I have these two really good friends, one is a guy, the other a girl. Well they've liked each other for a while, so they're kind of off limits to everyone, but the girl (it will be easier just to call her Meghan) doesn't want a boyfriend. Well the guy (let's call him Seth) seems to think they are together. Then I was on AIM with Seth later, he said he thought Meghan was an ugly idiot. Well I got pissed and said some things I regret that include... some words I'm rather ashamed of saying. So of course he got angry with me. So then I had to tell Meghan what he said, and she got angry with me for telling her! And now, they're both mad at each other and it's all very confusing. Who knew entering middle school would result in so much drama!
Help! Is there any way to smooth things out between all of us?
Teza answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 12:41 am: First of all you should of kept your mouth shut but of course you didnt want Seth talking behind Meghans back and in a way its good you told. You should apologize to both of them and tell them you didnt mean to start anything and that you regret it all. Tell them to get over it because you all are still best friends no matter what and its just ridicoulus (sp) that you guys are arguing. And hon.. middle school is ALL about drama!! Im soo glad that this is my last year.. you just have to learn not to take bull from lil bit*hes! Lol good luck babe! [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
ViTaChaN answered Monday August 8 2005, 11:57 pm: Well tell both of them that you didn't mean to hurt their feelings.And you just want to tell them the truth..Hope I helped!
CarlOfTheMountain answered Monday August 8 2005, 10:25 pm: I can't tell you exactly what to say and do. However, before I get into that, let's recap on what you did. It's reasonable that you got made a Seth and said some things you regret. Happens to the best of us. Now, where you messed up was telling Meghan what was said. If you had mabye said that Seth was being rude, or saying things he shouldn't, but I don't know how anyone would take something that didn't happen.
As for smoothing things out, have any of you spoken with each other alltogether? An explanation is needed, i.e. from Seth for why he'd say something like that or to Meghan as to why you told her. Things will probably work out for the best. Good luck with your friends. [ CarlOfTheMountain's advice column | Ask CarlOfTheMountain A Question ]
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