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ok this is probably the stupidest question here, and if it gets deleted thats ok, im just curious.

now ive never done this, and dont plan on it, but if youre a girl, with a boyfriend, and you kiss(lips or french) a *gay guy* is that still cheating on your boyfriend?
lol. im sorry, im just curious and kind of want to see opinions on it. (link)
Lol, well I guess it would be....but what if you were a girl and you kissed a girl like as a girl or something but you were straight. hmmm yea i guess it would but oh well who knows...


i was thinking about getting an ipod but i had a question. does it cost you money to get the songs or is it all inclusive when you buy it and can u put songs for like limewire on your ipod? (link)
you have to buy songs from itunes, they aren't free but you can put limewire songs itunes...i do that. you go to library then explore then just drag them to itunes.


Ok, my eyes are light blue, and they stand out ALOT. Like i mean when you first see me, that's what you notice. I want to dye my hair another color, & i know dark colors make them stand out more, so i was thinking Dark Auburn. But i was wondering.. If i dyed it dark with the reddish tint to it... would it drain out my eyes? and make them not stand out as much? Or do you think you`d still be able to notice them just as well? (link)
dark brown or black would prolly be pretty


im like really fat.... like you dont notice it THAT much like i dont LOOK huge but i weigh like 230 pounds.. im 13 and im 5'4... how can i lose this weight because i really want to.. should i just stick to diet pills because i think i cant work it off since its probably hereditary.. i got the jene and my twin didnt because hes really skinny.. but how can i get rid of it? (link)
Diet pills really aren't healthy because you can get addicted to it. Excersise is really the best way to loose weight. That and eating healthy foods. Someone I know lost a lot of excersiing by working out and running.


Ok 4 about 2 weeks I have been loosing alot of weight! I mean like I have lost 7 or 8lbs in that time period. What I have been doing is not eating ANYTHING from 7:00am to 3:30pm and I have pratacly been starving my self. When I think of Food I get so hungray. But I don't feel like eating. I weighted 220lbs and now I weigh about 212. Is this healthy. I eat when I get home. No Smartasses please. Thanxs (link)
That's really not a healthy way to loose weight. Eating in the morning starts your metabolism and its just how your body should naturally function. The healthiest way to eat is have something small every couple of hours.


My friend is really starting to scare me. O.K. he is REALLY nice and all but he started CUTTING himself! so im freakin out but i need sum advice 4 wut i should do !!! PlEaSe i need help! (link)
Well, If he's cutting himself, somethings wrong and it's pretty much a cry for help. He needs someone to talk to so talk to him and let him get it out. I know that's probably really hard, don't force it but when he wants to talk listen and respond. Also, if this is more than a one time thing, you should tell his parents or a councelor at school or whoever because if he is depressed it will just keep getting worse and bottled up and may lead to something worse than cutting so its for his own good. I know that's probably not would he'd want but it could save his life in the end. Mainly though, just help him get through this by listening and helping him let it all out.\


Ok, well, this will probably seem stupid to most people... but there's this guy in my grade (8th) and last year he told my friend that really liked me and he was really sweet to me and then I started to really like him and he asked me out and we "went out" for a while but the thing is, we hardly really talked. then i guess he just told his and my friends that he didn't really like me that much anymore and nobody ever actually broke up with the other one, but we just kind of broke up in a weird way. Well anyways, then it became awkward around him. He started being kind of rude to me. Then, during like the last week of school, we kind of started talking again and it was a lot of fun we started flirting a lot- like he took my sweatshirt which was way to small for him, and put it on, and we kept messing around with eachother... then summer started. Now, he is in one of my classes, but we dont talk, at ALL. It's really frusterating, because I still really like him. The thing is, my friend told me that she thinks he likes this new girl, who is by the way extremely rude and annoying, because he was flirting with her, kind of the same way he did with me. I found out that he is going to the same high school as me, though. Do you think I might get another shot with him in the future, or is it pretty much gone? Please help me! I rate! (link)
I'm pretty sure that you would have another shot with him. Something really similar happened to me except, well we kinda stopped being friends. It could be though that now he's sorta reflected the way you treat him. So for example If you start flirting with him, he'll flirt back but he might not know if it would be right otherwise. At least thats how it was with my experience.


What are some good places to find some nice dress,not like to dressie.
But just a nice dress,at a good price.
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Loehmans or Filenes Basement.

I live in DC so they could just be local but I know they have websites where you can order stuff. They're really nice and a really good bargain.


ok iv been going out w/ this guy for a month and a few weeks ill call him jim well my neighbor ill call him bob comes over sometimes not very much now that im going out w/ jim bob comes over like 1 or twice a month me and bob have done stuff in the past cuz he kept on preasuring me until i say yes i make up excuses but they never work we had like a no strings attatched thing going on though and im afraid im gonna cheat on jim w/ bob cuz like its hard for me to say no and bob is always preasuring me to do stuff w/ him what r some good ways to say no to bob!! (link)
You could try being firm and saying "Look, I have a boyfriend and I can't do this stuff anymore" that way I don't see how he could still make you do stuff. If that doesn't work then bob is being pretty inconsiderate so maybe telling him that he cant come over anymore if hes going to act like that everytime.


Hey, I was wondering where I might find a black nano ipod (4 gb) for a great price. I know that best buy has it for $250, but can i find it for cheaper? And how many songs does the 4gb hold? thanks in advance. (link)
Things are sometimes cheaper if you order them online


Responses to my last question have influenced me to write this. People have been telling me that bands like MCR are "great" and the "fans" don't "look at the band"*** but listen. Anywho, I now propose this:
If all these new bands aren't mostly about their image, why do so many kids mimic their appearance?
We shall use MCR again, as they are a good example. Black hair, girl pants, the works. There are kids who copy this style to the T. They may listen to the music, but they sure try and play the part too. What if MCR dressed more conservative? Do you think their fanbase would drop? Do you think the youth would start dressing more civil as well? I'll use my favorite band, Radiohead, as a counter example. They make millions of dollars, have a massive fanbase, but are far from eccentric. From performing to living their everyday lives, they dress down in the most casual of clothes. When you see them perform, the fans are mostly the same. No outrageous dyed black hair with gaudy excessive crap all over their bodies.

So, in summary, do bands like MCR sell more music or a style, and would they be as successful if they weren't so eccentric?

note: please don't answer this if you are an MCR fan and are coming to praise the band. this isn't an MCR question.

***I think some were confused when I said most new music is about image and not music. (link)
YES! I completely agree. I think it's stupid how if you go out and see hundreds of kids with "outrageous dyed black hair and gaudy excessive crap all over their bodies" Plus on top of that just a few weeks before they wore polos and all that expensive abercrombie crap and they just keep following the trend, style after style. Well, anyway I've been thinking that for weeks and thank you for saying it.


hey my hair's brown, straight, and highlited. i ALWAYS wear it down because i don't know what else to do with it. does anyone know any good hairstyles that would look attractive in front of boys? please help! also, my hair islayered, and it's about 1 and a half inches below my shoulders. a lot of people's hair just fall in to place when they put it up, but mine doesn't for some reason. it just sticks straight out. i don't know why, because it's not frizzy or anything, it's just smooth and soft.
i rate high for good answers! (link)
you could try a half ponytail, that looks really pretty with hair like your if i know what you're describing.


do you wear underwear under your dress?

will a strapless dress stay up?

any other tips? =) thx!!! (link)
If the dress fits then it will most likely stay up. Most poeple wear underwear...like a strapless bra


YUP this is really random.... but what are those thingys called.... The ones that are like in conuntry western movies and their LIke BIG huge balls of dust and they usually are like rolling around in sand storms or wind.... I KNOW ITS random BUT I NEED TO KNOW! lol.... (link)
tumble weeds?


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ok i wona get the tips of my hair bleeached i have done it before and it looks mad nice when spiked up (jsut teh top tips)

the thing is that i forgot what is the propotional mix for the poraxide and bleach? any help? (link)
use toothpaste, i'm serious you rated me a one but it actually works! I know a lot of people who have done it and I know it sounds gross but it bleaches so ok...


I love helping people, and when I say that, I mean the kind of "giving advice" kind of help. I know I can be a psychologist, but are there any other options? I don't want to be a psychiatrist, so please don't suggest that. Thank you! (link)
You could just do a lot of advicenators stuff


I'm getting braces in the beginning of October and want to know about teeth whitening. Should I do it now? During Braces or when I get my braces off? (link)
Well, i would suggest just brushing well while you have braces with whitening toothpaste so you don't have a problem. When they're off if they have like yellow spots in the middle from the middle i would suggest using something stronger for whitening such as listerine with whitening. The strips aren't good for your teeth and i would suggest using them as a last resort


I need advice on how I can start a petition. I need to know how I officially and legally start it and who do I present it to. How do I organize it? As you can see from my title, the purpose of the petition would be to have some sort of ruling against out-ruling the pledge of allegiance in schools or changing it.

Anyways, do you think because of 'under God' that after over 200 years, the pledge should be changed or withdrawn from any school. Why or why not? Thanks in advance. (link)
I belive it's perfectly fair to remove the pledge of allegiance from schools. Not all people share the same beliefs and now if they are really into saying the pledge then they can! There's no rule against it. Nobody is denied a right. If someone wanted to say the pledge daily then why not put a flag up everymorning and say it?


I have a wart on the back of my hand. I heard somewhere that it could go away by itself. Is this true? If it isn't what are some things I might try to get rid of it? (link)
They don't go away, they just get worse. Try going to a drug store and they have wart removal things. If those don't work see a doctor and he'll either perscribe something or freeze, burn, or put medicine on it that hurts a lot but it works. Definetely don't just let it grow though.


I like this guy whos 7 years older than me. He likes me too but said the age bothers him. But when we are at parties we end up having sex or doing something sexual. I really really like him shold I just be friends with benefits for now then when im older think about going out with him or what? (link)
Try going out with him one on one just to talk things over. REALLY get to know eachother so well that it doesnt even make a difference that you're 7 years apart. If it still doesnt work out wait a little while and maybe someone else will come into the picture, or by then, he'll feel that it is right. Hope I helped




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