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does anyone know that song that goes like "what was i thinking??" its a country song i think. thanks! (link)
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yeah dude, it's called "What was I thinkin'?"
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I have these two really good friends, one is a guy, the other a girl. Well they've liked each other for a while, so they're kind of off limits to everyone, but the girl (it will be easier just to call her Meghan) doesn't want a boyfriend. Well the guy (let's call him Seth) seems to think they are together. Then I was on AIM with Seth later, he said he thought Meghan was an ugly idiot. Well I got pissed and said some things I regret that include... some words I'm rather ashamed of saying. So of course he got angry with me. So then I had to tell Meghan what he said, and she got angry with me for telling her! And now, they're both mad at each other and it's all very confusing. Who knew entering middle school would result in so much drama!
Help! Is there any way to smooth things out between all of us? (link)
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I can't tell you exactly what to say and do. However, before I get into that, let's recap on what you did. It's reasonable that you got made a Seth and said some things you regret. Happens to the best of us. Now, where you messed up was telling Meghan what was said. If you had mabye said that Seth was being rude, or saying things he shouldn't, but I don't know how anyone would take something that didn't happen.
As for smoothing things out, have any of you spoken with each other alltogether? An explanation is needed, i.e. from Seth for why he'd say something like that or to Meghan as to why you told her. Things will probably work out for the best. Good luck with your friends.
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I have a friend who is a cutter. She has been for as long as I can remember. Lately, we have become best friends and I felt like cutting, too. Not because I have a bad home life or because I have stress in my life or anything like that because I don't, but I think it's because I am best friends with her now. I did cut my legs up pretty bad just 2 weeks ago, but then I never did it again and now they are healed. I keep getting the urges to cut, and then I tell myself not to. But I still can't help but feel so influenced by her to cut myself. A long time ago I used to cut because I liked it, but that didn't last long and wasn't as obsessed with it as I am now. I love this girl with all my heart. She really is a GREAT friend that I had since pre-school, but I need help with trying to stop thinking about the whole idea of cutting all together. I must admitt that I did REALLY like it, but I know that it is unhealthy. But I STILL get those urges and they keep getting bigger and bigger .. HELP !* signed., helpless soul (link)
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As some of these brilliant minds are of no use to you, cursing and ranting about how you are crazy, dont listen. however, do listen to people like grandma. You need to tell somebody, you cant beat this by yourself. Talk with someone, you might not be interested in telling your parents, maybe a councelor? www.dmlive.com they can help if you need someone to talk to or something. But your friend should kick the habit, you never know if you might go too far. But this is about you, not her. It might cause immediate relief to you, but it will have long term, bad effects
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I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."
I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.
I can't believe this. :( (link)
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Ok, listen up. There's nothing wrong with you. Don't worry yourself, he's not worth it. An idiot like himself deserves a girl like Shea. He'll think he's gettin a girl, but in reality, he's going to be dumped (if theyre going out now) embarassed, and ultimitly feeling awful. Trust me, He's gonna get what's comin to him, these things come back to bite you. And believe me, he's gonna get his. You arent whining, it's reasonable to be upset over somethin as rude as this. I myself have been sent an e-mail declaring I was officialy dumped. She sent that to everyone on her mailing list. But yeah, you'll bounce back, This guy's gonna fall on his face.
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I'm 15/f. There's this guy that I like, but I'm afraid to try to talk to him, b/c a friend started saying things about us that aren't true. So I don't know what he thinks about all of it, so it might be a little weird for me to talk to him. But I really like him. What should I do? I'll rate 5's for good advice. (link)
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Not much of a friend would start rumors about you, but that's a different subject alltogether. You should sit him down and talk. Disspell the rumors, he should understand. Believe it or not, guys hate rumors and alo of us don't believe them untill we see it for ourselves. Besides, if he's involved in them too, he knows it's false and will want it to stop also. Just talk with him, he won't be too odd, trust me.
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i have a problem.. see im gettin over this guy who i posted a lot about in my other questions.. but he had a gf so im gettin over him.. but i have a friend and hes been helping me alot with this.. hes been my shoulder to cry on and i think im startin to like him.. the thing is he is too.. BUT he recently told one of my best friends that he likes her.. now shes gettin clingy and there not even goin out and shes gettin obsessive! hes not sure wats hes gonna do bc hes not sure if he still likes her.. but he always tells me not to worry about it and how confused he is and stuff.. i talk to him for hours on the phone and today i was sitting in church and she was in between us and next to him was my other good friend ashley.. she turns to me and goes.. i dont like how ashley is with dan .. shes startin to get me madd..shes flirting with him soo much.. im like ashley has a bf.. but wat really bothered me was that she has noo idea wats going on! i dont want her to get hurt but i have a feelin he doesnt like her that much anymore and i dont know wat to do bc if she said that about ashley, wat would she say about me??? wat do i do??
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Allright, let me get this straight; you're starting to like your friend and he's starting to have the same feelings for you. You're friend thinks he likes her completely and is upset because she thinks that one of your friends is tryin to get close to Dan. But you know she isn't because she has a boyfriend. You're angry because she doesn't know what's going on and upset because you don't know what she'' say about you and Dan. Dan's friend likes you and you love him to death for being there for you also.
Ok, you and Dan like each other and he's not so sure he has feelings for you're friend anymore. Ashley doesn't know what's going on. You shouldn't let a guy destroy your friendship. I'm not sure how you feel about Dan's friend, but he'd probably understand. You might could explain things to your friend and his, shed some light on this mess. If a disagreement over a guy can tear you and your friend apart, then it seems you have reached a parting of the ways. You're at a crossroads, just try and make the best choice for yourself.
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Im going into 7th grade and never had a bf!
Everyone tells me im pretty and I've been popular and everything at my school. Im even a model!
But I dont brag or anything
But anyways theres this boy I like and I really want to get closer to him. Once he tried to kiss me but my mom walked into the house and he stopped. And now were kinda like friends. Is there anything I can do to get him to like me again? (link)
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Listen up, you really shouldn't worry about gettin a guy quite yet. I mean, it's great and all, just don't get yourself tied in a knot because you havent had a boyfriend yet. Now, as to your question, chances are, he might still like you. After all, he shouldn't give up because of suck a minor setback. If you try to hard to get him to see you in a different light though, you might scare him off. Take it a step at a time. Don't worry, guys will probably be throwing themselves at you in a year or so.
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wow i cant handle this.. i like this guy a lott!! and hes always soo sweet to me and we had a lot of good times together and he told my friends he likes me and he told me he did.. but we wereon the trampoline and i wouldnt kiss him bc i didnt want to get him sick.. and all the other times i rejected him bc ive never kissed a guy before.. but i ddint really care anyway so i called him twice the next day he didnt answer.. so i left him alone.. the next day my best friend called him and then i called him and he came over my other friends house.. he totally ignored me .. he flirted with one of my friends and then said that i wouldnt get with him anyway so it didnt matter.. that really hurt bc i was gonna kiss him but he just didnt wait.. now i miss him like crazy and i need to know what to do!! do i call him? forget about him? leave him alone? HELLPP!!!
i rate HIGH!!!
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Ok, listen up. This boy here is one you shouldn't really take up on. However, many guys can flirt and flirt and flirt, but at the end of the day we only think of the girl we like. Now, whether or not he really did like you and just got frustrated with the waiting or he just wanted your body remains to be seen. Now see, you can teach him a lesson in lovin and leavin. Forget about the schmuck, have fun, meet other guys. If he can't wait for you, he doesn't deserve you.
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the past week my boyfriend and I got in a huge fight. now he thinks I'll be mad at him forever and never trust him again. he says I don't care about him anymore. so I want to buy/make something that shows AND tells that I care about him and I'll always be there no matter what. My friend said buy him a little teddy bear and attach a note in its hand saying "I'll always be there no matter what." I thought that was cute but I need more ideas. I don't want to go anywhere, I want to give him something. Keep it cheap. Also give me a cute little line to say. thanks. (link)
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It's great that you still care and it's ok to feel guilty, but you don't have to buy him something. You see, some things mean more to a guy than material possesions. Alot of guys have "secret spots" places where we go to sit and think. I don't know about you, but if you have one, take him to it. If not, you could just talk with him.
But if you want to give give him a gift, just keep it simple, if he's a baseball fan, you could get a pair of cheap tickets to a local game. As for a cute line "it's never been so nice to have someone around who believes in love." Good luck with you boy problems.
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Hi guys.
Sorry if this is really long...i rate high.
Alrighty.
Well i have a boyfriend and i love him to death. We've been together for over 3 months and ever since ive knwn him he never EVER talks about his problems.
If i know somehtings wrong he'll say things like.."Its not important" or "Its nothing" when i can seeeee that its bothering him a lot. I want him to know that he doesnt need to act all tough around me. And i need him to know that he can talk to me about anything. I just dont know what to say to him.
Ive tried the usual..."you know im always here for you" and all that and he says he knows but it doesnt change anything.
Do you guys have anything i could say or do that would get him to know that im always there...and ready to listen?
Any advice is great advice!!
Thanks...
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Allright, it seems as if you're boyfriend is a typical man. Go figure. If he does tell you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice. OR, sometimes it could be that he's thinking WAY too much. One small thing you might have done, even if yoy didn't notice it can make him think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.
Don't worry, he'll probably come around soon. He might be trying to protect you from something, or he might be very embarassed. Either way, he'll probably end up loosening up and tellin you what's bothering him. I wouldn't read too far into it if I were you.
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