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boys!! who needs thim, (sry so long)
me and this guy were really good friends. i really liked him a lot and in a way him lead me on a little bit. so it really hurt me when he flirted with other girls. and i felt like he didnt care about me. well my best friend liked him too and he liked her, but he hardlyu ever talked to her because he was talking to me. at the end of the school he asked her out and itreally hurt me. so me and her friendship was over because she choose him over me. they broke up like a few days ago, and now i dont like him as more then a friend, and i told him that, and hes getting like upset and mad that i dont ike him anymore. he got mad becasue i called somone hott, and he was like im hotter then them come one, and he said he was goint o ask me out. but i wasnt going to be the rebound girl, but i dont no what to think or, what i should tell him. so he doesnt get so mad at me, because me and him are still good friends. thanks
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tell him that you relly like him but your not going to go out with him jus as a "rebound girl".give it some time and if he relly likes you he wont be mad at you or anything. hope i helped XoXo
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I think ur doing the right thing. Making him jelous. Boys cant stand it. U really dont need a friend like that if he treets you the way. But you need to follow your heart and do w/e you want to. I hope I helped! Im me if needed Sportychicc9393
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That's good your not going to be the rebound girl and you have decided that for yourself. If he is going to get mad at you for simple having an interest in someone else (you called someone else hott) when your not even going out and if he liked you enough to flirt with other girls and have an interest in your best friend over you when you obviously showed interest in him. Then it sounds like he really doesn't care all that much for you in that way, it sounds like he just wants to use you as the rebound girl. I say don't go out with him and let him know your not going to go out with him, you don't got feelings for him like you used too and that you will not be used as his rebound girl. Let him know you still want to be friends, but your not going to go out with him. If he doesn't like it, then you should get a better friend than him because if he is going to get mad at you for refusing him and is going to let that affect your friendship, then get a better friend.
I hope this helps and you get everything worked out.
-Ryan
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I apologize if any of this sounds harsh:
So this is what I got from that.. you're mad at your friend for dating the guy that you both liked, and were trying to date. If you were your friend, and this guy asked you out, would you date him? To me, it sounds like a competition.. so please, next time lose gracefully. You don't have to end a friendship over a guy.
But there is something I must applaud you on in this. You didn't become the rebound girl. That's a really good and smart thing not to become.
Ok, as for his being an asshole... tell him you want to be his friend and nothing more than that. If he's going to insist that you become his girlfriend, it's not going to happen. Tell him you moved on, and he should too.
If he persists (I know this is hard) but refuse to be his friend again. Does he value his feelings over your friendship? If he does, then you just lost a selfish friend. Which in the end, may not be a loss at all. Remember to win gracefully also.
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awee well im gonna be dead honest... it was kinda wrong to lead him on but oh well i think you liked him because you friend did ... i dont think you had real feelings for him.. he probablii likes you ... otherwise whi would he get mad if you said someone else is hawt... but then again he could be just saying that... you should tell him that you dont want to go out with him because you dont want to ruin your guys' friend ship and i think it would be better off if you two just remaind friends... hope it helped xoxo Dzana
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i think you need to talk to this guy and tell him how you feel. i dont think it is a good idea to go out with this guy because look how much he had hurt you when you werent together. think about how much more it will hurt if you guys got together.hoope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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I think that you should tell him how you feel. As in telling him that you were hurt when he asked your friend out. Tell him that he led you on and you really liked him. I wouldn't go out with him. Maybe hes not worth it. I mean, he probably knew that he was leading you on like every other guy knows. He doesn't deserve you in that way.
Hope I helped <33
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I'd tell him that maybe you shouldn't have lead me on believing that you liked me and you wanted to ask me out, and then go and ask out my bestfriend. Tell him that you did like him but you realized what you would have with him is nothing but pain in the end. (Technically all relationships like that go straight down into hell.) And that your past that stage of liking him more than just a friend, and wouldn't want to lose his friendship that you guys have now if yall broke up. Ya know? It would be kind of awkard. Hope I helped. Thanks.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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