Question Posted Wednesday August 24 2005, 10:47 pm
what happends when my best friend gets a lil too close to my boyfriend??! i mean they are always talkin! and my boyfriend always has ta talk everything through with mah bestfriend b4 he talks to me about it!! uuh its soo annoying! how can i get rid of that??
MiZzY answered Thursday August 25 2005, 7:16 pm: look nothing should really happen between your boyfriend and best friend.
if she's really your best friend, she wouldn't do anything to hurt you. end of the day its you who hes coming back to not her, yea he seems good friends with her but it's you that he wants to be with not her.
if you really feel like its tearing you up, i suggest you speak to your boyfriend and friend about this because if you dont it will only eat you up!! [ MiZzY's advice column | Ask MiZzY A Question ]
danabriana answered Thursday August 25 2005, 5:56 pm: nice ghetto spelling. if you are a true ghetto, like me of course you could beat up your friends. or hire spys. thats always fun. or just talk to all his friends. in your ghetto voice. pretty sure guys liek ghetto-ness. especially other ghetto ones. ya heeeeeeeerrrrrrrrdddd? [ danabriana's advice column | Ask danabriana A Question ]
Courtney answered Thursday August 25 2005, 9:29 am: Don't get rid of it b/c he'll think you're the kind of jealous girlfriend. Talk to him about it. Tell him how unusual it is . Say this and please say this in some sort of form, " I don't want to come across as a jealous girlfriend but I really ....", and so forth . Tell him how you feel about it and don't sound accusatory or aggressive. Just tell him and be rational and understanding. [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
runz_with_scizzorz answered Thursday August 25 2005, 12:31 am: dude...i went through the same thing you are going through...anyways...i got really mad at my best frined and i was being really ignorant...so i wrote my boyfriend and my bff a note saying all this crap about how i would like both of them to stay away from each other...let me tell you...NEVER do this..haha..they were like "we dont like each other" and all that...i know im not helping you but i think that you need to talk to your friend...i mean dont tell her that you dont want her around your bf at all...just tell her not to act like she is...or...better yet..tell her how you feel about her being around your bf too close...well i hope i helped at least a little bit!! hahahahaha.....if you wanna talk, IM me on knightoftheNI....and forget about the rating...im here to help!!........
dmbabie answered Thursday August 25 2005, 12:17 am: ask your friend what's up. don't be quick to assume things though cause maybe they ARE just friends, close friends and you're just imagining things. talk to your friend about it, see what she says and make sure that you spend more time with your boyfriend. as long as he spends more time with you, than with her, everything should be alright! good luck! :)
♥ ♥ ♥ daniella [ dmbabie's advice column | Ask dmbabie A Question ]
TalentedStarz answered Wednesday August 24 2005, 11:36 pm: i say that yoo talk to your frend and ask her wat her feeling are for him,n/o but i think that yoo need to stop assuming that she lykes him n talk it throo witt her.i mean give her a chance,hear her opinion of it.also ask your boyfrend he may have a simple answer for yoo! hope i helped :) [ TalentedStarz's advice column | Ask TalentedStarz A Question ]
The_Sexy_Pirate answered Wednesday August 24 2005, 11:19 pm: well.
it seems to me that your boyfriend is kickin it with your bestfriend right infront of you!
sunnyville answered Wednesday August 24 2005, 11:10 pm: Simply by spending more time with him,keeping him in track,ask him what he talks about with your best friend,and if you're wondering why should I do that well you have the right to know because you're his girlfriend.Get someone to talk to your bestfriend if that doesn't keep her off from talking too much to your boyfriend then you need to talk to her about this tell her that you don't like the fact that she is always talking to your boyfriend and if she is a friend she should talk to someone else than rather your boyfriend.If she get's mad then that is a sign that she likes your boyfriend and wants to take him away from you so that is when you got to take action so she won't steal your boyfriend. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
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