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My friend is really starting to scare me. O.K. he is REALLY nice and all but he started CUTTING himself! so im freakin out but i need sum advice 4 wut i should do !!! PlEaSe i need help!
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be there for him, tell him that he's a really great person and you love him for being so unique.
tell him that it scares you and that you wish you could do something to help him. tell him that you'll always be there for him. and you want him to be happy.
just be supportive.
-hope it helpd-
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ok my friend did this try to help him through it...and i know this sounds dorky but tell his parents the best thing you can do is get him help...tell you parents to tell his parents....im soo sorry this is happinging to you but youll get through it...
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He's probably doing it for attention because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. He probably has nothing wrong with him, or problems that aren't really "problems". Confront him about it, it's a really stupid trend to be following.
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you could try to tell him that there is no reason that he needs to cut himself because all it does is cause him more daily pain. i think you need to find out WHY he is cutting himself and then try to solve the problem yourself. but if you cant, then there is nothing you can do besides being a good friend. just tell him that he is cool and that nothing gets solved when you hurt yourself. hope i helped.
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I believe you should tell an adult who can get him some much needed help.
I have a website for you to check out. It is for friends of people who cut. I think you might find something in there to help you decide what to do. Good luck :)
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wow i think that u need too get someone too help him or too stop him before he really hurts himself so u need too get someone it wont take much and its too help a friend then go for it
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it has all kinds of advice on this stuff, I suggest alot of it for him too, but he shouldn't look at the pics if he wants to stop.
Don't worry. He'll be ok.
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Well, If he's cutting himself, somethings wrong and it's pretty much a cry for help. He needs someone to talk to so talk to him and let him get it out. I know that's probably really hard, don't force it but when he wants to talk listen and respond. Also, if this is more than a one time thing, you should tell his parents or a councelor at school or whoever because if he is depressed it will just keep getting worse and bottled up and may lead to something worse than cutting so its for his own good. I know that's probably not would he'd want but it could save his life in the end. Mainly though, just help him get through this by listening and helping him let it all out.
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If he's told you that he's cutting himself, he's looking for attention in a very bad way.
If you saw cuts on his skin and he refused to say how they got there, or walked in on him cutting and he insisted it was nothing, he really has a self-injury problem.
I'd suggest talking to your school counsellor, who would be able to talk to your friend, and maybe your friend's parents. True self-injury is a very dangerous problem, and needs to be dealt with appropriately.
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