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ok, well, my bf's friend asked me if i would make out with my bf and i said i would. you see my bf had never made out with anyone before. so when we went to the movies with him and our friends something happend. all the guys were calling him a wuss bc he has never made out before and stuff. so anyway in the middle of the movie he turns to me and says "look, i love you but i dont want to mess anything up so can i kiss you?" and i was like...um...yea ok. so he was like.."lets do it then". i felt REALLY werid. so then everyone came and sat by us so we kinda stoped talking or doing anything. so then about...i would say 10 mins past and he said "ok, i know this is gonna be akward but im sorry". so out of no where he starts to make out with me. and im not saying it was bad but it felt werid. so after 3 seconds i pulled back and said "this feels weird". and he said sorry and stoped talking. so now i feel bad. i mean, i want him to kiss me bc he wants to and bc he likes me. not bc his buddies are making fun of him! so the question is...should i tell him why i pulled away? and was it bad for me to pull away? sould i say sorry? im so confused so I BEG OF YOU! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!! theres some 5's involed : ). (link)
i think you shoud tell him why you pulled away


I have a really cute guy friend name"Brock Bumbarger" & we have been friends for 3 years now. We hang out all the tim, and go to the movies together!! Last august on my 15th b-day he kissed me, like making out wise & ever since then I have been confused. Everyone says we should just admit we like each other. I so want to tell him how i feel, but i am scared he might reject me & I would know what to do if he did. What should I do? (link)
just think if you guys do go out and you break up you might not be good friends anymore


I'm 17 and i started going out with this boy who was 15 and i was 16 at the time. we went out for a month then i dumped him bc i didnt think i liked him anymore. We remained friends and started to become friends with benefits. Now i really regret breaking up with him i think about him alot. He started liking this other girl an we stopped talking. now over the summer we have drivers ed together and he kind of flirts with me and his gf is leaving for college this year. i dont know what i should do or what i should think...im really confused right now. any help would be great!! thanks. (link)
Breaking up

Yeah breaking up is hard to do. Ask him how hes been doing whats up with him and if he flirts with you flirt back. Talk to him and see what goes on if he and his GF break up there is your chance to go for it. Try that


Ok. I'm going on vacation to Brazil in less than a week and I'm gonna pierce my belly button there. I heard that salt water is good for the piercing. But I also heard that it's not good to go swimming ANYWHERE b/c it might get infected. I need to know if I could go swimming in the ocean while I'm Brazil (since the ocean is salt water you know)? Please answer! So important for me to know. I'll rate good! (link)
Belly button piercing

OK first of all think of who said it. And when you get there ask can i go swimming with this but if u don't ask you'll never no. Try that


hey, I really wanna kiss this boy but I dont know what would be a good time to do it.. We're usually not alone alot but sometimes we are, and he likes me. When would be the right time to do it? (link)
Whens the right time,

Ok maybe one night ask him out like to go see a movie or something. Find a movie where no one is really in and then kiss him. See what he does if he does like you then he might ask you out again. So if he does see how it will go for a couple months. Try that


Ive been with the same guy for what soon will be 5 years, and i love him with all my heart, he is my first love and i think im his first love too, ive given my all to him, but sometimes i feel he takes me for granted..theirs points were i cant stop crying, cuz its so hard, but truly hes the only one i have, im so in love and so scared to let go yet being with him is driving me crazy and i just dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!! i feel stuck because im so scared of being without him yet it hurts at the same time being with someone who wont commit with me and who will ignore me at times...AHHHH (im 22) (link)
How do i get over him,

OK i have been in this problem before so i no how you feel. Just tell him on a note that you don't really think that its working anymore but you just want to be friends and you think it will be much easier to be in a friend relationship with him then a love relationship. Try that


ok im about 5 foot and im 103 pounds...is that ok? im NOT skinny but im not sure wat you would call over weight. does anyone know if this is too fat? (link)
um...is this healthy?,

I no alot of people care about their weight but mostly you should be proud of the way you look and i am sure you are but wut i am saying is look up the weight for your age and if its to much then you'll no wut to do but if it isn't then ur good and just have a great summer. Try that


This is kind of a long story. So I've been friends with this guy for about 5 or 6 years now. Best friends at that. Well recently I found out he was going to be moving a long way away from here. I've been through so much with him, but now I hardly speak to him and he's moving in less than a week. It all happend so suddenly. I've always had a big group of friends and people that I also consider best friends as well, but he was sort of in a league of his own friendship wise just becuase of everything we've been through. Now I'm always with these other people that he use to be with as well, until we found out he was moving. In the past month I've become so close to two of the people, and so much futher away from him. I don't feel right talking to him anymore, but I feel even worse when I don't. I haven't hung out with him in awhile, and now he's moving. I just don't know what to do or say. Once he's gone it'll be too late but I don't know how to approach the subject now, before it's too late. And the last time we did hang out, every little thing he did seemed bother the he.ll out of me. Which doesn't help my situation at all. Any advice would be greatly appreciated :) (link)
An old friend,

Well what i think you should do is you should maybe bring him something hang out with him remind him of all the good times u guys had together. And just try to get the guts to actually say look we havent hung out in a while and i no ur going to move and i still wanna keep in touch with you. Try that




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