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sometimes i hate them OK...sometimes i just hate my family soo much....every single thing i do (even if its the right thing or im not doing anything) is bad....i ahte it i mean right now my sister is crying (she older than me) because i wouldn't let her be a character in a video game because i was already that character...i mean big whoop....i dont kno wut to do....plz help...i rate high unless you give me answers like "i dont kno" or "y would i care"...:-P
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Oh my gosh. Your sister is older than you and is crying over a video game. If I were you I would punch her in the face. I'm not even kidding. ]
Everybody has problems with thier family. some people, and it seems it you may too, have it worse than others. Usually when you are angry or sad or just pissed off, try taking a walkman and find a safe place to go, and just let off some steam. say, if u have a tree fort or a favorite neighborhood hangout, try and go there. If you cant go to a fort or a hangout, try just going into your room and laying in your bed with your walkman. but please, dont try cutting or hurting yourself in anyway. that does nothing positive for you, and worries the people around you. you could even try writing poems or songs to express your feeling. i hope i helped.
-Mary Beth ]
ok everyone has that problem where we dont think anything is good enough rite? ok well you just need to sit down and talk to your sis and say she shouldn't be crying over something stupid!!
sry i was soo blunt!
i hope i helped and keep me posted!!
<33Kristin ]
I know what you mean. I get blamed for everything. Two days ago, I got a heat rash and I told my dad. He was like "well you probably walked through poison ivy or something. how stupid." I was so mad. I mean its not my fault I have a rash on my forehead! Anyways, you need to tune it out. Just be like "whatever". You know? If you have anything else to ask or you just want to talk, Inbox me or IM me at beecuzzimcooool.
Hope I helped <33 ]
I know how you feel. I used to be the same way with my family. I used to go in my room and scream into my pillow. but i learned that its never bad forever. now me and my siblings get along great. they grow out of there fases. trust me.so i'm new so if you could rate me that would be awsome! ]
Sometimes I feel like my family can be annoying too, but I try not to be so harsh on them because I know they love me and I love them back. You have to remember, your parents brought you into this world, and your siblings were there along the way to help you through. Try not to be so harsh on your family or your sisters overly-sensitivity. When you think you are going to say soemthing you might regret to them, take a deep breath and remember how much they care about you. And as far as your sister goes, tell her that you enjoy being around her but you need your own space sometimes too. :) Hope I helped!! ]
my family is like that too... what you gotta do is be patient... people go through weird phases. i know it feels like the phase will NEVER EFFING END and all that... but eventually it will... my younger brother and i fight all the time, not really over vidoe games cuz i dont play them, but over silly things like that and it blows over. always. you have to remember your family loves you, and they will no matter what. (i know... totally corny, but its true) ]
i have a sister like that, and an older one whos a comlete bitch, and a younger brother who always gets me in trouble, so i know what your going through, what i do is just go for a walk or something, you know, just get away from them for a while. It helps a lot to just be able to cool off for a bit. listening to music also helps. just give it a shot
Hope i did some good,
Jessy ]
It seems to me that the problem you have is not about video games, but communication. There clearly seems to be a lack of communication between you and your family if you think that they disapprove of every single thing you do. You need to talk to your family and express your concerns. If you don't let them know how you feel, the current situation you are in will not improve ( in fact it might even get worse.)
Good Luck,
Advice Guy ]
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