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I dont know what to do
I have a really cute guy friend name"Brock Bumbarger" & we have been friends for 3 years now. We hang out all the tim, and go to the movies together!! Last august on my 15th b-day he kissed me, like making out wise & ever since then I have been confused. Everyone says we should just admit we like each other. I so want to tell him how i feel, but i am scared he might reject me & I would know what to do if he did. What should I do?
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well i definetly think you should tell him how you feel.and if he rejects(doubtfully) then just tell him that you dont want that to change anything in youir relationship,tell him that you still want to b good friends just like you are now.hope i helped XoXo
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♥ hey! from what you tell me, I think he likes you. i mean you too made out and you guys hang out all the time! I dont think he'd do all that if he didnt like you. I think you should tell him on e mail or AIM how you feel! I bet he will tell you the same! If your too scared then hang out a bit more or ask one of his friends how he feels about you && get your friends oppions about if they think he likes you or not. (friends are usually right) Good luck babe! i hope i helped! <3ALWAYS-LAUREN X0X0
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Go and tell him. Sit him down one on one and tell him. Tell him exactly what you wrote up there. Tell him that you didn't tell him earlier because you were afraid. It doesn't seem that theres a reason why he wouldn't accept that and tell you he likes you. Go for it and don't wait on it. Because if you let that chance go, you'll always be asking yourself the dreaded 'what if' question.
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ok the worst that could happen is he says no and your already prepared for that right? so what do you have to lose
belive me you'll feel worse if you dont tell him and never know then if you tell him and he rejects him
one of my friends told me that our worst regrets are those that we areselves could have prevented
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I think you should just tell him how you feel. You will feel so much better when its off your chest.Im sure he likes you too. I mean not many people will make out with them for no reason at all. So I think you should just tell him. And if he regects you then thats the way it was ment to be.Just think of it this way if he likes you and you like him, and yall never tell each other you will really regret it when you part with each other. Hope I helped! Im me if needed Sportychicc9393
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I think you should just go for it. If he rejets you, you will always know that you will still stay best friends. If you want you could find out from one of his friends. If he seems to flirt with you and things like that then maybe he does have a crush on you. You could just ask him how he feels about you and things like that. I dont think he would reject you tho
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Girl Go For It!! If he's really your best friend, he wouldn't let something like that get in the way or your friendship. My best friend told me he liked me and after he told me that i kinda started to like him too. Maybe that'll happen with yall. I mean the second someone tells you that they like you, it's always very flattering and even though ou don't admit it sometimes, you kinda develope feelings for them too, ya know what I'm sayin? I don't know that's just the way i look at it. Hope I helped and keep me posted! GOOD LUCK!!!
<3 ME*
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gp ahead and tell him how you feel and if he rejects it then just tell him that you wanted to get this off of your chest hope i helped!!
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Hey Sweety. Sup?? Well I think that you should tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same way. Trust me if he kissed you before than that means he's def. still got feelings 4 you somewhere deep inside. I just think that he's scared to express himself. Good Luck! xo>
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I don't think he'd reject you I mean he kissed you on your 15th birthday. Hopefully, he doesn't just want to be friends with benefits but I highly doubt that. I think you should give it a shot and tell him how you feel and ask him if he slightly feels the same way. If he rejects you just say I understand where you are coming from. That you might not want to go out with me because you may think it's awkward or you don't want to screw up our friendship, because me as well would rather have a friendship than nothing. Hope I helped. Good luck!
Buh bye,
ShanN*
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just think if you guys do go out and you break up you might not be good friends anymore <33 Try that
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if you trust him enough to tell him how you feel you should soo go 4 it!! he won't reject you bcuz hes been oyur friend 4 soo long!
i hope i helped and keep me posted!!
<33Kristin
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just tell him how you feel. if he really kissed you, then he obviously likes you as well. if he likes you, he wont reject you. and if he does, who cares? at least you told him how you felt =]. you wont know if you dont try. if you dont try, you'll end up regretting it later.
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You should tell him. I mean, I wouldn't want to leave myself wondering. I know its a big risk but like a wise person told me: the bigger the risk, the bigger the reward. If you need anything else or you just want to talk, IM me at beecuzzimcooool. Or just Inbox me. I'm always on but if I'm not, my away message will be up so just leave a message.
Hope I helped <33
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It's been a year and you are still confused about this? Get moving girl. If you get regected, then you get regected and things are wierd and painful for a little while. I promise you that you will get regected and life and after a year of wishing this guy is probably worth taking that risk for.
If you ever want anything to develope with this guy you are going to have to take the chance.
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Perhaps you should talk to one of his friends and get the scoop on this guy. Find out from his friend if he really does have feelings for you. If you find out he has feelings for you, Go for it! Ask him out! Be bold! Be brave! :) And if you find out that he doesn't have feelings for you, don't change anything and continue to be friends with this guy!
Good Luck!
-Katie
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