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the usual (boyfriend drama)


Question Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 8:58 pm

ok..here it goes.

my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and 3 months...and dont get me wrong he is amazing and sweet and everything. but lately ive noticed that im looking at other guys more. like thinking they are cute or checking them out or whatever i never make a move on them tho. is this a sign that im losing interest or what??

im 13/f


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XxnickixX answered Monday August 8 2005, 1:46 pm:
hi. i dont mean 2 be mean here, but your 13 and uve had a bf 4 over a year! corse its alryt to be looking at other guys, your young!!!

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NiCO0OLE answered Monday August 8 2005, 12:57 pm:
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cynicalladvice answered Monday August 8 2005, 3:45 am:
No, it's a sghn you're growing up. We all check other people out, it's nothing to worry about, unless you actually start seeing another guy while your still seeing your current, in most situations, that isn't cool...

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ADViCExo0oxHELP answered Monday August 8 2005, 12:56 am:
maybe your not loseing interset but your just seeing to much of each other // try takeing a break

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slimjim1128 answered Monday August 8 2005, 12:38 am:
no its not a sign of loosing interest your 13 your suposed to check out other people and you have held that in for over a year its ok just as long as u dont make a move me and my gf have been going out for almost 10 months and i know she checks out other guys and i dont have a problem with it only if she doesnt bring it up to me so u can do it just dont tell him about it and dont compair them to him unless your saying hes better

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runz_with_scizzorz answered Monday August 8 2005, 12:26 am:
I know what you are going through. You know, I'm not too sure what to tell you. But just try really hard to avoid looking at these other boys. Unless you really think you are uninterested. Then maybe you should find someone new. But if you aren't, try to put a lot of focus on your boyfriend. Carry around a picture of him in your pocket or somewhere and when you look at another boy, take it out and look at your boyfriend. That helps.

Hope I helped <33

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday August 8 2005, 12:14 am:
i wouldnt say your losing interest unless you find yourself wanting to actually go and make a move on the guy and ignroe and avoid your current bf. i would just give it time but its perfectly normal! so really dont worry about it

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PolishLaska answered Sunday August 7 2005, 10:49 pm:
Hey, I dont think your losing interest. I think your just opening up your horizons and looking at other guys as potencial boyfriends or comparing them to your current boyfriend. Your young, and have so much more ahead of you, dont break up with your boyfriend yet because considering you 2 have been together for a year and 3 months there msut be soemthing special between you two. but dont stay with your boyfriend if you start having interests in some other boy. hope i sort of helped. Marlene xO =)

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Supermanlover45 answered Sunday August 7 2005, 10:38 pm:
Nah, I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 1 day. Ha, ha but yeah I do it sometimes and I bet he checks out chicks at some point as well. It doesn't mean your losing intertest it just means your human. Just think of it this way you really thought you was going to look at one guy and check him out for all your life. But yeah hope I helped!

Buh Bye,
ShanN*

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Teza answered Sunday August 7 2005, 10:22 pm:
I`m afraid that that is the exact sign! You are still so young and you're going to have SOOO many b/f's and I think its bout that time now! So good luck!

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charmed3fanatic answered Sunday August 7 2005, 10:21 pm:
no .. not really.. if i had a boyfriend.. i would still check out other guys.. all it is saying is that you want to see what else is out there.. but your not losing intrest.. odn't worry.. hope i helped if you n eed anything else just let me no

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