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breaking up
I'm 17 and i started going out with this boy who was 15 and i was 16 at the time. we went out for a month then i dumped him bc i didnt think i liked him anymore. We remained friends and started to become friends with benefits. Now i really regret breaking up with him i think about him alot. He started liking this other girl an we stopped talking. now over the summer we have drivers ed together and he kind of flirts with me and his gf is leaving for college this year. i dont know what i should do or what i should think...im really confused right now. any help would be great!! thanks.
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So long as he has a girlfriend do nothing. He could just be looking for more benefits which should not happen. If he breaks up with girlfriend and wants to start a serious relationship...not just friends with benefits BS,then go for it if its what you want.
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Ok. what i think you should do is. tell his girl friend he's a two timing freak and beat the shit out of him for hitting on you while he has a girl friend.(or let his girl friend beat him up if and when she finds out).
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Breaking up
Yeah breaking up is hard to do. Ask him how hes been doing whats up with him and if he flirts with you flirt back. Talk to him and see what goes on if he and his GF break up there is your chance to go for it. Try that
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It seems to me like he's covering all the bases. Since his girlfriend's leaving for college this year, he doesn't want to be alone or miss out on sex. If he's still dating the other girl and sleeping with you, he's cheating. What makes you think he won't be the same way with you? I would wait to see if he breaks it off with his girlfriend before deciding what to do. A friends with benefits relationship does work in some cases, but a lot of times it's just a way of getting no-strings sex. Follow your heart but think hard before renewing your relationship with this guy.
Good luck.
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so pretty much you all were just fuck buddies? well i dont understand because you sed in your other question that it hurt everytime so far... so is he just using you??? i dont understand what you are getting out of the whole "friends with benifits" thing??? but for this question- if you really do regret breaking up with him then you probly do still like him!!! tell him how you feel and see what happens!!!!
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I know it seems weird but ask him out! It may feel a lot harder because he has a girlfriend but it won't hurt to try. If that doesn't work and things turn out bad OR if you don't want to try and you think it's a bad idea, then let me know and I'll get right on it! haha. I'll answer ASAP. Good Luck and hope i helped!
Julie ^o^
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