to ask or you just want to talk, Inbox me or IM me at beecuzzimcooool.
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Well, I met my boyfriend a couple of months ago. We hit off quite well :) And just recently, this 5th of August we decided to "hook up", become an "item", whatever, we're together.
Anyway, we've never really talked as much as I'd like to. I've told him that and I've said I miss him and talking to him when texting with him. But that doesn't seem to be working... we talk around... 30 - 60 minutes a WHOLE WEEK. If that much too. That would be a good week!
I don't know what to do anymore. We're both on the nervous side when we meet and rather quiet but I don't know what to do... I don't want to lose him, I think there's potential. But, he doesn't seem like HE wants to put any effort into it. So I was wondering, what should I do, seeing as I'm the one concerned about the relationship in the first place,?
Note; I'm 13 & female.
You should bring up things. Hmm.. just ask him questions. Ex: what are you doing this weekend? How was your day? Something like that. Maybe he will speak up more. I'm not too sure. Bring up random things.
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me and this guy were really good friends. i really liked him a lot and in a way him lead me on a little bit. so it really hurt me when he flirted with other girls. and i felt like he didnt care about me. well my best friend liked him too and he liked her, but he hardlyu ever talked to her because he was talking to me. at the end of the school he asked her out and itreally hurt me. so me and her friendship was over because she choose him over me. they broke up like a few days ago, and now i dont like him as more then a friend, and i told him that, and hes getting like upset and mad that i dont ike him anymore. he got mad becasue i called somone hott, and he was like im hotter then them come one, and he said he was goint o ask me out. but i wasnt going to be the rebound girl, but i dont no what to think or, what i should tell him. so he doesnt get so mad at me, because me and him are still good friends. thanks
I think that you should tell him how you feel. As in telling him that you were hurt when he asked your friend out. Tell him that he led you on and you really liked him. I wouldn't go out with him. Maybe hes not worth it. I mean, he probably knew that he was leading you on like every other guy knows. He doesn't deserve you in that way.
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my sister is 10 and she's had sex so many times that she lost count and each time was with a different guy. i'm jealous cuz i've only had a boyfriend when i was in 6th grade and we never even thought of doing anything. my sister is really my step sister and she lives with my step mother and my dad. my step mother doesn't care what she does and my dad is just clueless. my sis is so young she didn't even know what virgin meant. i think she's going to end up pregnant as soon as she gets her period and i want her to stop having sex. how?
I think that you need to sit her down and tell her that what she is doing is wrong. Tell her that she will end up being pregnant if she keeps this up. And I can't believe that she is only 10! Or you can just tell your dad. You can also go to the library and find a tape about teens being pregnant. Yes, the library will have them. If you have any more questions, IM me at beecuzzimcooool. Or you can just Inbox me.
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I used to cut. Not going to go into details, I used to cut and once I thought I went too deep. I've since realized how stupid and dangerous I was being. However, fo whatever reason, I feel the need to do so again. I don't want to, but I'm tempted and I don't know why. Can anyone please help? Please, no jack asses sayin crap about me bein a stupid "emo" and no bad mouthing me just because of something I used to do
I think that you need to vent, if you know what I mean. What you need to do is write out all of the things that bother you on one sheet of paper. On another sheet of paper, write down all the things that bother you again, then write how you can make that certain thing better. THEN on ANOTHER sheet of paper (always keep this one with you and leave the other two at home), write down everything ONCE MORE. Then, beside or under it, write how you've made it better (when you do). OR, if you don't want to do all that (but i recomend) just start a journal and let it all out. If you have any more ?s, IM me at beecuzzimcooool or send me an email at skillit@triad.rr.com. OR you can just Inbox me.
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ok..here it goes.
my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and 3 months...and dont get me wrong he is amazing and sweet and everything. but lately ive noticed that im looking at other guys more. like thinking they are cute or checking them out or whatever i never make a move on them tho. is this a sign that im losing interest or what??
im 13/f
I know what you are going through. You know, I'm not too sure what to tell you. But just try really hard to avoid looking at these other boys. Unless you really think you are uninterested. Then maybe you should find someone new. But if you aren't, try to put a lot of focus on your boyfriend. Carry around a picture of him in your pocket or somewhere and when you look at another boy, take it out and look at your boyfriend. That helps.
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