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Hey im a cool kid. Yeah, im pretty darn rad. I like rock music, but i wear all types of clothes. i like to mix and match, ya know? anyways, i like boys, music, volleyball, clothes, shopping, going to movies... and you know what? i hate it when people do that. like, list everything that they like to do. so, im done. anyways, i hope u enjoy the advice.

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hey i cant decide if i should go over to my friend's house or go play volleyball w/ my friends

well, it really depends. if it was me, i would choose the sport because school is about to start and everything, and you need practice before tryouts. hope i helped!
-Mary Beth

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I really really like my best guy friend. And if I ever lost him, I would feel like dieing. He likes me too. But I'm afraid that if we end up dating and breaking up, we won't be like we are now anymore. All of my ex's I barely talked to after we broke up. No matter who broke up with who. And one of my ex's and I who now hate each other, used to be really close. So if you even understand this sinse it's kind of confusing. Can someone out there please give me advice on what to do?


Ps- Don't tell me to forget about him-because I think about him all the time.
I've already thought about this for a long time and I still don't know what to do.
13/f
Sorry this is long but I will rate!!

Thanks

Well, ive gone through the same tough desision as you. i know how hard it is, but if he knows you like him, and you know he likes you, whats the point of torturing yourselves? go for it! thats what i did, yes we ended up breaking up, but now he's my best guy friend. it works differently with everybody. i have also had a bad experience with that situation. it depends on the boy you choose to date. if he is more sensitive and caring and he really likes you, he wont care if you break up. He'll accept the fact you arent dating anymore and be fine with it. before you make your desision, make sure you know his personality well enough to know how he will react. i hope i helped you out.
-Mary Beth

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OK...sometimes i just hate my family soo much....every single thing i do (even if its the right thing or im not doing anything) is bad....i ahte it i mean right now my sister is crying (she older than me) because i wouldn't let her be a character in a video game because i was already that character...i mean big whoop....i dont kno wut to do....plz help...i rate high unless you give me answers like "i dont kno" or "y would i care"...:-P

Everybody has problems with thier family. some people, and it seems it you may too, have it worse than others. Usually when you are angry or sad or just pissed off, try taking a walkman and find a safe place to go, and just let off some steam. say, if u have a tree fort or a favorite neighborhood hangout, try and go there. If you cant go to a fort or a hangout, try just going into your room and laying in your bed with your walkman. but please, dont try cutting or hurting yourself in anyway. that does nothing positive for you, and worries the people around you. you could even try writing poems or songs to express your feeling. i hope i helped.
-Mary Beth

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