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Backstabbers
Do any of you have friends as backstabbers and know how to deal with them...I need help!
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yeah totally! i have had several backstabbing friends. if you need my help, im me any time.
(my sn is on my column.)
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Hey,
I just ignore those people and just stop talking to them.
Good Luck,
Advicegodesses2
P.S.Write back and tell me how my advice was and if it helped.
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oh yeah, I think everyone has at least one friend who is a backstabber. Um, it really depends on what he or she did...if you could leave me a message in my inbox I would be able to help you out alot better. Thanks
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Yeah just tell them what everybody else knows... nothing more. And remind them of what you know of them in a naturasl way so they won't think you are threatening them but won't have the guts to backstab you. And never tell them what you feel (that is REALLY important... even if by some chance they know what happened... feelings are worst than actions for backstabbers... it can confuse them if they dont know what you feel and thats not so bad).
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i dont think there is anyone who hasnt had a back-stabbing friend. you need to ignore them. and when they say something to you, just be like yeah, sure. haha. it always works for me. and then if they say something bad about you and everyone believes it, just be like "well, you can believe what you want because i know that its not true and i dont have to fight for myself to know it." they will get mad. haha. just dont let them get you down. dont worry about the rating. im here to help.
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Hi!
Oh, believe me, I know pleanty of people that are backstabbers.
The number one thing you should ALWAYS know is that girls are the top people on your list that will always backstab you.
It doesn't even matter if you are best friends, something always comes up!
You just have to control them, and if they do something that gets you angry or upset just pretend you don't care.
That'll really get them going and teach them a less.
Trust me, I know this from experiance.
And it works perfectly.
Hope this helps!
-Mary
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yes! my advice to you is to try to hang out with a different group of friends. Have you heard the saying "Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer"? You can still talk to them, but I would suggest that you don't trust them with secrets, or any piece of information that could be twisted around.
Hope I helped =].
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